What really happens when you point the finger at someone?

[krsna]

 

When you point a finger at someone, three fingers are pointing back at you !

[theist]

your posts with all the pictures Krsna. They speak a thousand words. I noticed I even started to get defensive when I saw that guy pointing at me. /images/graemlins/smile.gif

 

How should we react when falsely accused or when someone points out a genuine part of our dark side to us? I usually get tense and fire back. But I know there must be a better way.

[Guest guest]

Haribol. In me rocker days, tommy was the one. The mirror was the self realization, and although I passed on meher baba, the story of the mirror works when it comes to fault-finding. We see our faults only in others, almost always.

 

So, in general terms, I use the 360 degree philosophy. Everyone is at fault, everyone is hooked on false ego (otherwise, a breath of air is foregone). But the 360 degree circle included realization that I am very much at fault as well.

 

Go to the mirror, boy.

 

Now, gHari, what did them moody blues say about that?

 

Hare Krsna, ys, mahaksadasa

[krsna]

[gHari]

 

"You know where to put the cork".