I am worried about my marriage. i am 27 years old. However, I don't want an arranged marriage. The very thought of arranged marriage makes me panic. I liked a guy, but things didn't work out. I don't have any boyfriend right now. My parents have consulted some astrologer, and he told them that marriage will be late. He advised me to wear a pukhraj, which i am wearing since Dec 2007.
Another problem is, that I am doing PhD, and don't want to get married now, since I don't know how long it will take for me to graduate.
Could the learned astrologers here please help me? what should i do? When will i complete my phd? What are my marital prospects? when would be a good time to start 'looking' ?
Would wearing a red coral help with studies/career? (i think mars is an atmakaraka and yogakarak for me). Sometimes I find it difficult to be motivated for studies. I get distracted by other things that I enjoy doing, and find it hard to strike a balance between studies,hobbies and responsibilities that come with living alone. At other times I procrastinate too much. And then sometimes I am struck by doubt in my abilities, and get depressed over my slow progress. Also, my friends take up a considerable amount of my time, always coming to me for advice, and i find it hard to say no, and get too involved in their problems. In fact, i always find myself consoling someone or the other. not that i mind it, but it tires me out to be listening to their problems all the time. i feel like there is no one i can turn to for advice. I love to live alone, because I can hide from people when I want to. It helps me to recharge. But at times I feel very lonely. I just wish I had a guy who I could depend on, the way my friends depend on me.
these are my birth details:
16th Jan, 1981, 5:35 pm, Lucknow, India.