Guest guest Posted March 16, 2007 Report Share Posted March 16, 2007 Namaste Pundit Ji, Please accept my apology, I never expected my request for suggestion was going to turn out this way. I do value your contributions to this group although I do not comment on them most of the time. Thanks for all yoru feedback. Regards, Bhupendra. , Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote: > > Namaskaar > > This is a simple issue that has turned into a fiasco of sorts. I was asked for a remedy and gave one !. I did not volunteer this nor have I charged for it nor have I > suggested that it be used forcefully. This is a procedure that can be used while the child is taking a bath. > > It is up to the person asking for it to decide whether they would like to try it or not. What I gave is in no way harmful to the child and can actually help her. > > For the general information of all and sundry, many times when children are in > different environments such as schools, playgrounds etc.. their bodies absorb a lot of negative energies as these places are cleaned by being swept or washed with water but not at an energy level. Even in schools or in an apartment due to the generally poor circulation of fresh air, a lot of bacteria, germs and viruses can be acquired just by sitting without doing anything ( Ref. Sick Building Syndrome). > > This in turn can cause a lot of unnecessary sickness and bad behaviour. > So why is it necessary to wait until you get sick to manage a potential disease - Also even by eating there are toxins that are present and that are a by product of natural digestive processes. By taking Haldi it purges yours cells of impurities allowing you to have a healthy disposition. > > By the way, cleaning the nervous system and allowing the child a more serene state can also have an added benefit which is that the child will have increased capacity for learning. > > By the way have you ever wondered why what doctors do is called Practice ? > And why despite all the advances in science, many old diseases are still prevalent ? > > Namah Sivaya > Best Regards > Pandit Devindra Maharaj > > Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote: > Punditji, > > I am very familiar with Haldi/Tumeric and its properties. That was never the contention. It was the smearing of it head to toe on a two year old. If they are compliant, then fine. If not, then why force such things unless they are desperately ill? > > If what you say about the souls that worship Shiva and Shakti is true, then it is even more reason to not try to forcefully make them the way you want or think they should be. > > I don't agree with your sentiments on this though. > > Thanks, > > Surya > - > Dev Maharaj > > Thursday, March 15, 2007 1:14 AM > Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter > > > Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so well behaved and healthy too ! > > Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can only help. Further health is not something that one can do something about only after you get sick, if it is proactively managed a disease never gets to manifest - hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI Mahamuni Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a number of food preparations such as curry ! Also in Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering to Lord Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any number of Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you will see Haldi as a prominent ingredient. So this is nothing that is new and/or untested here. > > Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea contains salt. Can you imagine that ? So all things considered I am not sure what is the abuse here ? > > Further a child is normally attached to its mother especially if it is breast fed and kept on the left side of the mother as there is a connection to the heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise 14 nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials and tribulations you can go through with them. > > However something that all of you should be aware of, at a metaphysical level it is only the souls that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble. > > > > > Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote: > > I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail for child abuse. > > ----- Original Message ----- > dithu dinakaran > > Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM > Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter > > > > Dear Bhupendra, > I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views. > best wishes > d > Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote: > Namaskaar Bhupendra > > I suggest you can try the following, Get the following > 1 big bucket > 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do > 2 lbs salt > 4 green limes > > Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 day > > Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru > > Trans > O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water ! > > > Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only. > > Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. > > After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body. > > You should notice that she will become calm. > > FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re- energize her > At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. > > Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve. > > As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol) > > Namah Sivaya > Best Regards > Pandit Devindra Maharaj > > b_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote: Hi All, > > OM Namaha Shivaya! > > I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not > easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely > unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much > attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or > she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as > long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, > she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, > she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she > out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death > in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in > the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was > crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does > someone know of any puja that I can do personally? > > Thanks, > Bhupendra. > > > > > > > Need Mail bonding? > Go to the Mail Q & A for great tips from Answers users. dinakaran > > > > Here's a new way to find what you're looking for - Answers > > > > > > > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.5.446 / Virus Database: 268.18.11/721 - Release 3/13/2007 4:51 PM > > > > > > > Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check. > Try the Mail Beta. > > > > > > > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.5.446 / Virus Database: 268.18.11/722 - Release 3/14/2007 3:38 PM > > > > > > > Never miss an email again! > Toolbar alerts you the instant new Mail arrives. 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Guest guest Posted March 17, 2007 Report Share Posted March 17, 2007 JAI MAA, Please do not bathe baby in salt, turmeric or any such items. Babies do not cry just for no reason. Please take all sugar or processed sugar and preservatives from her diet and you will see a big difference in her behavior. These days there is so much artificial items in the food that some kids have difficult time digesting it. My son was one of them, my husband and my self could not understand why is he crying so much, getting angry so quickly. Then one day another mother told me to take sugar and preservatives out of his diet. I saw miracle. Do not give her cereal or prepared food, read the labels of the food that she is eating. Try it, it works Gururbrahmaa gururvishnuh gururdevo Maheswarah | Guruh-saakshaat parabrahma tasmai shrigurave namah || Om, Rajyalaxmi Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter Thu, 15 Mar 2007 18:26:37 -0700 (PDT) I can't recall at the moment but I don't think so - this was derived from studies in Shaktism and Theosophy.. Manoj Sharma <manojsharma662000 wrote: <However something that all of you should be aware of, at a metaphysical level it is only the souls that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble.> Is there any reference to this effect in Shiv Purana. Because I am a very staunch devotee of Lord Mahadev, and I was very very naughty in my childhood. --- Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote: > Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so > well behaved and healthy too ! > > Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can > only help. Further health is not something that one > can do something about only after you get sick, if > it is proactively managed a disease never gets to > manifest - hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI > Mahamuni Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a > number of food preparations such as curry ! Also in > Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering to Lord > Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any > number of Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you > will see Haldi as a prominent ingredient. So this is > nothing that is new and/or untested here. > > Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea > contains salt. Can you imagine that ? So all things > considered I am not sure what is the abuse here ? > > Further a child is normally attached to its mother > especially if it is breast fed and kept on the left > side of the mother as there is a connection to the > heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise 14 > nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials > and tribulations you can go through with them. > > However something that all of you should be aware > of, at a metaphysical level it is only the souls > that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are > born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature > of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are > naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of > trouble. > > > > > Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote: > > I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this > recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what > that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the > US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully > for no apparent reason might be put in jail for > child abuse. > > - > dithu dinakaran > > Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM > Re: Seeking > advice for my baby daughter > > > > Dear Bhupendra, > I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent > peadiatrician (child specialist) and act > acfcording to his views. > best wishes > d > Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote: > Namaskaar Bhupendra > > I suggest you can try the following, Get the > following > 1 big bucket > 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, > but powdered will do > 2 lbs salt > 4 green limes > > Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal > Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave > it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 > day > > Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati > Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru > > Trans > O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, > Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water > ! > > > Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and > paste the child from the crown of the head going > down to the toes. Leave this on her body for > about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it > off rubbing her in a down ward motion only. > > Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure > above however only leave it on for about 10 > minutes. > > After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and > rub her body in a downward motion only. Using > the water from the bucket wash off without soap > and let the water dry on her body. > > You should notice that she will become calm. > > FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and > the salt removes negative energy. The water from > the bucket will re-energize her > At her age this should only be done about 1 per > month only. > > Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 > glass to drink. You can also give a tea of > Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to > calm and soothe her nerve. > > As for the attachment to money etc... relax > the child is Indian ....(lol) > > Namah Sivaya > Best Regards > Pandit Devindra Maharaj > > b_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote: > Hi All, > > OM Namaha Shivaya! > > I have a 2 year old daughter who uis > extremely naughty, would not > easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly > speaks any words nicely > unlike many others I have observed of her > age, and is very much > attached to her money. Whatever she wants, > she needs to have it or > she will keep crying, and while she is > playing, she remains calm as > long as she has her mom within her site. As > her mom is out of site, > she starts looking for her crying. If the mom > has gone for shower, > she will stand outside and keep crying > kicking the door until she > out. Things got very difficult this weekend > when becuase of a death > in the family, me and my wife had to go and > leave our daughter in > the care of my mom. But the entire time we were > away, she was > crying. There m,ust be something that can be done > about it. Does > someone know of any puja that I can do > personally? > > Thanks, > Bhupendra. > > > > > > > Need Mail bonding? > Go to the Mail Q & A for great tips > from Answers users. > > > > > > > dinakaran > > > > Here’s a new way to find what you're looking for > - Answers > > > > > > > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.5.446 / Virus Database: 268.18.11/721 - > Release 3/13/2007 4:51 PM > > > > > > > Expecting? Get great news right away with email > Auto-Check. > Try the Mail Beta. Don't get soaked. 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Guest guest Posted March 17, 2007 Report Share Posted March 17, 2007 NamaskaarAbsolutely no need to apologize, I understand perfectly what has transpired and the concern that members have and respect their right to have those concerns as well. I think there is some level of misunderstanding though as smearing of Haldi or salt is not in any way harmful. Most of you that have been married in the traditional way, would have been smeared with Haldi for one whole night without any side effects !!!I fail to understand the concern as I live in the Caribbean and children here bathe in the sea for hours on end daily ( PS the sea has considerably more than 2 lbs of salt... lol ) with no problems as a matter of fact these children are quite rugged and healthy.One other point, children depend on their parents for guidance and moulding . A child that is properly cultured and inculcated with proper ethics and moral values will be generally more focused than a child that is allowed to do as he /she pleases. We allow children to make choices but in some instances we need to choose for them until they are mature enough to understand and make their own choices. Many times what children want as opposed to what they need is something we need to pay attention to.Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra Maharajb_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote: Namaste Pundit Ji, Please accept my apology, I never expected my request for suggestion was going to turn out this way. I do value your contributions to this group although I do not comment on them most of the time. Thanks for all yoru feedback. Regards, Bhupendra. , Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote: > > Namaskaar > > This is a simple issue that has turned into a fiasco of sorts. I was asked for a remedy and gave one !. I did not volunteer this nor have I charged for it nor have I > suggested that it be used forcefully. This is a procedure that can be used while the child is taking a bath. > > It is up to the person asking for it to decide whether they would like to try it or not. What I gave is in no way harmful to the child and can actually help her. > > For the general information of all and sundry, many times when children are in > different environments such as schools, playgrounds etc.. their bodies absorb a lot of negative energies as these places are cleaned by being swept or washed with water but not at an energy level. Even in schools or in an apartment due to the generally poor circulation of fresh air, a lot of bacteria, germs and viruses can be acquired just by sitting without doing anything ( Ref. Sick Building Syndrome). > > This in turn can cause a lot of unnecessary sickness and bad behaviour. > So why is it necessary to wait until you get sick to manage a potential disease - Also even by eating there are toxins that are present and that are a by product of natural digestive processes. By taking Haldi it purges yours cells of impurities allowing you to have a healthy disposition. > > By the way, cleaning the nervous system and allowing the child a more serene state can also have an added benefit which is that the child will have increased capacity for learning. > > By the way have you ever wondered why what doctors do is called Practice ? > And why despite all the advances in science, many old diseases are still prevalent ? > > Namah Sivaya > Best Regards > Pandit Devindra Maharaj > > Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote: > Punditji, > > I am very familiar with Haldi/Tumeric and its properties. That was never the contention. It was the smearing of it head to toe on a two year old. If they are compliant, then fine. If not, then why force such things unless they are desperately ill? > > If what you say about the souls that worship Shiva and Shakti is true, then it is even more reason to not try to forcefully make them the way you want or think they should be. > > I don't agree with your sentiments on this though. > > Thanks, > > Surya > - > Dev Maharaj > > Thursday, March 15, 2007 1:14 AM > Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter > > > Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so well behaved and healthy too ! > > Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can only help. Further health is not something that one can do something about only after you get sick, if it is proactively managed a disease never gets to manifest - hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI Mahamuni Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a number of food preparations such as curry ! Also in Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering to Lord Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any number of Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you will see Haldi as a prominent ingredient. So this is nothing that is new and/or untested here. > > Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea contains salt. Can you imagine that ? So all things considered I am not sure what is the abuse here ? > > Further a child is normally attached to its mother especially if it is breast fed and kept on the left side of the mother as there is a connection to the heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise 14 nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials and tribulations you can go through with them. > > However something that all of you should be aware of, at a metaphysical level it is only the souls that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble. > > > > > Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote: > > I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail for child abuse. > > - > dithu dinakaran > > Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM > Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter > > > > Dear Bhupendra, > I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views. > best wishes > d > Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote: > Namaskaar Bhupendra > > I suggest you can try the following, Get the following > 1 big bucket > 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do > 2 lbs salt > 4 green limes > > Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 day > > Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru > > Trans > O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water ! > > > Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only. > > Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. > > After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body. > > You should notice that she will become calm. > > FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re- energize her > At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. > > Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve. > > As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol) > > Namah Sivaya > Best Regards > Pandit Devindra Maharaj > > b_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote: Hi All, > > OM Namaha Shivaya! > > I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not > easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely > unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much > attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or > she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as > long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, > she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, > she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she > out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death > in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in > the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was > crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does > someone know of any puja that I can do personally? > > Thanks, > Bhupendra. > > > > > > > Need Mail bonding? > Go to the Mail Q & A for great tips from Answers users. > > > > > > > dinakaran > > > > Here's a new way to find what you're looking for - Answers > > > > > > > > Version: 7.5.446 / Virus Database: 268.18.11/721 - Release 3/13/2007 4:51 PM > > > > > > > Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check. > Try the Mail Beta. > > > > > > > > Version: 7.5.446 / Virus Database: 268.18.11/722 - Release 3/14/2007 3:38 PM > > > > > > > Never miss an email again! > Toolbar alerts you the instant new Mail arrives. Check it out. > Sucker-punch spam with award-winning protection. Try the free Mail Beta. 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Guest guest Posted March 18, 2007 Report Share Posted March 18, 2007 Jai Gurudev!! Aum NamaH Sivaye !! ha ha ha ha nice bros...i was going through your replies..in regards to the child crying prob. There is nothing harm in what Pt. Dev Maharaj has said. I find it quite logical and up to the point. You see the britishers have immensly harmed our heritage.. they have laughed on our rituals ..and tried to show their supermacy ...but our mantras.....our rituals ..none can match ...not in this world not in any world..but now if someone goes back and unearths some ritual like what pandit ji has suggested ...one shoudl not feel surprised. Time to go back to our roots love and regards somy ______________________________\ ____ Sucker-punch spam with award-winning protection. Try the free Mail Beta. http://advision.webevents./mailbeta/features_spam.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2007 Report Share Posted March 20, 2007 I have a daughter who is the same age and of a similar character to the one you describe. She also is unable to talk like her peers. This came as quite a shock to myself and my wife as our son who is four is quiet, gentle, articulate and very eager to carry out our instructions. We attributed his good character to our " wonderful " parenting and were quite horrified to see other people's kids misbehaving. Well, things have changed now. I came to understand that the problems I had were all to do with my expectations of what a daughter should be. Observe your daughter again. Does she not show love in her own way? It is normal for a child of her age to cry when mum leaves the room - it's like mum has left her world. She loves her! I have come to see that my daughter is a person in her own right. She has a strong character, which is no bad thing - it will help her in life. Since I changed my attitude she has also started to change hers. For the first time I get the occasional kiss Astonishing! It's on her terms of course but we're getting there. I really hope you can overcome the negative feelings you have towards your daughter. Little children are more sensitive than we would admit. She may be a mirror of your mind. , " b_jamnadas " <b_jamna> wrote: > > The attachment to the mother is not the only problem, it is her lack > of sleep, she insists on getting what she wants and will not calm > regardless of how much time passes by. There are certain thinks that > cannot be given atleast for her safety such as giving her the phone > to throw at the TV or whan she wants top play with a knife or when > she is trying to pull open the heater vents which even cut my > fungers once or let how climb the dinning table on jump on it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2007 Report Share Posted March 22, 2007 i would like to add please be aware that many US child psychiatrists are much quicker to prescribe ritalin and other psychotropic drugs than i think any other country in the world --- even to children as young as two. although they are not meant to be given to any child under the age of six and no clinical trials have taken place for such young children and the effect these strong drugs may well have on their growing and developing brains. so, if you do decide to take your child to a psychiatrist, be aware of exactly what pills they ARE prescribing. don't trust them, too much. i would agree that you must have compassion and love and enjoyment with your child but also strength, firmness, decisiveness and rules. most children are just crying out for a sense of security which they get from knowing their parents are in charge and looking out for them. and they are most unhappy if they feel that in fact they are the boss or " in charge " of their parents because there is no security for them and the sense of responsibility is too much. YOU are in charge - this is your responsibility. and it is your responsibility that you make sure what is in the best interests of the child HAPPENS, regardless of their opinion. although this may cause struggles initially it will make for a much happier child in the long run. i have actually seen a child that has two " rotted " (completely rotted!) front teeth because the child did not want to brush their teeth and the parent GAVE IN. that is irresponsible of the parent! now that child (fortunately it is his baby teeth) is going around with two brown stumps where his teeth should be because he always ate whatever sugary-snacks he liked and never had to brush his teeth. it is important, very important for the health and security of the child that the parent is the one who is parenting! anyway, terrible twos do not last that long. i have a vivid scene in my head of my neice and my brother-in-law and he was walking ahead completely ignoring her as she was yelling constantly " no, no, no, no, no, no " behind him. this tiny little blond-headed thing. it was such a funny scene - it still makes me laugh. but he didn't give in to it - that is the important thing. and she is a very happy seven year old --- her choir just won the junior country championships for best choir in the country. she is funny, happy, outgoing. her brother just won a scholarship to go to a great school and they are a very sweet, happy, secure, altruistic family. do just remember, as tough as it may seem. you are actually being nicer and kinder to your child by being the " toughie " , the mean one, you are giving them security, rules and boundaries - and all children want to learn how to give and how to make others happy and how to be sociable and liked. and it is up to you and your wife to teach those skills to your daughter ---- rather than to give in because it upsets to be seen as the " bad " one or because she will " hate " you and you don't like to see her upset. but as a parent you have to be able to withstand that in the best interests of your child - YOU have to toughen up and not give into the weaker side of your nature that just wants to give in because it can't stand the fuss and it seems easier to give in. if she has already been used to be able to get her own way and thinks she can get around you if she just perseveres enough then it will be slightly tougher to beat it. but you just have to persevere longer and not give in for longer. both with the discipline and rules and with the compassion and love. well, that is just how I see it. good luck with it! , " Kamath " <kamath55 wrote: > > Dear all, > I concur with my colleague devotee says. With the benefit of scientific advances and knowledge, we may have to compare and check whether the some of the remedies (or so advanced by some self proclaimed swamiji's) are really beneficial to the people. > The best solution to this problem, is to take the child to a good psychiatrist/paediatrician/hospital and check with them. That would help out in solving the issue. > I also agree that Haldi helps in remedial action, but that is for toxicants removal only. > Regards, > A.V.Kamath > > - > Mahamuni Das > > Thursday, March 15, 2007 7:04 AM > Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter > > > > I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail for child abuse. > > - > dithu dinakaran > > Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM > Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter > > > > Dear Bhupendra, > I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views. > best wishes > d > Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote: > Namaskaar Bhupendra > > I suggest you can try the following, Get the following > 1 big bucket > 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do > 2 lbs salt > 4 green limes > > Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 day > > Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru > > Trans > O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water ! > > > Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only. > > Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. > > After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body. > > You should notice that she will become calm. > > FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her > At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. > > Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve. > > As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol) > > Namah Sivaya > Best Regards > Pandit Devindra Maharaj > > b_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote: > Hi All, > > OM Namaha Shivaya! > > I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not > easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely > unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much > attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or > she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as > long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, > she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, > she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she > out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death > in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in > the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was > crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does > someone know of any puja that I can do personally? > > Thanks, > Bhupendra. > > > > > > -------- > Need Mail bonding? > Go to the Mail Q & A for great tips from Answers users. > > > > > dinakaran > > > ---------- > Here's a new way to find what you're looking for - Answers > > > > ---------- > > > > > Version: 7.5.446 / Virus Database: 268.18.11/721 - Release Date: 3/13/2007 4:51 PM > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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