ravikishore 0 Report post Posted July 16, 2008 Hello, I'm in a situation where I don't know whether to continue seeking help from a spiritual person (I've known for the past 6 months through newspaper ad) or not. He has helped me in the past, in making a decision for my sister's marriage. My sister chose to marry a person from a different community. So, I was exploring ways to prevent her from doing so. That is when I saw his ad and approached him. He performed a mini puja (some tantric thing, I guess). He said he can prepare something that I would mix in a drink and give my sister. In 48 hours, it'll show its effect and my sister will feel develop reversion for that person. He guaranteed that much. But, he also said that the person my sister chose is a nice person and advised me to let my sister marry him. Another spiritual guru that I've had for a long time had actually told me this (that the person my sister chose is good) beforehand. So, I was slightly relieved that he wasn't entirely commercial and did have the ability to give advice without his financial gain in mind. I chose to not go ahead with my endeavor to stop my sister from marrying that person. This was nearly 3 months ago. Now, I happen to like a nice girl who's profile I saw on a marriage portal, but she (and her family) are not interested. Her father said that the age difference is too high (8.5 years) to consider our alliance. Because, I'd like to marry this girl, I consulted the person whom I approached earlier regarding my sister's marriage. He said he can certainly help me by changing this girl's mind so that she and her family are receptive to our alliance. He said it'll take a min of 16 days and a maximum of 40 days in order accomplish this task. He also said that he'll start the puja tonight. That caught my attention and arose a suspicion about what kind of method he is using to accomplish this task. As far as I know, any 'good' puja is performed during the day. So, when he said he'll start the puja in the night, I became suspicious of his means. I had previously asked him if he performs black magic. He said no; and, all he does is white magic, which is a rare skill which, his guru imparted to only 12 people (in all of south india), including this person. Now, in the scenario where he is performing black magic or some other unwelcome means of doing the task, I'm worried and scared if I'll beget bad karma. Is my fear/concern valid? Has anyone been in this situation before? I really like the girl and want to marry her (no dowry or anything such thing). Do you think I should go ahead and continue seeking help from this person? (Of course, assuming that he'll indeed succeed in his effort to bring our alliance to fruition.) In the event that going ahead with this is wrong, and I still chose to do it, is/are there any way(s) to get rid of the ill-effects/bad karma that I would befall me? The resaon why I've provided a detailed account of events is that I want to make sure I don't suffer from the ill-effects (if any) of my action (if it is wrong, that is). Your suggestions are appreciated. Thanks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deepa.bhandari 0 Report post Posted July 16, 2008 Stay away. You might as extend heartfelt prayers to God. You are inviting a cruel death for yourself, whenever it comes. Deepa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ravikishore 0 Report post Posted July 16, 2008 Hello Deepaji, Thank you for the advice. In that case, is there any mantra or anything that I can do for the next one month (before the end of shraavan period) to make my wish (of marrying the girl I like) come true? I'm a spiritual person myself; so, kindly show a way to fulfilling my desire. Thank You. Stay away. You might as extend heartfelt prayers to God. You are inviting a cruel death for yourself, whenever it comes. Deepa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ppena 0 Report post Posted July 16, 2008 Hello Deepaji, Thank you for the advice. In that case, is there any mantra or anything that I can do for the next one month (before the end of shraavan period) to make my wish (of marrying the girl I like) come true? I'm a spiritual person myself; so, kindly show a way to fulfilling my desire. Thank You. deepa.bhandari is absolutely right. Stay away from these things they will cause massive karmic debt. Such evil/manipulative actions ALWAYS cause misfortune in the end. If you like this girl so much try again. Send a note saying why you like her so much and try and convince her in a straightforward manner. If she's still not interested then find another girl. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kavya 0 Report post Posted July 17, 2008 thank u. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
