sakthi

I have forgotten to mention my place of birth.Its Dharmapuri/TamilNadu/India. My husband's place of Birth is also the same.But i dont know his birth time. please all i am seeking is i want to live with my husband and i want him to love me truly and understands my feeling.please help me in getting rid of this problem.I have been crying for the past one year and not happy.am i such a bad girl who did lots of paabams in the past karma?I hope in this jenma i am somewhat ok.because i always help others and willing to help and we would go to temples whenever we get free time.i hate to go for second marriage.I want to be very devoted wife. please help me.....this is very urgent........

Hi, i got married last year June 25,2007.me and my husband are software engineers working in reputed MNC companies. All the astrologers who had seen our horoscope before our marriage told that we will be having good life after marriage.but we both lived together just for only one month.My husband's family is very uncultered one.my father-in-law wanted to run our family and he always poked his nose in all our family matters including our personal things.My sister-in-law was staying near to us and she was the main reason for our seperation.she is very selfish woman who wanted my husband's money,so always told about me wrong to my husband.My husband is very adamant and uncultered fellow who never give importance or respect to wife or her's family.I am from rich background and my husband is from middle class family.so they were not able to tolerate our social status and always said bad words about me and my family.i couldnt bear this.Naturally i am short tempered and very self-repected girl.My husband threatened to leave me at ooty for very simple and silly reason when we had gone for our honeymoon.He started scolding me with very bad and unbearable words.atlast we reached our home somehow and he left me and stayed in his sister's house without looking back at me for three months.that was my fahter-in-law's plan.my father didnt go for compromising because he didnt like my husband and his family's behaviour.He had already come for compromising before our honeymoon and my husband scolded me before my father itself.very bad and ugly words.my father couldnt digest those words and somehow convinced me and left our home.but he was quite upset.so when my husband left ,he didnt want to go to my father-in-law.My father-in-law got furious because he expected my father to come and beg him.when my father didnt do that,he reached one of his relatives and sent him for compromising.he wanted my father to settle down everything as dowry.they called me and my father to talk about this and when we went there ,they gathered a big crowd and humiliated me and my father before everyone and forced me to ask sorry.finally i asked sorry because i wanted to live with my husband.we both reunited.but that lasted for only one week.My father-in-law forced us to vacate our house because he didnt like that i m living in a rich and posh house where my sister-in-law is living in a small house nearby.That house was selected by my father and he paid the advance and settled everything in that house because he wanted his little daughter to live comfortable always.Without my knowledge my husband paid advance for a new house which is faraway from my office and forced me to come there.i lost all my patience and thought why he never realised that i am also a human being and have self thinking and feelings.this time i got furious and threw all my husband's things out and told him to leave the house.my father-in-law took this as oppurtunity and challenged my father how my father can make me live with my husband .He told to everyone that i am not willing to live with my husband and they created some bad impression about me in the outside world.i have tried so many times to meet my husband in the past seven months and all were useless efforts.When i talked with my sis-in-law and mother-in-law by loosing all my self respect they spoke very ugly words and asked to go for second marriage.they are willing to get divorce from me because they dont like a self thinking daughter-in-law.They never treat their daughter-in-laws as human being.My father-in-law scolded me once that i should not speak human rights because i have come to live in their house and their son is a boy.My parents doesnt want me to live with my husband after they see all these illtreats from my husband's family.i was about to give police complaint but kept quite because it will worsen the things. But i still love my husband.I dont know why and how i love that beast.i cannot go for another marriage or another man.i love my man sincerely.ofcourse love is blind.Is anything wrong about my feelings?I want to be very true to only one man and that is my husband.i dont know when my husband realises his family's drama to get his money and come out of this and accept me as his wife?i want to live like all other girls.want to have my marital life and kids.i am undergoing ezhara sani for the past three and half years.Here are my details: DOB:March 9,1982 Time:5.50 PM lagnam:Simmam moon sign:Simmam natchatharam:pooram My husband's details: DOB:April 9,1979 raasi:magaram natchatharam:uthiraadam Please help me with your valuable advice.. Thanks, Sakthi