After reading this thread 2 days ago, I got a maha-headache, the likes of which I get once every few years. Eventually my entire body was in pain, and I just have to say (at the risk of getting cyber-yelled at) that whether Bhaktisiddhanta Saraswati was initiated through the medium of a picture, a dream or another human doesn't matter to me. Also, whether 'we' are 'supposed to' wear white, orange, rainbow, or stripes is all external, the same with shaving the head, wearing no tilok or the design of your choice, positioning pictures of your gurus or teachers in order or having no pictures... and personally, many have been angry at 'Dad' (SP) and grand-dad (SBSS), but
due to their efforts we are all having these conversations, and slagging them too much is still hateful and hurtful to those who owe them gratitude. Enough, already.