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I am posting this for my sister. She is currently going through a very difficult time in her life. Major losses in life and she is currently separated from her husband and are not even communicating. Will she get re-united. Will she be happy living with her husband. Are there any remedies that can be performed.

 

her details:

DOB: July 3, 1980

Time of Birth: 21:00 Hours IST

POB: Kollam, Kerala

 

 

his details:

DOB: July 27, 1973

Time of Birth: 03:10 AM IST

POB: Madurai, TamilNadu

 

Date of Marriage: May 6, 2005.

 

Appreciate your help,

 

Sunsri

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OM GURUBHYO NAMAH

 

namaste

 

dear sunsri,

 

sorry , i could not respond earlier.

 

your sister has to start fasting on tuesdays from sunrise to

sunset. donate the food saved so to a needy.

 

she has to pray srilakshmi. she can chant any sloka of srilakshmi.

she may start with little ones first and gradually build.

the prayer must be intense and the bhava must flow from the heart

and soul.

 

she must chant the following during rahu kaala every day after lighting

a lamp.. .. rahu kaala is for one and half hour. it would be better if she

utilises most part of this kaala for worship.

 

" om namo bhagavathe mantra tatwa lingaaya

yagnya kratave mahatwara avayavaaya mahapurushaaya namah

karma shuklaaya tri yugaaya namaste."

 

 

 

did the separation was during sometime around apr -06 to july 06 ?

and

was the thaali tied sometime between 07:30 to 09:06 hrs ?

 

 

may mother bless all

 

regards

 

sasisekaran.

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thank you for analyzing the charts. i will ask my sister to follow the remedies suggested sincerely.

 

we don't remember the exact time the thaali was tied. the muhurtham for the thaali dharanam was 7:30 to 8:30 am on May 6, 2005. We think it was more around 8am that the actual thaali was tied.

 

Childlessness was not an issue since they were planning on having a child only after 3 years.

 

they had small differences since the start of the marriage. we thought it will get resolved eventually over time but we don't know the complete details of the issues. their first major disagreement and separation was in aug/sep 2005( they were living separately for about 4 weeks).

 

Q: Will she be happy if she goes back to live with her spouse or will she be having constant disagreements/difference of opinion?

 

Q: Will she and her spouse be able to put all their differences behind and live happily together and raise a family?

 

thanks

Sunsri

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OM GURUBHYO NAMAH

 

namaste

 

dear sunsri,

 

it is better she has some counselling. the sooner the better it is.

in another year or so, ashtama sani will start. along with this

mercury dasa will start. the very same mercury in its period

brought the initial separation.

 

the advice she receives must be constructive and should correct her.

'anger' is exhibited in her realtions.

 

i dont foresee any happiness in her married life if she maintains

this attitude and breaking relationships for silly matters.

 

unless she understands that her life has not started on a sound

footing, it will be too difficult to proceed from here. ask

her do the remedies and also seek advice from " balanced heads ".

 

all these are observed in the chart.

 

she must tide over the initial difficulties.

 

 

may mother bless all

 

regards

 

sasisekaran

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Let us examine your sister's chart first. She is running the major and sub-periods of Mercury since January 15, 2008. This will continue till June 12, 2010. Mercury is with a friendly Rahu. Jupiter relates it to Saturn. It is placed in the XII house from Saturn. Hence it has the tendency to change and separate. Mercury is placed in the VII house from the ascendant. This is the house of marriage. Mercury is in Cancer. The Moon has gone to Aquarius which is the VII house from Jupiter. Aquarius for her is the specific house of marriage. From itself, Mercury owns the XII house and it is related to the VII house. Hence the major-period and sub-period would cause separation. It is also related to the XI house from itself. Hence it also shows reconciliation and restitution in marriage. The inter-periods would play a vital role. The inter-period of Mercury continues till May 18 this year. There can be no reconciliation till this date. The inter-period of Ketu starts thereafter. This lasts till July 9. This will not help. The inter-period of Venus follows and lasts till December 2, 2008. Venus is in Rohini constellation of the Moon. The Moon and Saturn are in sambandha in the birth chart. Venus is thus related to the VII house from Mercury and it occupies the XI from it. Venus is with Jupiter in the navamsha chart. Therefore there would be a reconciliation during the inter-period (antar dasa) of Venus.She must recite Vishnusahasranama if she wishes for a reconciliation. Let us now come to your brother-in-law's chart.

In his chart, the major-period current is that of Jupiter.It is debilitated.It owns the XII house from itself and is in Sravan constellation of the Moon.The Moon owns the VII house from Jupiter. Venus is the karaka for marriage in a male chart. It is in Gemini in the mavamsha chart. Mercury is with the Sun in Cancer. Jupiter is in a sign of Saturn. It appears that there is some weakness of character on the part of the gentleman that his wife is not willing to accept. Therefore stage is set for a separation during this major-period.

The current sub-period of Mars in Jupiter shows both separation and reconciliation. It seems he is inclined for reconciliation even now but his wife is adamant. There can however be no reconciliation once the sub-period of Mars ends on August 28, 2008.

Taking the two charts together, I can say that there is a possibility of reonciliation, but for this the two parties have to make an effort so that it comes through in July-August this year. If it does not happen at that time, matters would harden and it may not come about for the next several years.

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OM GURUBHYO NAMAH

 

namaste

 

dear sunsri,

unless both charts are negatively poised this sort

of minor misunderstanding will not lead to separation

for a long time.

 

both of them lack in application of intelligence.

this is shown in charts. though it is not my duty to be

judgemental as to who lacks more, it is better and

in fact it is my duty to convey what is seen in the charts.

 

while in the wife's chart her lagna lord is uncomfortable,

moon is uncomfortable in the husband's chart.

 

both their atmakarakas are placed in the seventh in navamsa !

the block is at the soul level.

 

husband may observe upavasa from sunrise to sunset on saturdays.

donate the food so saved to a needy.

 

husband may provide thaali to a poor lady for getting married.

he may also arrange for a "thirukalyanam " to the Lord and Lordess.

 

he may also pl chant " om namo narayana " eight lack times.

 

i am surprised you are asking for parihara to be done by the husband.

when both of them are not in talking terms , how this would reach him ?

and if he is willing to do this, does this show that they are ready to get

united but needs someone to initiate ?

 

may mother bless all

 

regards

 

sasisekaran

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dear sasisekaran ji,

 

thank you for looking at the boys chart.

it was an arranged marriage - our astrologer(maternal uncle) said that there is very good matching of charts and we then proceeded with the wedding. even now he maintains that both the charts are very good match and this is a short term problem.

in oct/nov 2007 we made contact with the boy's maternal uncle to help but with no success. they are very religious and orthodox people. so maybe we can appeal to their senses.

there are 2 thoughts running in the family - one is to reconcile and the other is to part ways. if this is a short-term phase and doing the right pariharams will help them reconcile their differences, we are for their re-union. If they will be cat and mouse for ever and miserable and make everyone else also miserable, then it might be better to go separate ways. for a girl, being separated and trying to establish life is very difficult but then who can fight vidhi.

 

Q: is it possible to look at a chart and predict 2 marriages?

 

 

thanks

Sunsri

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OM GURUBHYO NAMAH

 

namaste

 

dear sunsri,

 

if both of them are mindset to stay put where they are, it is

too difficult. at least some one should come down leaving their

ego. if ego is given importance, the price one should pay for it

is very high, which though understood by both husb and wife, it

will not be untill they go through and experience it in the coming years,

the impact can be understood in real terms.

 

i dont see any good period for the lady atleast in coming three years.

 

this is a typical case where an ordinary astrology kuta matching has

failed. two year separation is not small. kuta matching is very basic.

the charts should be studied independantly in all respects before one

goes into marriage.

 

what is the actual problem with your sister ?

is orthodox a problem ?

 

may mother bless all

 

regards

 

sasisekaran.

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dear sasisekaran ji,

 

our family is very orthodox and religious.

my sister is very sensitive person and she feels that her spouse is very mean, harsh with words and doesn't care for her and doesn't appreciate her. they have difference in mindset and attitude towards life. they can never agree on the same thing. the boy is very stubborn and very big miser - very calculating. Boy is NOT orthodox when following traditions but religious and frequently goes to temple. he is focussed/obsessed on work and has very few friends and not much of social life.

 

boy's parents say - we want boy and girl to be happy. the boy and girl are educated, consenting adults, who got married with their own free will( even though the match making was arrranged). we can't force our old fashioned views or be a judge to decide who/what is right or wrong. they don't want either boy or girl to blame them for playing favorites. it is an issue for both of them to resolve. if they can't resolve their differences now - how can they raise a family and spend life together?

 

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Sunsri

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dear sasisekaran ji,

 

it was completely arranged marriage. horoscopes were exchanged and when they matched - the parents met, the boys parents met with the girl and then the boy and girl talked on phone and email for nearly 10 months and then there was girl seeing ceremony. 6 months later the wedding was organized.

 

the boys parents say - the boy liked the girl and the girl liked the boy - that is why after 10 months of conversation and interaction - they finally agreed to meet face to face and liked each other and decided to get married. after 6 months the wedding was arranged. no one was forced to marry any one. it was out of their own will and with the blessings of the elders that boy and girl agreed to get married. now they have differences they should resolve them. they are grown-ups and have to take responsibility for their words and actions.

 

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Sunsri

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Dear sunsri,

 

With due honours and respect to Shri saisekaran ji and U Sanjeeva Rao ji, I would like to add a little input after analysing your sister's chart.

 

I strongly agree with Sasisekaran ji that this is a typical case of koot matching gone wrong.

 

Also, kindly give a lot of weight to USRji's analyses. Its a fact that the boy might reconcile and they might get along for some time.. But in all respects, things will worsen again and that too for a long time - as per boy's chart.

 

Lastly, with some support from a better horoscope of another boy, there are loud chances of a second marriage. This period begins after 2 years.

 

What will happen if they reconcile, and suppose she begets children - either life stands doomed for her or she will come back with no further chances of getting married!

 

Your sister had to go through a tough phase, her chart clearly indicates that. She needs to be very conscious of her health. A patient and caring spouse can transform her life completely.

 

Think clearly...make a calculated decision...and then do not look back.

 

Best wishes

Deepa

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