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  1. Hi, I am Sakthi.This is my third post in the forum regarding my troublesome marriage life.I am in US right now.me and my husband have been seperated for nearly 1 year and we have been married for 1 year.I have got lots of guidance from our learned astrologers regarding this issue .My sincere thanks to all of them.My father-in-law is trying hard to get divorce.since I am not ready to give divorce,they started giving me mental tortures by speaking horrible words and false blamings in the recent days through phone.They play some mind game and push me in depression and ultimately wanted me to give divorce.Being lonely i am suffering a lot.So i wanted to travel back to India to my parents and wanted to fight against my inlaws and my husband to save my marriage life by being in India.But everywhere i am facing troubles. I am not getting immediate release in my project.They told me to wait for some days to find a suitable replacement.But i cannot wait.i feel very restless.I am not able to concentrate in my career too. i feel like sitting on fire.Why my mind is highly fluctuating and always depressed nowadays though i pray like how our astrologers guided?why my problems getting worsen after i do believe in god and started praying him?this makes me to loose confidence again.when will I go back to India and when will i overcome all these troubles completely?My father met a spiritual guy somedays before.He said 99% of our reunion is not possible and my husband is a sadist and he likes to make others cry..he will born as dog in the next jenma something he told.after hearing to these,my parents are quite upset.but i am the only one who still believe some miracle will happen and my husband will understand my love and will come back to me.For me he is not very bad and only his family members are very cruel.but these mental depressions blows out me completely. My details: DOB:March 9,1982 Time:5.50 PM lagnam:Simmam moon sign:Simmam natchatharam: pooram place of Birth Dharmapuri/ Tamilnadu/ India please someone help me in predicting when will i go back to India and will i win if i file case in family court against my inlaws abt the tortures they gave (and giving)and get back my husband?i want to live with my husband..
  2. please answer my as question regarding kids.Noone has answered for this question.whatever the truth please let me know.i have already undergone many sufferings.there is nothing new for me to digest.please i request you all.
  3. can anybody let me know will i have kids through my husband as per our chart?I think i have puthra dosha in my chart..can i experience motherhood?My heart is aching for this wonderful experience.But when reunion itself seems difficult i dont know will I have this experience in my life time?Is there any possibility in my chart or in my husband's chart for kids?thanks..please answer...
  4. Dear rohini_nakshatra, thanks for your reply.sometimes i feel God has saved me by separating me from my husband during my jenma sani.otherwise i would have faced lots and lots of troubles and tortures from my FIL and my dearmost puppet husband.But God has shown this husband to me.what lessons he wants to preach me? being pathiviratha wont work in kaliyug and you need to learn to go for how many marriages you want.. is this the lesson he is trying to preach?i am sorry to be bit harsh..i dont criticize the people who is going for second marriage.But my lord Murugan knows about me well(actually i fell for my husband for his name too.His name is Murugan) then why he has played this game with me?i did some paabams in previous jenma..i would have made a girl to cry like anything..but i dont remember even a single incident now..why he wants me to suffer for the previous jenma paabams?people who are cunning(my FIL and SIL) lives happily with all the bhaakiyams(having kids,grand children) etc and destroying other people's life..how God has let them to live and give sufferings to persons who are true to him..Yes my inlaws are trying for second marriage for my husband.i think he is also looking for that..He has thrown me out like a curry leaf though i am superior to him in all aspects(career wise,status wise).He often tortured me by saying i am arrogant.He will show his beloved sister as an example how a girl should live.when i called my SIL to beg for our reunion,that cultured humble Indian girl scolded me in all bad words which i cannot reveal here and humiliated my father also without any respect.i was shocked but asked her to handover the phone to my hubby(my hubby's office number,mobile number everything got disconnected) she arrogantly refused and disconnected the line.she is afraid that my husband's money wont be coming to her if we both reconcile.He treats that lady as an idol.i dont know why God has decided to learn a lesson from this kind of bad family?amidst all of them,my husband is not very bad according to me..he often helped me,took care of me..but will be furious if i complain about his family's torture..i am somewhat escaped but my husband's elder brother's wife has been suffering for nearly 6 years and still she is crying..my only concern is my husband should understand his family's cunningness(actually my FIL says things to him in one way and to the outside world in another way.My husband is not able to understand that his father is ruining his reputation.he thinks i am the one who is doing all..) and will accept me..i dont know whether i will win in this gurukshetra war beween dharma and evil..i dont know who will tie bell to these cats?(my FIL and SIL)..i am looking for our reunion once the bad period gets over..Thanks again for your reply..
  5. dear Aysuh, Thanks for your reply.I am a software engineer working in a reputed MNC company in good position.currently I am in US(came for office assignment)Though I am blessed with good career life and understanding and lovely parents ,i still feel void because of my ruined marriage life.i didnt live even for a month after i got married.Sorry Ayush i cannot take up your words.I am very conservative.i cannot give up my husband.I loved him truly and he too loved me after our engagement(ours is an arranged marriage)But the very bad thing is he will throw anybody out for his family.when my father-in -law tried to exploit me and my father i didnt give room.He got furious (he had a dream of getting all my assets and salary and giving to his daughter) because of his dream shattered,he made us to separate.my hubby obeys my FIL like a slave.lots of incidents happened which i could not explain here..even i feel bad about my adamant nature and childish behaviour of getting back my husband..i got lots of advice from all our esteemed astrologers saying me to wait patiently and telling me to get rid of him..but i am under frustration and dont know what i am doing..i want to punish myself for my amature behaviours..i dont know when i will get stable mind and able to digest the truth?i started praying my Lord Murugan again but still my mind fluctuates..My husband is not very bad according to me..he is also in pathetic situation.i am looking for our reunion and leading a happy married life otherwise no idea to get married to another guy.once again thanks for your reply for this unknown girl.I really appreciate your concern.
  6. will i have kids through my husband?please let me know..
  7. please help me out.Can i wear yellow sapphire as per my horoscope?wont it have any negative effect?
  8. place of Birth is dharmapuri/ Tamilnadu/ India ..i dont know how that big grin smiley came into the picture.maybe god laughs at my destiny??
  9. Dear Pablo, I am Sakthi.I got married last year June 25,2007 and got sperated within a month from my husband.I am undergoing Saturn Sadhe Saath (second phase-jenam sani).i have already posted my query in the forum and got reply from Sasisekaranji,lionel sun(my sincere thanks to him ) and couple of other good athmas.I have no thought to go for second marriage.As Sasisekaranji sir told i am going to wait till this difficult period get over to get back my husband.But sometimes i feel very empty hearted and feel like having no meaning in life though my anger and frustration has got reduced a lot nowadays and developing faith in god again.Do I have any kids through my husband when he comes back?nobody has answered me this question.It means that i dont have any luck to experience motherhood?I love my husband sincerely.i dont bother whether he is good or bad..afterall whats wrong in giving 100% love to a man who i am told as my husband. If he doesnt come back,i will sail in the spiritual path and dont have any idea to seek another companion or tie my life with another man.Actually my horoscope is giving troubles rather than my husband's one.I am having the conflicts.But i am the one who is willing to reconcile and not my hubby..somewhere some logical mismatching.do i have family life(life with my husband) or spiritual life?(else i dont want any family life.. no other companion) I want to know do i need to wear any gemstone to keep my mind in control or to strengthen any planets in my horoscope?your suggestion is highly expected. My details: DOB:March 9,1982 Time:5.50 PM lagnam:Simmam moon sign:Simmam natchatharam: pooram place of Birth:Dharmapuri/ Tamilnadu/ India My husband's details: DOB:April 19,1979 raasi:magaram natchatharam: uthiraadam 3rd quarter(currently running Rahu mahadasa and Bhudh antardasa) Time:not aware place of Birth:Dharmapuri/ Tamilnadu/ India I dont know about his birth time.I have attached his raasi chart and navamsa chaart which i got at the time of our marriage.According to Sasisekaranji,he must be born around 23 hrs 56 minutes on the day. Thanks, Sakthi My husband's horoscope.doc
  10. thanks a lot for your continuous support Sasiji.I am good for nothing.Even in my fifth place i have kethu which is supposed to be for child's birth.if someone has analysed my chart well before our marriage i would not have gone for marriage at all.I wonder why i got married.God has punished me well.Ignored by the beloved ones must be the cruel punishment in the world.I am the one who is still crying and claiming that he is my husband.He has already thrown me out and looking for a fresh and new life.whenver i get some hope soon it will be devastated.if i put manjal in my mangalasuthra,air will blow out the lamp.when i talk about our reunion,power gets disconnected.Everywhere i am surrounded by negative signs.i think God doesnt want me to have marriage life.i am giving values to our culture.i will never go for another marriage in my life as i told earlier.i have nothing to loose anymore.i am void now.you tried to bring some hope in me.Thanks a lot for that.I wont disturb you anymore.
  11. please let me know whether he is having any extra marital relationship or will come back to me.i dont see even a single positive sign from my inlaws.They keep on saying the same thing "go and marry another guy".i am scared now .i know you cannot spend much time in same case again and again.But i am in terrible confusion now.please clarify it.
  12. can Sasiji/anyone clarify me that whether my husband is having any extra marital relationship or multiple affairs?An astrologer told me this by looking into his horoscope.Actually i am quite confused now than ever.As far as i know,he is not such kind of guy.please it would be great if you answer my question.I will be much grateful.Sorry for the troubles.
  13. Everything looks crooked because of my confusion.I take things in a negative way because of my worst situation now.I am terribly sorry.Instead of spending time in worrying about negative effects,it would be really better praying to god.only He can mend things.Thanks a lot for your analysis Sasisekaran bhaya and thanks for your real concern about mending a marriage life.Never forget your help.Long live a happy life!!!
  14. Sorry to bother you Sasi bhaya.But i am not able to sleep.This is night in US.i am scared like anything now.Please give me details elaborately
  15. Sasi bhaya, now i am very very scared.what kind of mistake he will be committing?during the astama sani he wont ask for divorce means will he ask after that?dont we have atleast 1% chance for our reunion?please give back me reply.i desperately need your help..
  16. SasiSekaran bhaya, I am awaiting for your reply.
  17. Dear Sasisekaran bhaya, My sincere apologies once again.sorry for wrong squares.my husband's horoscope is in tamil.so scanning wont be helpful for you.My sister looked into the horoscope and found again the squares are wrongly edited by me.somewhere some miscommunication happened and i am giving you trouble continuously.I request you to forgive this sister.she edited the squares by verifying against the original horoscope and send it across to me.i have attached the horoscope herewith.please look into it.i feel very very bad to give you trouble again.It is really kind of you to spend your valuable time by considering my pains and forgiving my ignorance without getting irritated by my stupid activities.you are really wonderful. My husband's horoscope.doc
  18. Dear Sasisekaran Bhaya and Moorthi sir, I am extremely sorry.The Road side astrologer is none other than me.My husband's horoscope couldnt be scanned and sent across.So i have drawn squares and fill it up by asking my sister to tell me the planets in the square through phone.I thought we need to look into the position of the planets alone starting from lagna.(ie in 2,chandra and in 3,kedhu)irrespective of the position of the squares. I never know that top left corner or top right corners will be playing the part in horoscope. I sincerely request you to forgive my ignorance. sorry for making you to spend your valuable time in analysing a amature chart drawn by me.I have attached the exact replica of my husband's chart given by my husband's father herewith.Please look into this and let me know my husband's future.i want to know why he doesnt love his wife or want to live with her?though i have uttered some words,his family tortured me and my family.When he will realise his mistakes and accept me as his wife?though i am going to wait till my bad period get over as suggested by Sasisekaran bhaya,i want to know whether we will have good marital life after our reunion?his family is planning to have second marriage for him.Thats why they dont let me to live with him because they want to take revenge on me.whether my husband will change and love me and our future born children?your help is highly expected. My husband's horoscope.doc
  19. I have attached my husband's rasi chart and navaamsa chart herewith.still i dont know his birth time.this was given to me at the time of our marriage.Please look into this and provide your valuable predictions My husband's horoscope.doc
  20. thanks much Sasisekaran bhaya.I am very relaxed now.God has sent you to help me.I accidentally came to know about this site when i browsed for some other thing.I am going to wait without having any expectations for the next one year bhaya.Hope God will push the things in the right direction like how he showed me a path through you now.
  21. something which cannot be accepted in any ways.thinking husband as a cruel person is one such thing.i am also in the same situation.me and you are sailing in the same boat.my husband and me had a wonderful love life after our engagement.ours is an purely arranged marriage.i developed a liking on him at the very first moment when i saw him when he had come for bride-seeing.Though we had little fights before our marriage i didnt expect him that he will be leaving me just like that when his parents asked him to do that.i couldnt digest when he said bad words and humiliated me before everyone.i equally fought with him because i am much a self respected girl.wait i am not using this forum to tell my story.Though my parents are telling me he is such a bad brought up and that character cannot be changed forever i am not able to digest those statements.Though my husband said some cruel words which i cannot share here i still believe he definitley will have another good face which he had shown me before our marriage.i cannot imagine him as a very cruel person and sadist.what i am trying to tell here is just forget about everything for some year.i know how it will be difficult.dont decide anything now,divorce him or thinking of reunion or thinking of second marriage nothing..be calm for some months and let the time passby.we all did some paabams in previous karma which is given back to us by god now.wait till that period.dont take any important decisions now and dont accept your husband decisions also.SasiSekaran bhaya helped me a lot by looking into my horoscope and asked me to wait till 2009 completion.I am going to do that.pray to god.pray to him to keep you happy and forgive all your paabams which u did.yesterday i just browsed for something and i got this forum.This is god's decision.he knows what to do and when to do.i was under frustration and when i accidentally came to see this forum i posted my worryings and got immediate reply from an unknown brother.i owe him a lot.Now i am very happy.i have some confidence in life.i hope things will be mended soon.God has shown me the right path to forget my worries.Though the solution is not an immediate one i hope some good thing will definitely happen .dont push your life by yourself.Then you will feel worries.take life as it comes.right things will happen at right times.he has decided this husband for you and he will be having solution also for your marital life.when time rolls out,things will be going in a right way.have that confidence. lots of good athmas are members here.without expecting anything in back they are doing their service keeping bhagavad Gita's statement in mind.you will hear soon from any one of them.My best wishes..
  22. Dear Mr.sasisekaran. I am very happy to see your reply.yes these incidents happened in india.i am in US alone now.Yes i am very bad at words.Though i have no intention to hurt others or say furious words,it come out of my mouth without my knowledge.i know that i should not have uttered some words to my husband though they have given me mental disturbance.i am in terrible situation now.I am extremely sorry.My husband's DOB is April 19,1979.I typed it wrongly.Please sir i am expecting some good statements to hear from you.i have no intention to get divorce from my husband at any cost.but my husband is not willing to continue his life with me and the reason is my inlaws.we both are seperated for past seven months after our one week reunion and before that one week we got seperated for three months.i lived my marriage life for only one month.I was travelling to almost all temples in SouthIndia before i come to US including thriupathi,thirunallaru,temple for sani.when can i expect some good news?i want my husband back.He is not responding to my calls.i went to his office and had been waiting for nearly 6 hours in India.atlast he insulted me by telling security to ask me to get rid of that place.I got upset and decided to move out of India and came to US.But i am not happy here also.i cannot forget my husband.though he did lots of injustice to me i love him deeply.all my prayer is he should realise his mistakes and come back to me.pls help me................................
  23. please analyse my horoscope and give me some details like when my husband will be coming back to me?i am having so many pressures because of this.i am not able to concentrate on my career.i am scared whether i will be loosing everything in my life including my career life .I want to travel back to India and i am not sure whether this is a good decision?but i am not happy in US.plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss anybody help me..
  24. please somebody help me with ur advice.i am a new member and dont know how to seek help in the forum.please i am dying everyday with lots of worries..
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