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Hi there, I am not an astrologer but a regular visitor to the forum. just went through your query out of curiosity and wanted to point out that you haven't mentioned your place of birth which would be equally essential for the analysis of your birth chart. Kind regards

Respected all learned astrologers, I kindly seek advice from all of you for my younger sister who's going through a very difficult phase of her life. My Sis's details: DOB: 09/06/1981 TOB: 11:45 AM POB: Delhi Her Husband's details: DOB: 20/04/1980 TOB: 05:00 AM POB: Delhi Date of Marriage: 12/03/2007 (Arranged after horoscope matching) Her husband is very careless with financial matters. He is always more interested in getting money by easing means- share market et al. This has already caused a lot of financial mess for them and there seems to be no hope of any good change in his attitude in near future either despite my sis's best efforts. I kindly urge all here for help. I have been blessed with your timely help in the past and eagerly look forward this time too. I am deeeply concerned for my sis's future as I wonder if her husband's careless attitude can extend towards her too resulting in marital disharmony. regards

Respected all, Thank you very much for your valuable advice and time. and spl thanx to ppenaji for suggesting a wonderful book and also for reviewing my horoscope on my other thread. I would also like to share the addresses of the websites with my other amateur learners of this amazing science: 1. http://www.learnjyotishnow.com/Course_Contents.html -- really liked this one for pure starter. The next few are some of the websites I visit as a combination study material along with the former: 2. http://www.yournetastrologer.com/basic/b01.htm 3. http://www.geocities.com/clarity2020/begin.htm 4. http://www.yournetastrologer.com/sitemap.htm Hoping response from more friends here. Cheers

Respected Ppenaji, Thank you very much for your reply. Substantiating your reply, the rahu AD indeed affected me materially adversely- I left my permanent govt job in India to move to UK wid my husband, and no success in job search here either. Also tried reading for PhD, but felt some secret force pulling me back, hence no success. At the same time, have successfully started reading astrology, bit of tarot et al and feel very pleased and satiated. Thank you for suggesting the appropriate stones but unfortunately it won't be possible for me to wear any as am living in Uk. I would highly appreciate if you can suggest any puja etc if possible. I pray durga maa almost every day and put kesar tilak. The latter has sply helped to stabilise my freaking mind:) Kind regards

Respected all, I am running rahu (placed in 12th house) mahadasa and antardasa. I've read that rahu supposedly affects a person's age negatively. I would please like to be enlightened about how the position of rahu in my horo should be interpreted. date of birth: 29/04/1977 time: 9:00 pm place: Delhi Kind regards

Hi all I would also like to convey my appreciation and regards for the great people on this forum who are helping everyone in need in such a selfless manner. Hats off to all you guys. YOU TRULY ROCK!!! I visited this forum about a month and a half back and am completely addicted to this now. Though I always wanted to learn astrology but I guess after being a part of this forum I am all the more motivated and look forward to being of some help myself:) even if that may be a long time ahead but at least I've made a beginning;) Cheers and best

Dear Ruchi, I completely agree with ppena ji. Sweetheart, this life is too precious to be wasted for a "loveless marriage of convenience". Am sure you would like to aim better, achieve more in life. Marriage will happen at the God willed right time. So why not take this time as an opportunity to achieve something else and more so, enjoy all this time with your parents and friends- something you'll cherish after you are married when you'll be missing all this(and that I can say from my own personal experience!).

Hi all, I am an amateur learner of astrology with very deep failth in this science. I live in UK, hence don't have much access to books on this subject. Hence, am mainly doing most of my reading of basics from a couple of very useful websites. I would like to request the esteemed members here to kindly suggest more websites which may help me in my study . And also any useful tips on the learning process itself as I don't have a "guru" and trying to do most learning on my own. Kind regards

Dear Mooni, Thats is exactly how you shuld be doing-- taking each day as it comes. I completely agree that its always easier said than done but with right attitude and focus it always does get done. and imagine the feeling of ecstasy and achievement at that point of time- I am sure it would have no match. So, just go for it. Focus on your aim and keep urself enuf involved in activities on hand that you get no time for thinking about any useless people. Cheers and best wishes:) :)

Dear Mish18, Lovely to read your note and know that you've taken all the advice in good spirit. I might be crossing my limits by trying to give you some further advice but please excuse. I am very happy to know that you are honestly trying to put some positive inputs into your marriage. I myself am married to a very loving and caring man but sometimes when I am irritated wid him, I do tend to act very unreasonably. But I guess that's only until the point when I realize that my husband genuinely wants to patch up. So, just be a bit more patient. All that a wife ever needs is her husband's honest love and after that she can go to any limits for him. and my friend, that is the only golden rule of any marriage;) Best wishes

Just believe in yourself. Keep your heart aside for a while and think of your life in a more holistic way. You certainly have more important things to do in life than just think of this man who clearly lacks committment. There is much more you might like to achieve- personally and professionally for yourself and for your loved ones- parents and family etc. Try to regain the focus of your life. Its not easy but definately not impossible either. Best wishes for a brighter future:) :)

Dear mish18, I would first like to complement you for being one of the rarest of rare males to accept that the problems in your married life are because of your own self-admitted wrong perception of your wife rather than putting all the blame on your wife. Next, I might disappoint you by telling that I am also not an astrologer but wanted to write a small friendly note to help saviour your marriage. 1. As an individual, all of us in this world expect to marry a "perfect person"-- perfect in both body and mind. but unfortunately in reality that never happens. The best part being that it is as true for your wife as much for you!!! 2. I appreciate that you accept that lack of physical attraction is a hinderance-- but have you ever tried to find out if all those other "more beautiful/attractive ladies" would find you as attractive as your wife does? would they be willing to shower all their love and care on you as your wife does? Am sure not-- for the simple reason that they are looking for a more perfect man than yourself. well, that's some food for thought for you, in all humility. I wish your wife can get back wat she deserves!!!

Respected members, please please help me. I am very depressed about my future. I see so many posts by members to other people and was very sure of help and possible upayas for my situation. Please please advice. Kind regards

respected varaprasadji, Thank you very much for writing. The period that you mentioned was in fact one of the most difficult in my life emotionally but definately significant cause during that time only, my husband moved abroad. and also my son finally started showing significant health improvements after very serious medical problems since his birth in jan 2004. I would please like to ask you 2 specific queries: 1. Regarding my career, do you see a change of career or will I be able to continue in my past profession. I am deeply anxious about it since for the first time in my life, my best efforts are not paying any results at all. 2. since about january 2007, I am having minor but continuous health problems which is another reason for my persistent depression specially cause I have been a fairly healthy person thruout my life. Also do you agree with respected Ppena's advice of wearing a ruby and pearl. If so, is it ok to wear them in say a pendant cause as I am living abroad, it may not be possible for me to get a ring made of my size from India. Please please advice. and help me enjoy my wonderful life :)

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Respected varaprasad ji I am the person who originally posted this post for my sister seema. hence, the birth details given in the beginning are that of seema's only. I shall nevertheless mention again: Dob:04 aug 1973 Time of Birth :11:07 pm place of birth: Karnal(Haryana) Sorry for the confusion. Kind regards

Myself, seema is the one whose horoscope my sister is being discussed. I want to very specific in asking "whether i would have any association outside marriage, and to what extent it will affect me emotionally, and physically"

Respected Ppena ji, Thank you very much for your reply. I shall definately try to follow your advice. I shall also like to request other respected astrologers in this forum to please look into my problem and advice. Thanx very much again

respected varaprasadji, Thank you very much for your reply. You are absolutely right about the past phases indeed. Thank you very much again for analyzing her horoscope. I am indeed quite relieved. Can I please request you to look into my other query regarding my own career posted in the same forum elsewhere under the topic "problems in restarting my career". I would be highly grateful. Kind regards

Hello, I am facing some serious problems in finding a breakthrough professionally for myself after a career break of about 27 months. MY dob is <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:date Month="4" Day="29" Year="1977">29/04/1977</st1:date>; time of birth: 2100hrs and place is birth is <st1:City><st1:place>Delhi</st1:place></st1:City>. In detail, I moved abroad with my husband after taking leave from my permanent govt job in academics in mar 2006. Now for the last 1 year I have been trying to look for a job here but with no success(I get brilliant feedback from the interviewers but no job offers). I have always been told that I would leave my job for my husband. I guess I am currently in that phase. But I know that there is much more I want to do in life than just sit at home. Meanwhile,I am going thru some strange things: twice I tried start studying for PhD but just gave up(complete lack of interest or some unseen force pulling me back<?xml:namespace prefix = v ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:vml" /><v:shapetype id=_x0000_t75 stroked="f" filled="f" path="m@4@5l@4@11@9@11@9@5xe" o:preferrelative="t" o:spt="75" coordsize="21600,21600"> )</v:shapetype>. While contrarily, I started reading astrology just a week earlier completely on my own and I guess I am doing quite good for myself as a beginner. I am totally confused as to what does future has in store for me. I have had my phases of serious depression and I guess now am just curious while still hoping for something good to turn up. Kind regards<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:" /><o:p> </o:p>

respected deepaji, Thank you very much again. You have very well summed up my concerns in precise words. This friend of hers(unfortunately I haven't met him yet) has been a great source of positive outlet for my sis in the past few weeks which has even helped her to solve a few issues in her own marriage. But only because of the negative time ahead, I was having my concerns. I shall certainly ensure that she follows the recommended remedies. Thank you very much again. Kind regards

Respected deepa ji, Thank you very much for your reply. I shall definately advice my sis to follow your advice. Can I please also ask you if the forthcoming problems in her life can be marriage related, extramarital or something. She has recently befriended a person who is also married and though they are good friends but I am having my concerns. Unfortunately she has never had a very happy married life. But now that everything is going so good for her professionally and with her kids, I am scared to bits. Please advice further. thank you very much for your time. Kind regards

I am very delighted to have found this wonderfully helpful forum. I would please like to have some advice for my sister. her date of birth is 04/08/1973; time of birth is 11:07pm; place of birth is karnal(haryana). She is doing professionally very very well but i have some serious concerns for her forthcoming personal life. I think its all the more because of some very unclear predictions about her in the past regarding the time immediately after her 35th bday which is on 04/08/2008. Please advice. Thank you very much.