Seeking advice for my baby daughter

March 12, 2007

Hi All,

OM Namaha Shivaya!

I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not

easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely

unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much

attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or

she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as

long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site,

she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower,

she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she

out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death

in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in

the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was

crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does

someone know of any puja that I can do personally?

Thanks,

Bhupendra.

March 13, 2007

Sir,

You should look at your own actions and example as well as read a book or two on how kids are at this age. Just you stating your two yr old is very naughty because she is attached to her mother or cries when she doesn't get what she wants shows that you have not taken any time to learn about children at all. Don't take your anger and frustration in life out on this little incarnation of the Goddess. Treat Her like Kanyakumari Devi, and your wife like Devi as well, and I am sure you will see a great change. Shift your outlook from one that is looking to blame others, to one that rejoices about the Blessings in your life. This child is a Blessing. Know that for sure. She doesn't need to change...you do.

Find ways to make her happy, while gently educating her as to what is True in Life. You do this gradually with little ones. Two is a very hard year, which is why it is often labelled "terrible twos". Just try to find laughter and joy in it and see Her as Kali Maa.

Jai Maa!

Surya

-

b_jamnadas

Monday, March 12, 2007 6:40 PM

Seeking advice for my baby daughter

Hi All,OM Namaha Shivaya!I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does someone know of any puja that I can do personally?Thanks,Bhupendra.

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Sarvam sivam Dear shri.Bhubendra, First of all I convey my best wishes and congratulations to you for your daughter. My dear friend, I could understand your anxiety over your child. But, your child is a perfect child, child should

be like that, we never can judge the activities of our child as child and God are equal in their own world. Your child wants her mom with her always, may be because, her mom might be the person who is near and dear with her most of the time. Determination and persistence is one of the most important trait needed in these days. So cool now. Be friend with her, and let her wide her world to get you in. She is just two only, give her time, let her enjoy and have all the pleasure, she is blessed with. Don’t we enjoy child Krishna’s leelas?, Let your little angel get her own way of growing. Let our father shower all his mercy and blessing on every one of us. Sivaya namaha,. With lots of love to ur child, Punith balu, b_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote: Hi All,OM Namaha Shivaya!I have a 2 year old

daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does someone know of any puja that I can do personally?Thanks,Bhupendra.

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March 14, 2007

Namaskaar BhupendraI suggest you can try the following, Get the following1 big bucket 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do2 lbs salt4 green limesFill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 dayAum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim KuruTransO Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water !Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. After washing

it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body.You should notice that she will become calm.FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve.As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol)Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra Maharajb_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote: Hi All, OM Namaha Shivaya! I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and

my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does someone know of any puja that I can do personally? Thanks, Bhupendra.

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Dear Bhupendra, I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views. best wishes dDev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote: Namaskaar BhupendraI suggest you can try the following, Get the following1 big bucket 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do2 lbs salt4 green limesFill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and

leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 dayAum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim KuruTransO Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water !Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body.You should notice that she will become calm.FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes

negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve.As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol)Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra Maharajb_jamnadas <b_jamnadas (AT) (DOT) ca> wrote: Hi All,OM Namaha Shivaya!I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will

keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does someone know of any puja that I can do personally?Thanks,Bhupendra. Need Mail bonding?Go to the Mail Q & A for great tips from Answers users. dinakaran

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I agree with brother Surya. Interestingly I have a daughter of same age and does exactly the same. It makes us angry but becuase I am a devotee of Durga I see Kumarika in her. Before worshipping Durga, I do Kumari Puja and during that time I put a tilak, and offer flowers to my daughter. I do this also because she was born during Navratri. After I have offered her flowers, tilak, fruit then she remains calm. Please do not worry your daughter is as innocent and her attachment to her mother is nothing unnatural. Appreciate her as Devi doing her share of drama in your house and she will be alright. However, if you still need some help please email me directly and I maybe able to offer some suggestion to your little angel. May God's blessing be with her always, Jay.Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote: Sir, You should look at your own actions and example as well as read a book or two on how kids are at this age. Just you stating your two yr old is very naughty because she is attached to her mother or cries when she doesn't get what she wants shows that you have not taken any time to learn about children at all. Don't take your anger and frustration in life out on this little incarnation of the Goddess. Treat Her like Kanyakumari Devi, and your wife like Devi as well, and I am sure you will see a great change. Shift

your outlook from one that is looking to blame others, to one that rejoices about the Blessings in your life. This child is a Blessing. Know that for sure. She doesn't need to change...you do. Find ways to make her happy, while gently educating her as to what is True in Life. You do this gradually with little ones. Two is a very hard year, which is why it is often labelled "terrible twos". Just try to find laughter and joy in it and see Her as Kali Maa. Jai Maa! Surya - b_jamnadas Monday, March 12, 2007 6:40 PM Seeking advice for my baby daughter Hi All,OM Namaha Shivaya!I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very

difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does someone know of any puja that I can do personally?Thanks,Bhupendra. Version: 7.5.446 / Virus Database: 268.18.9/719 - Release 3/12/2007 8:41 AM

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March 14, 2007

Hello sir,

Can we do the following methodology to boy son .

Becoz I ve a boy son of same age 2 yrs 9 mths old with adamant

qualities and not speaking continously....

rgds,

ramya

, Dev Maharaj

<dev_maharaj wrote:

>

> Namaskaar Bhupendra

>

> I suggest you can try the following, Get the following

> 1 big bucket

> 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will

do

> 2 lbs salt

> 4 green limes

>

> Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place

in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the

moonlight for 1 day

>

> Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu

Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru

>

> Trans

> O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri

come into this water !

>

> Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child

from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her

body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off

rubbing her in a down ward motion only.

>

> Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only

leave it on for about 10 minutes.

>

> After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in

a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off

without soap and let the water dry on her body.

>

> You should notice that she will become calm.

>

> FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes

negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her

> At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only.

>

> Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to

drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and

will act to calm and soothe her nerve.

>

> As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is

Indian ....(lol)

>

> Namah Sivaya

> Best Regards

> Pandit Devindra Maharaj

>

> b_jamnadas <b_jamna>

wrote: Hi All,

>

> OM Namaha Shivaya!

>

> I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not

> easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words

nicely

> unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much

> attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it

or

> she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm

as

> long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of

site,

> she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for

shower,

> she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she

> out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a

death

> in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in

> the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was

> crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does

> someone know of any puja that I can do personally?

>

> Thanks,

> Bhupendra.

> Need Mail bonding?

> Go to the Mail Q & A for great tips from Answers users.

>

March 14, 2007

I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail for child abuse.

-

dithu dinakaran

Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM

Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter

Dear Bhupendra,

I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views.

best wishes

dDev Maharaj <dev_maharaj > wrote:

Namaskaar BhupendraI suggest you can try the following, Get the following1 big bucket 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do2 lbs salt4 green limesFill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 dayAum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim KuruTransO Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water !Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body.You should notice that she will become calm.FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve.As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol)Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra Maharajb_jamnadas <b_jamnadas (AT) (DOT) ca> wrote:

Hi All,OM Namaha Shivaya!I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does someone know of any puja that I can do personally?Thanks,Bhupendra.

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March 14, 2007

Thank you very much pundit Ji, I really appreciate your advice.

, Dev Maharaj

<dev_maharaj wrote:

>

> Namaskaar Bhupendra

>

> I suggest you can try the following, Get the following

> 1 big bucket

> 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will

do

> 2 lbs salt

> 4 green limes

>

> Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place

in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the

moonlight for 1 day

>

> Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu

Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru

>

> Trans

> O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri

come into this water !

>

> Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child

from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her

body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off

rubbing her in a down ward motion only.

>

> Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only

leave it on for about 10 minutes.

>

> After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in

a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off

without soap and let the water dry on her body.

>

> You should notice that she will become calm.

>

> FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes

negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her

> At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only.

>

> Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to

drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and

will act to calm and soothe her nerve.

>

> As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is

Indian ....(lol)

>

> Namah Sivaya

> Best Regards

> Pandit Devindra Maharaj

>

> b_jamnadas <b_jamna>

wrote: Hi All,

>

> OM Namaha Shivaya!

>

> I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not

> easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words

nicely

> unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much

> attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it

or

> she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm

as

> long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of

site,

> she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for

shower,

> she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she

> out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a

death

> in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in

> the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was

> crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does

> someone know of any puja that I can do personally?

>

> Thanks,

> Bhupendra.

> Need Mail bonding?

> Go to the Mail Q & A for great tips from Answers users.

>

March 14, 2007

The attachment to the mother is not the only problem, it is her lack

of sleep, she insists on getting what she wants and will not calm

regardless of how much time passes by. There are certain thinks that

cannot be given atleast for her safety such as giving her the phone

to throw at the TV or whan she wants top play with a knife or when

she is trying to pull open the heater vents which even cut my

fungers once or let how climb the dinning table on jump on it.

, Jay Dayal

<jai_dayal wrote:

>

> I agree with brother Surya.

>

> Interestingly I have a daughter of same age and does exactly the

same. It makes us angry but becuase I am a devotee of Durga I see

Kumarika in her. Before worshipping Durga, I do Kumari Puja and

during that time I put a tilak, and offer flowers to my daughter. I

do this also because she was born during Navratri. After I have

offered her flowers, tilak, fruit then she remains calm. Please do

not worry your daughter is as innocent and her attachment to her

mother is nothing unnatural. Appreciate her as Devi doing her share

of drama in your house and she will be alright.

>

> However, if you still need some help please email me directly

and I maybe able to offer some suggestion to your little angel.

>

> May God's blessing be with her always,

> Jay.

>

> Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote:

> Sir,

>

> You should look at your own actions and example as well as read

a book or two on how kids are at this age. Just you stating your

two yr old is very naughty because she is attached to her mother or

cries when she doesn't get what she wants shows that you have not

taken any time to learn about children at all. Don't take your

anger and frustration in life out on this little incarnation of the

Goddess. Treat Her like Kanyakumari Devi, and your wife like Devi

as well, and I am sure you will see a great change. Shift your

outlook from one that is looking to blame others, to one that

rejoices about the Blessings in your life. This child is a

Blessing. Know that for sure. She doesn't need to change...you do.

>

> Find ways to make her happy, while gently educating her as to

what is True in Life. You do this gradually with little ones. Two

is a very hard year, which is why it is often labelled " terrible

twos " . Just try to find laughter and joy in it and see Her as Kali

Maa.

>

> Jai Maa!

>

> Surya

> -

> b_jamnadas

>

> Monday, March 12, 2007 6:40 PM

> Seeking advice for my baby

daughter

>

> Hi All,

>

> OM Namaha Shivaya!

>

> I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not

> easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words

nicely

> unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much

> attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or

> she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm

as

> long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of

site,

> she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower,

> she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she

> out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a

death

> in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in

> the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was

> crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does

> someone know of any puja that I can do personally?

>

> Thanks,

> Bhupendra.

>

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March 15, 2007

attn Bupendra,

pl ignore and be put up with it.

in india we have several cases like this.

wait patiently.

time will solve it.

or come back to india.

we believe in prabda karmas.

let us enjoy the sufferings also as we enjoy

cold,cough/headache!

do not go in for pariharams.[may be psychotherapy]

the hormonal changes will be corrected by nature if

you go to new places,temple cities.

you will gain mental strength .this is another way of

dissolving your bad karmas.a chance given by god.

GPS

--- Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote:

> I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this

> recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what

> that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the

> US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully

> for no apparent reason might be put in jail for

> child abuse.

>

> -

> dithu dinakaran

>

> Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM

> Re: Seeking

> advice for my baby daughter

>

> Dear Bhupendra,

> I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent

> peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording

> to his views.

> best wishes

> d

> Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote:

> Namaskaar Bhupendra

>

> I suggest you can try the following, Get the

> following

> 1 big bucket

> 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better,

> but powdered will do

> 2 lbs salt

> 4 green limes

>

> Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal

> Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it

> out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 day

>

> Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati

> Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru

>

> Trans

> O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati,

> Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water !

>

> Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste,

> and paste the child from the crown of the head going

> down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about

> 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off

> rubbing her in a down ward motion only.

>

> Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure

> above however only leave it on for about 10

> minutes.

>

> After washing it off, cut the limes in halves

> and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using

> the water from the bucket wash off without soap and

> let the water dry on her body.

>

> You should notice that she will become calm.

>

> FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and

> the salt removes negative energy. The water from

> the bucket will re-energize her

> At her age this should only be done about 1 per

> month only.

>

> Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and

> give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of

> Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and

> soothe her nerve.

>

> As for the attachment to money etc... relax the

> child is Indian ....(lol)

>

> Namah Sivaya

> Best Regards

> Pandit Devindra Maharaj

>

> b_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote:

> Hi All,

>

> OM Namaha Shivaya!

>

> I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely

> naughty, would not

> easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly

> speaks any words nicely

> unlike many others I have observed of her age,

> and is very much

> attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she

> needs to have it or

> she will keep crying, and while she is

> playing, she remains calm as

> long as she has her mom within her site. As

> her mom is out of site,

> she starts looking for her crying. If the mom

> has gone for shower,

> she will stand outside and keep crying kicking

> the door until she

> out. Things got very difficult this weekend

> when becuase of a death

> in the family, me and my wife had to go and

> leave our daughter in

> the care of my mom. But the entire time we

> were away, she was

> crying. There m,ust be something that can be

> done about it. Does

> someone know of any puja that I can do

> personally?

>

> Thanks,

> Bhupendra.

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Yes you can try this also, The procedure is not dependant on the sex of the child. Removal of toxins helps to calm the nerves of the child and this helps to get them to be more cooperative. Haldi also has antioxidants and antiseptic properties, this is a herb that has been used in Indian culture for thousands of years - long before we had child specialists. The worst that can happen with this procedure is that the child's health will be improved !However if you think that is unacceptable then my advice is not to do it. However I have given this to hundreds of children with no complaints so far.Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra Maharajramya_sms <no_reply > wrote: Hello sir, Can we do the following methodology to boy son . Becoz I ve a boy son of same age 2 yrs 9 mths old with adamant qualities and not speaking continously.... rgds, ramya , Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote: > > Namaskaar Bhupendra > > I suggest you can try the following, Get the following > 1 big bucket > 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do > 2 lbs salt > 4 green limes > > Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the

moonlight for 1 day > > Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru > > Trans > O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water ! > > > Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only. > > Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. > > After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body. > > You should notice that she will become calm. > > FYI Haldi removes

excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her > At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. > > Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve. > > As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol) > > Namah Sivaya > Best Regards > Pandit Devindra Maharaj > > b_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote: Hi All, > > OM Namaha Shivaya! > > I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not > easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely > unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much > attached

to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or > she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as > long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, > she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, > she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she > out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death > in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in > the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was > crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does > someone know of any puja that I can do personally? > > Thanks, > Bhupendra. > > > > > > > > Need Mail

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Of course. This is the same for every child. Your situation is not unique at all.

Please do some reading on the subject. The problem is with you not knowing how to parent...not with your child.

And you wonder why she is so attached to her mother?

-

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Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:23 PM

Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter

The attachment to the mother is not the only problem, it is her lack of sleep, she insists on getting what she wants and will not calm regardless of how much time passes by. There are certain thinks that cannot be given atleast for her safety such as giving her the phone to throw at the TV or whan she wants top play with a knife or when she is trying to pull open the heater vents which even cut my fungers once or let how climb the dinning table on jump on it. , Jay Dayal <jai_dayal wrote:>> I agree with brother Surya.> > Interestingly I have a daughter of same age and does exactly the same. It makes us angry but becuase I am a devotee of Durga I see Kumarika in her. Before worshipping Durga, I do Kumari Puja and during that time I put a tilak, and offer flowers to my daughter. I do this also because she was born during Navratri. After I have offered her flowers, tilak, fruit then she remains calm. Please do not worry your daughter is as innocent and her attachment to her mother is nothing unnatural. Appreciate her as Devi doing her share of drama in your house and she will be alright. > > However, if you still need some help please email me directly and I maybe able to offer some suggestion to your little angel.> > May God's blessing be with her always,> Jay.> > Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote:> Sir,> > You should look at your own actions and example as well as read a book or two on how kids are at this age. Just you stating your two yr old is very naughty because she is attached to her mother or cries when she doesn't get what she wants shows that you have not taken any time to learn about children at all. Don't take your anger and frustration in life out on this little incarnation of the Goddess. Treat Her like Kanyakumari Devi, and your wife like Devi as well, and I am sure you will see a great change. Shift your outlook from one that is looking to blame others, to one that rejoices about the Blessings in your life. This child is a Blessing. Know that for sure. She doesn't need to change...you do.> > Find ways to make her happy, while gently educating her as to what is True in Life. You do this gradually with little ones. Two is a very hard year, which is why it is often labelled "terrible twos". Just try to find laughter and joy in it and see Her as Kali Maa.> > Jai Maa!> > Surya> - > b_jamnadas > > Monday, March 12, 2007 6:40 PM> Seeking advice for my baby daughter> > > Hi All,> > OM Namaha Shivaya!> > I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not > easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely > unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much > attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or > she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as > long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, > she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, > she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she > out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death > in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in > the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was > crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does > someone know of any puja that I can do personally?> > Thanks,> Bhupendra.> > > > > > > > > Version: 7.5.446 / Virus Database: 268.18.9/719 - Release 3/12/2007 8:41 AM> > > > > > > Food fight? Enjoy some healthy debate> in the Answers Food & Drink Q & A.>

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OM NAMAH SHIVAYA, IT'S VERY COMMON IN A 2 YR OLD BABY. I'M A PRESCHOOL TEACHER TEACHING 3-5 YRS OLD CHILDREN IN UNITED STATES. SO PL. DONOT GET PANIC ABOUT THIS SITUATION.YOU SAID SHE WAS CRYING WHEN LEFT WITH GRANDMA, YOU KNOW WHAT THE CHILD IS ONLY 2 YRS PL. GO BACK TO OUR CHILDHOOD AND AT THE AGE OF 2YRS, WE NEVER LEFT OUR PARENTS,AS THEY USED TO TAKE CARE OF US PERSONALLY RATHER LEAVING US WITH SOME BODY WHOM THE CHILD IS NOT COMFORTABLE OR FEMILIAR. SO DO NOT WORRY ABOUT THE LITTLE KID ONCE WHEN SHE START GOING TO SCHOOL AFTER FEW DAYS IN SCHOOL YOU SEE A LOT OF CHANGE IN HER. ITS QUITE NORMAL FOR A 2YR. OLD SHE IS ONLY A BABY REMEMBER. IF ANY QUESTIONS GO ON INTERNET AND SEARCH FOR BEHAVIORAL BENCHMARKS/STANDARDS YOU CAN FIND FROM 0-18 MONTHS, 18-36 AND 36 TO 60 MONTHS AND YOU WILL BE HAPPY. BABY NEEDS MOMMY SO SHE IS FOLLOWING TO BATHROOM. IF THERE IS NOBODY MOM CAN LET HER IN OR OPEN DOOR FOR HER WHAT SHE9BABY

NEEDS IS SEURITY SO SHE IS LOOKING FOR MOMMY AS SHE KNOWS AND TRUST ONLY HER AT THIS AGE. SO PL. RELAX AND ENCOURAGE HER TO COME AND SPEND TIME WITH FRIENS TO PLAY AND IF OTHER THAN MOM ALSO PLAY WITH HER OR SPEND GOOD TIME WITH HER SHE DEVELOPES CONFIDENCE AND TRUST IN THEM SHE WILL BE ALRIGHT. HOPE I DID NOT DIS APPOINT YOU IN THIS REGARD. OMNAMHSHIVAYA RAMA Rama Vajjala

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OMNAMAHSHIVAYAH, BHUPENDRA GARU JUST RELAX PL. DONOT FOLLOW EVERYTHING THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THE LITTLE BABY. JUST ENJOY HER LOVELY ACTIONS. I'M ALSO A PARENT OF 2 CHILDREN WENT THROUGH ALL THESE AND NOW THEY ARE 21 AND 15. NOW YOUR DAUGHTER IS IN TERRIFIC TWO'S 9AS I DON'T WANT TO SAY TERRIBLE0. I HAVE A STUDENT WHO JUST TURNED 3 IN SEPT. HE RUNS AROUND CLASS ROOM, SPITS ON OTHERS, KICKS, BITES AND USE UN ACCEPTED LANGUAGE ALSO IT'S COMMON IN THIS COUNTRY. AND THEY CHANGE. SO DON'T GO FOR PUJA OR DURGA OR ANY WE NEED TO DO OUR PUJA OR ROUTINE BUT NOT FOR THE LITTLE ANGLE, TAKE IT EASY AND CALM DOWN AND SPEND SOME TIME SPECIALLY WITH HER. AS CHILDREN NEED ATTENTION AND THEY DON'T GET IT IT ALSO THEY DO THAT. SOME KIDS MAY BE YOU NOTICED WHEN SOME ONE VISITS OR MOM AND DAD BUSY TALKING ON PHONE THEY ASK SOME THING OR PEMISSION TO GO OUT AS THEY KNOW WE CANNOT SAY NO AT THAT TIME. SAME WAY. SO IGNORE NOW AND YOU AND YOUR WIFE JUST RELAX TAKE HER OUT

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Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so well behaved and healthy too !Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can only help. Further health is not something that one can do something about only after you get sick, if it is proactively managed a disease never gets to manifest - hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI Mahamuni Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a number of food preparations such as curry ! Also in Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering to Lord Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any number of Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you will see Haldi as a prominent ingredient. So this is nothing that is new and/or untested here.Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea contains salt. Can you imagine that ? So all things considered I am not sure what is the abuse here ?Further a child is normally attached to its mother especially if it is breast fed and kept on the left side of the mother as there

is a connection to the heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise 14 nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials and tribulations you can go through with them.However something that all of you should be aware of, at a metaphysical level it is only the souls that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble.Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote: I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail for child abuse. - dithu dinakaran Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter Dear Bhupendra, I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views. best wishes dDev Maharaj <dev_maharaj > wrote: Namaskaar BhupendraI suggest you can try the following, Get the following1 big bucket 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do2 lbs salt4 green limesFill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 dayAum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim KuruTransO Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water !Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body.You should notice that she will become calm.FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her At her age

this should only be done about 1 per month only. Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve.As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol)Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra Maharajb_jamnadas <b_jamnadas (AT) (DOT) ca> wrote: Hi All,OM Namaha Shivaya!I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will keep

crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does someone know of any puja that I can do personally?Thanks,Bhupendra. Need Mail bonding?Go to the Mail Q & A for great tips from Answers users. dinakaran Here’s a new way to find what you're looking for - Answers Version:

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Ramya

, Dev Maharaj

<dev_maharaj wrote:

>

> Yes you can try this also, The procedure is not dependant on the

sex of the child. Removal of toxins helps to calm the nerves of the

child and this helps to get them to be more cooperative. Haldi also

has antioxidants and antiseptic properties, this is a herb that has

been used in Indian culture for thousands of years - long before we

had child specialists. The worst that can happen with this procedure

is that the child's health will be improved !

>

> However if you think that is unacceptable then my advice is not to

do it. However I have given this to hundreds of children with no

complaints so far.

>

> Namah Sivaya

> Best Regards

> Pandit Devindra Maharaj

>

> ramya_sms <no_reply >

wrote: Hello sir,

> Can we do the following methodology to boy son .

> Becoz I ve a boy son of same age 2 yrs 9 mths old with adamant

> qualities and not speaking continously....

>

> rgds,

> ramya

> , Dev Maharaj

> <dev_maharaj@> wrote:

> >

> > Namaskaar Bhupendra

> >

> > I suggest you can try the following, Get the following

> > 1 big bucket

> > 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered

will

> do

> > 2 lbs salt

> > 4 green limes

> >

> > Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra,

place

> in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the

> moonlight for 1 day

> >

> > Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade

Sindhu

> Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru

> >

> > Trans

> > O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu,

Kaaveri

> come into this water !

> >

> > Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the

child

> from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on

her

> body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off

> rubbing her in a down ward motion only.

> >

> > Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however

only

> leave it on for about 10 minutes.

> >

> > After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body

in

> a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off

> without soap and let the water dry on her body.

> >

> > You should notice that she will become calm.

> >

> > FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt

removes

> negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her

> > At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only.

> >

> > Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to

> drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and

> will act to calm and soothe her nerve.

> >

> > As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is

> Indian ....(lol)

> >

> > Namah Sivaya

> > Best Regards

> > Pandit Devindra Maharaj

> >

> > b_jamnadas <b_jamnadas@>

> wrote: Hi All,

> >

> > OM Namaha Shivaya!

> >

> > I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would

not

> > easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words

> nicely

> > unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very

much

> > attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have

it

> or

> > she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains

calm

> as

> > long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of

> site,

> > she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for

> shower,

> > she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until

she

> > out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a

> death

> > in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter

in

> > the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was

> > crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it.

Does

> > someone know of any puja that I can do personally?

> >

> > Thanks,

> > Bhupendra.

> >

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<However something that all of you should be aware of,

at a metaphysical level it is only the souls that

would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to

certain families. Due to the powerful nature of Shiva

and Shakti many of these souls are naturally

rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble.>

Is there any reference to this effect in Shiv Purana.

Because I am a very staunch devotee of Lord Mahadev,

and I was very very naughty in my childhood.

--- Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote:

> Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so

> well behaved and healthy too !

>

> Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can

> only help. Further health is not something that one

> can do something about only after you get sick, if

> it is proactively managed a disease never gets to

> manifest - hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI

> Mahamuni Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a

> number of food preparations such as curry ! Also in

> Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering to Lord

> Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any

> number of Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you

> will see Haldi as a prominent ingredient. So this is

> nothing that is new and/or untested here.

>

> Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea

> contains salt. Can you imagine that ? So all things

> considered I am not sure what is the abuse here ?

>

> Further a child is normally attached to its mother

> especially if it is breast fed and kept on the left

> side of the mother as there is a connection to the

> heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise 14

> nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials

> and tribulations you can go through with them.

>

> However something that all of you should be aware

> of, at a metaphysical level it is only the souls

> that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are

> born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature

> of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are

> naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of

> trouble.

>

> Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote:

>

> I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this

> recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what

> that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the

> US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully

> for no apparent reason might be put in jail for

> child abuse.

>

> -

> dithu dinakaran

>

> Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM

> Re: Seeking

> advice for my baby daughter

>

> Dear Bhupendra,

> I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent

> peadiatrician (child specialist) and act

> acfcording to his views.

> best wishes

> d

> Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote:

> Namaskaar Bhupendra

>

> I suggest you can try the following, Get the

> following

> 1 big bucket

> 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better,

> but powdered will do

> 2 lbs salt

> 4 green limes

>

> Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal

> Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave

> it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1

> day

>

> Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati

> Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru

>

> Trans

> O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati,

> Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water

> !

>

> Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and

> paste the child from the crown of the head going

> down to the toes. Leave this on her body for

> about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it

> off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.

>

> Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure

> above however only leave it on for about 10

> minutes.

>

> After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and

> rub her body in a downward motion only. Using

> the water from the bucket wash off without soap

> and let the water dry on her body.

>

> You should notice that she will become calm.

>

> FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and

> the salt removes negative energy. The water from

> the bucket will re-energize her

> At her age this should only be done about 1 per

> month only.

>

> Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1

> glass to drink. You can also give a tea of

> Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to

> calm and soothe her nerve.

>

> As for the attachment to money etc... relax

> the child is Indian ....(lol)

>

> Namah Sivaya

> Best Regards

> Pandit Devindra Maharaj

>

> b_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote:

> Hi All,

>

> OM Namaha Shivaya!

>

> I have a 2 year old daughter who uis

> extremely naughty, would not

> easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly

> speaks any words nicely

> unlike many others I have observed of her

> age, and is very much

> attached to her money. Whatever she wants,

> she needs to have it or

> she will keep crying, and while she is

> playing, she remains calm as

> long as she has her mom within her site. As

> her mom is out of site,

> she starts looking for her crying. If the mom

> has gone for shower,

> she will stand outside and keep crying

> kicking the door until she

> out. Things got very difficult this weekend

> when becuase of a death

> in the family, me and my wife had to go and

> leave our daughter in

> the care of my mom. But the entire time we were

> away, she was

> crying. There m,ust be something that can be done

> about it. Does

> someone know of any puja that I can do

> personally?

>

> Thanks,

> Bhupendra.

>

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Punditji,

I am very familiar with Haldi/Tumeric and its properties. That was never the contention. It was the smearing of it head to toe on a two year old. If they are compliant, then fine. If not, then why force such things unless they are desperately ill?

If what you say about the souls that worship Shiva and Shakti is true, then it is even more reason to not try to forcefully make them the way you want or think they should be.

I don't agree with your sentiments on this though.

Thanks,

Surya

-

Dev Maharaj

Thursday, March 15, 2007 1:14 AM

Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter

Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so well behaved and healthy too !Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can only help. Further health is not something that one can do something about only after you get sick, if it is proactively managed a disease never gets to manifest - hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI Mahamuni Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a number of food preparations such as curry ! Also in Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering to Lord Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any number of Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you will see Haldi as a prominent ingredient. So this is nothing that is new and/or untested here.Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea contains salt. Can you imagine that ? So all things considered I am not sure what is the abuse here ?Further a child is normally attached to its mother especially if it is breast fed and kept on the left side of the mother as there is a connection to the heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise 14 nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials and tribulations you can go through with them.However something that all of you should be aware of, at a metaphysical level it is only the souls that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble.Mahamuni Das <mahamuni (AT) cox (DOT) net> wrote:

I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail for child abuse.

-

dithu dinakaran

Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM

Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter

Dear Bhupendra,

I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views.

best wishes

dDev Maharaj <dev_maharaj > wrote:

Namaskaar BhupendraI suggest you can try the following, Get the following1 big bucket 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do2 lbs salt4 green limesFill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 dayAum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim KuruTransO Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water !Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body.You should notice that she will become calm.FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve.As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol)Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra Maharajb_jamnadas <b_jamnadas (AT) (DOT) ca> wrote:

Hi All,OM Namaha Shivaya!I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does someone know of any puja that I can do personally?Thanks,Bhupendra.

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Namaste Pundit Ji,

Yes, you are correct pundit Ji about breast feeding and being kept

on the left side.

, Dev Maharaj

<dev_maharaj wrote:

>

> Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so well behaved and

healthy too !

>

> Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can only help.

Further health is not something that one can do something about only

after you get sick, if it is proactively managed a disease never

gets to manifest - hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI Mahamuni

Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a number of food preparations

such as curry ! Also in Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering

to Lord Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any number of

Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you will see Haldi as a

prominent ingredient. So this is nothing that is new and/or untested

here.

>

> Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea contains salt. Can

you imagine that ? So all things considered I am not sure what is

the abuse here ?

>

> Further a child is normally attached to its mother especially if

it is breast fed and kept on the left side of the mother as there is

a connection to the heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise

14 nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials and

tribulations you can go through with them.

>

> However something that all of you should be aware of, at a

metaphysical level it is only the souls that would worship Lord

Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to certain families. Due to the

powerful nature of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are

naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble.

>

> Mahamuni Das <mahamuni

wrote:

> I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this recommendation

for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be like? The child

is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to their child

forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail for child

abuse.

>

> -

> dithu dinakaran

>

> Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM

> Re: Seeking advice for my

baby daughter

>

> Dear Bhupendra,

> I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician

(child specialist) and act acfcording to his views.

> best wishes

> d

> Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote:

> Namaskaar Bhupendra

>

> I suggest you can try the following, Get the following

> 1 big bucket

> 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered

will do

> 2 lbs salt

> 4 green limes

>

> Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra,

place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in

the moonlight for 1 day

>

> Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade

Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru

>

> Trans

> O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu,

Kaaveri come into this water !

>

> Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the

child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave

this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash

it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.

>

> Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however

only leave it on for about 10 minutes.

>

> After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her

body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket

wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body.

>

> You should notice that she will become calm.

>

> FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt

removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-

energize her

> At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only.

>

> Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to

drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine

and will act to calm and soothe her nerve.

>

> As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is

Indian ....(lol)

>

> Namah Sivaya

> Best Regards

> Pandit Devindra Maharaj

>

> b_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote: Hi All,

>

> OM Namaha Shivaya!

>

> I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty,

would not

> easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any

words nicely

> unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very

much

> attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to

have it or

> she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains

calm as

> long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out

of site,

> she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for

shower,

> she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door

until she

> out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of

a death

> in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our

daughter in

> the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she

was

> crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it.

Does

> someone know of any puja that I can do personally?

>

> Thanks,

> Bhupendra.

>

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I can't recall at the moment but I don't think so - this was derived from studies in Shaktism and Theosophy..Manoj Sharma <manojsharma662000 wrote: <However something that all of you should be aware of, at a metaphysical level it is only the souls that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble.> Is there any reference to this

effect in Shiv Purana. Because I am a very staunch devotee of Lord Mahadev, and I was very very naughty in my childhood. --- Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj > wrote: > Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so > well behaved and healthy too ! > > Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can > only help. Further health is not something that one > can do something about only after you get sick, if > it is proactively managed a disease never gets to > manifest - hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI > Mahamuni Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a > number of food preparations such as curry ! Also in > Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering to Lord > Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any > number of Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you > will see Haldi as a

prominent ingredient. So this is > nothing that is new and/or untested here. > > Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea > contains salt. Can you imagine that ? So all things > considered I am not sure what is the abuse here ? > > Further a child is normally attached to its mother > especially if it is breast fed and kept on the left > side of the mother as there is a connection to the > heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise 14 > nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials > and tribulations you can go through with them. > > However something that all of you should be aware > of, at a metaphysical level it is only the souls > that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are > born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature > of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are > naturally rambunctious and will give all

kinds of > trouble. > > > > > Mahamuni Das <mahamuni (AT) cox (DOT) net> wrote: > > I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this > recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what > that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the > US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully > for no apparent reason might be put in jail for > child abuse. > > - > dithu dinakaran > > Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM > Re: Seeking > advice for my baby daughter > > > > Dear Bhupendra,

> I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent > peadiatrician (child specialist) and act > acfcording to his views. > best wishes > d > Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj > wrote: > Namaskaar Bhupendra > > I suggest you can try the following, Get the > following > 1 big bucket > 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, > but powdered will do > 2 lbs salt > 4 green limes > > Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal > Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave > it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 > day > > Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati > Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru > > Trans > O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari,

Saravati, > Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water > ! > > > Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and > paste the child from the crown of the head going > down to the toes. Leave this on her body for > about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it > off rubbing her in a down ward motion only. > > Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure > above however only leave it on for about 10 > minutes. > > After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and > rub her body in a downward motion only. Using > the water from the bucket wash off without soap > and let the water dry on her body. > > You should notice that she will become calm. > > FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and > the salt removes negative energy. The water

from > the bucket will re-energize her > At her age this should only be done about 1 per > month only. > > Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 > glass to drink. You can also give a tea of > Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to > calm and soothe her nerve. > > As for the attachment to money etc... relax > the child is Indian ....(lol) > > Namah Sivaya > Best Regards > Pandit Devindra Maharaj > > b_jamnadas <b_jamnadas (AT) (DOT) ca> wrote: > Hi All, > > OM Namaha Shivaya! > > I have a 2 year old daughter who uis > extremely naughty, would not > easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly > speaks any words nicely > unlike many others I have

observed of her > age, and is very much > attached to her money. Whatever she wants, > she needs to have it or > she will keep crying, and while she is > playing, she remains calm as > long as she has her mom within her site. As > her mom is out of site, > she starts looking for her crying. If the mom > has gone for shower, > she will stand outside and keep crying > kicking the door until she > out. Things got very difficult this weekend > when becuase of a death > in the family, me and my wife had to go and > leave our daughter in > the care of my mom. But the entire time we were > away, she was > crying. There m,ust be something that can be done > about it. Does > someone know of any puja that I can do > personally? > >

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Dear all,

I concur with my colleague devotee says. With the benefit of scientific advances and knowledge, we may have to compare and check whether the some of the remedies (or so advanced by some self proclaimed swamiji's) are really beneficial to the people.

The best solution to this problem, is to take the child to a good psychiatrist/paediatrician/hospital and check with them. That would help out in solving the issue.

I also agree that Haldi helps in remedial action, but that is for toxicants removal only.

Regards,

A.V.Kamath

-

Mahamuni Das

Thursday, March 15, 2007 7:04 AM

Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter

I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail for child abuse.

-

dithu dinakaran

Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM

Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter

Dear Bhupendra,

I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views.

best wishes

dDev Maharaj <dev_maharaj > wrote:

Namaskaar BhupendraI suggest you can try the following, Get the following1 big bucket 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do2 lbs salt4 green limesFill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 dayAum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim KuruTransO Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water !Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body.You should notice that she will become calm.FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve.As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol)Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra Maharajb_jamnadas <b_jamnadas (AT) (DOT) ca> wrote:

Hi All,OM Namaha Shivaya!I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does someone know of any puja that I can do personally?Thanks,Bhupendra.

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Namaskaar This is a simple issue that has turned into a fiasco of sorts. I was asked for a remedy and gave one !. I did not volunteer this nor have I charged for it nor have I suggested that it be used forcefully. This is a procedure that can be used while the child is taking a bath. It is up to the person asking for it to decide whether they would like to try it or not. What I gave is in no way harmful to the child and can actually help her. For the general information of all and sundry, many times when children are in different environments such as schools, playgrounds etc.. their bodies absorb a lot of negative energies as these places are cleaned by being swept or washed with water but not at an energy level. Even in schools or in an apartment due to the generally poor circulation of fresh air, a lot of bacteria, germs and viruses can be acquired just by sitting without doing anything ( Ref. Sick Building Syndrome).This in turn

can cause a lot of unnecessary sickness and bad behaviour. So why is it necessary to wait until you get sick to manage a potential disease - Also even by eating there are toxins that are present and that are a by product of natural digestive processes. By taking Haldi it purges yours cells of impurities allowing you to have a healthy disposition.By the way, cleaning the nervous system and allowing the child a more serene state can also have an added benefit which is that the child will have increased capacity for learning. By the way have you ever wondered why what doctors do is called Practice ?And why despite all the advances in science, many old diseases are still prevalent ?Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra MaharajMahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote: Punditji, I am very familiar with Haldi/Tumeric and its properties. That was never the contention. It was the smearing of it head to toe on a two year old. If they are compliant, then fine. If not, then why force such things unless they are desperately ill? If what you say about the souls that worship Shiva and Shakti is true, then it is even more reason to not try to forcefully make them the way you want or think they should be. I don't agree with your sentiments on this though. Thanks, Surya

- Dev Maharaj Thursday, March 15, 2007 1:14 AM Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so well behaved and healthy too !Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can only help. Further health is not something that one can do something about only after you get sick, if it is proactively managed a disease never gets to manifest

- hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI Mahamuni Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a number of food preparations such as curry ! Also in Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering to Lord Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any number of Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you will see Haldi as a prominent ingredient. So this is nothing that is new and/or untested here.Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea contains salt. Can you imagine that ? So all things considered I am not sure what is the abuse here ?Further a child is normally attached to its mother especially if it is breast fed and kept on the left side of the mother as there is a connection to the heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise 14 nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials and tribulations you can go through with them.However something that all of you should be aware of, at a metaphysical level it

is only the souls that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble.Mahamuni Das <mahamuni (AT) cox (DOT) net> wrote: I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail for child abuse. - dithu dinakaran Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter Dear Bhupendra, I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views. best wishes dDev Maharaj <dev_maharaj > wrote: Namaskaar BhupendraI suggest you can try the following, Get the following1 big bucket 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better,

but powdered will do2 lbs salt4 green limesFill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 dayAum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim KuruTransO Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water !Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body.You should notice that she will become calm.FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve.As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol)Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra Maharajb_jamnadas <b_jamnadas (AT) (DOT) ca> wrote: Hi All,OM Namaha Shivaya!I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were

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March 16, 2007

I'm going to decline to comment further. I believe I made my point. You seem strong about yours. We'll leave it at that.

Pranams,

Surya

-

Dev Maharaj

Thursday, March 15, 2007 11:19 PM

Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter

Namaskaar This is a simple issue that has turned into a fiasco of sorts. I was asked for a remedy and gave one !. I did not volunteer this nor have I charged for it nor have I suggested that it be used forcefully. This is a procedure that can be used while the child is taking a bath. It is up to the person asking for it to decide whether they would like to try it or not. What I gave is in no way harmful to the child and can actually help her. For the general information of all and sundry, many times when children are in different environments such as schools, playgrounds etc.. their bodies absorb a lot of negative energies as these places are cleaned by being swept or washed with water but not at an energy level. Even in schools or in an apartment due to the generally poor circulation of fresh air, a lot of bacteria, germs and viruses can be acquired just by sitting without doing anything ( Ref. Sick Building Syndrome).This in turn can cause a lot of unnecessary sickness and bad behaviour.So why is it necessary to wait until you get sick to manage a potential disease - Also even by eating there are toxins that are present and that are a by product of natural digestive processes. By taking Haldi it purges yours cells of impurities allowing you to have a healthy disposition.By the way, cleaning the nervous system and allowing the child a more serene state can also have an added benefit which is that the child will have increased capacity for learning. By the way have you ever wondered why what doctors do is called Practice ?And why despite all the advances in science, many old diseases are still prevalent ?Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra MaharajMahamuni Das <mahamuni (AT) cox (DOT) net> wrote:

Punditji,

I am very familiar with Haldi/Tumeric and its properties. That was never the contention. It was the smearing of it head to toe on a two year old. If they are compliant, then fine. If not, then why force such things unless they are desperately ill?

If what you say about the souls that worship Shiva and Shakti is true, then it is even more reason to not try to forcefully make them the way you want or think they should be.

I don't agree with your sentiments on this though.

Thanks,

Surya

-

Dev Maharaj

Thursdy, March 15, 2007 1:14 AM

Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter

Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so well behaved and healthy too !Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can only help. Further health is not something that one can do something about only after you get sick, if it is proactively managed a disease never gets to manifest - hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI Mahamuni Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a number of food preparations such as curry ! Also in Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering to Lord Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any number of Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you will see Haldi as a prominent ingredient. So this is nothing that is new and/or untested here.Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea contains salt. Can you imagine that ? So all things considered I am not sure what is the abuse here ?Further a child is normally attached to its mother especially if it is breast fed and kept on the left side of the mother as there is a connection to the heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise 14 nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials and tribulations you can go through with them.However something that all of you should be aware of, at a metaphysical level it is only the souls that would worship Lord Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to certain families. Due to the powerful nature of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble.Mahamuni Das <mahamuni (AT) cox (DOT) net> wrote:

I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be like? The child is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to their child forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail for child abuse.

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Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM

Re: Seeking advice for my baby daughter

Dear Bhupendra,

I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views.

best wishes

dDev Maharaj <dev_maharaj > wrote:

Namaskaar BhupendraI suggest you can try the following, Get the following1 big bucket 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but powdered will do2 lbs salt4 green limesFill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra, place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the moonlight for 1 dayAum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim KuruTransO Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu, Kaaveri come into this water !Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above however only leave it on for about 10 minutes. After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body.You should notice that she will become calm.FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize her At her age this should only be done about 1 per month only. Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and will act to calm and soothe her nerve.As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is Indian ....(lol)Namah SivayaBest RegardsPandit Devindra Maharajb_jamnadas <b_jamnadas (AT) (DOT) ca> wrote:

Hi All,OM Namaha Shivaya!I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty, would not easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any words nicely unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is very much attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to have it or she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she remains calm as long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is out of site, she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone for shower, she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door until she out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase of a death in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our daughter in the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away, she was crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about it. Does someone know of any puja that I can do personally?Thanks,Bhupendra.

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March 16, 2007

Dear Surya,

I do not recall pundit Ji ever suggesting that I should force his

remedy on my daughter. Of course it is implied that any remedy

should be tried only if the child is compliant. You have made your

own assumptions here that the child be forced to have haldi applied

to her body.

Bhupendra.

, " Mahamuni Das "

<mahamuni wrote:

>

> Punditji,

>

> I am very familiar with Haldi/Tumeric and its properties. That

was never the contention. It was the smearing of it head to toe on

a two year old. If they are compliant, then fine. If not, then why

force such things unless they are desperately ill?

>

> If what you say about the souls that worship Shiva and Shakti is

true, then it is even more reason to not try to forcefully make them

the way you want or think they should be.

>

> I don't agree with your sentiments on this though.

>

> Thanks,

>

> Surya

> -

> Dev Maharaj

>

> Thursday, March 15, 2007 1:14 AM

> Re: Seeking advice for my baby

daughter

>

> Yes its no wonder in the US that every one is so well behaved

and healthy too !

>

> Abuse is when you seek to harm - this procedure can only help.

Further health is not something that one can do something about only

after you get sick, if it is proactively managed a disease never

gets to manifest - hence the practices of fasting etc.. FYI Mahamuni

Das in Indian cusine, Haldi is used in a number of food preparations

such as curry ! Also in Puja, Haldi (Turmeric) is used in offering

to Lord Shiva as Tarpana or in Homa. If you examine any number of

Ayurvedic - womens beauty products you will see Haldi as a

prominent ingredient. So this is nothing that is new and/or untested

here.

>

> Whenever you go to the sea for a bath, the sea contains salt.

Can you imagine that ? So all things considered I am not sure what

is the abuse here ?

>

> Further a child is normally attached to its mother especially if

it is breast fed and kept on the left side of the mother as there is

a connection to the heart beat of the mother. I have helped to raise

14 nephews and nieces and am well aware of the trials and

tribulations you can go through with them.

>

> However something that all of you should be aware of, at a

metaphysical level it is only the souls that would worship Lord

Shiva/Shakti Ma that are born to certain families. Due to the

powerful nature of Shiva and Shakti many of these souls are

naturally rambunctious and will give all kinds of trouble.

>

> Mahamuni Das <mahamuni wrote:

>

> I too was very surprised that Punditji gave this

recommendation for a 2 yr old. Can you imagine what that would be

like? The child is NOT sick. In the US, a parent doing this to

their child forcefully for no apparent reason might be put in jail

for child abuse.

>

> -

> dithu dinakaran

>

> Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:14 AM

> Re: Seeking advice for my

baby daughter

>

> Dear Bhupendra,

> I would advice you strongly to consult an eminent

peadiatrician (child specialist) and act acfcording to his views.

> best wishes

> d

> Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj wrote:

> Namaskaar Bhupendra

>

> I suggest you can try the following, Get the following

> 1 big bucket

> 1 lb Haldi ( turmeric ) - Fresh root is better, but

powdered will do

> 2 lbs salt

> 4 green limes

>

> Fill the bucket with water, recite the Jal Shuddhi Mantra,

place in a clean spot and leave it out in the sunlight and in the

moonlight for 1 day

>

> Aum Gange Cha Yamune Chaiva Godaavari, Sarasvati Naarmade

Sindhu Kaaveri Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru

>

> Trans

> O Gangaa, Yamunaa, Godaavari, Saravati, Naarmade, Sindhu,

Kaaveri come into this water !

>

> Mix the Haldi in water to form a thick paste, and paste

the child from the crown of the head going down to the toes. Leave

this on her body for about 45 mins. Let it dry completely. Then wash

it off rubbing her in a down ward motion only.

>

> Mix the salt in water and repeat the procedure above

however only leave it on for about 10 minutes.

>

> After washing it off, cut the limes in halves and rub her

body in a downward motion only. Using the water from the bucket

wash off without soap and let the water dry on her body.

>

> You should notice that she will become calm.

>

> FYI Haldi removes excess toxins in the body and the salt

removes negative energy. The water from the bucket will re-energize

her

> At her age this should only be done about 1 per month

only.

>

> Mix 1 table spoon oft he Haldi and water and give 1 glass

to drink. You can also give a tea of Tulasi as this is a nervine and

will act to calm and soothe her nerve.

>

> As for the attachment to money etc... relax the child is

Indian ....(lol)

>

> Namah Sivaya

> Best Regards

> Pandit Devindra Maharaj

>

> b_jamnadas <b_jamna> wrote:

> Hi All,

>

> OM Namaha Shivaya!

>

> I have a 2 year old daughter who uis extremely naughty,

would not

> easily sleep, even after 2 years she hardly speaks any

words nicely

> unlike many others I have observed of her age, and is

very much

> attached to her money. Whatever she wants, she needs to

have it or

> she will keep crying, and while she is playing, she

remains calm as

> long as she has her mom within her site. As her mom is

out of site,

> she starts looking for her crying. If the mom has gone

for shower,

> she will stand outside and keep crying kicking the door

until she

> out. Things got very difficult this weekend when becuase

of a death

> in the family, me and my wife had to go and leave our

daughter in

> the care of my mom. But the entire time we were away,

she was

> crying. There m,ust be something that can be done about

it. Does

> someone know of any puja that I can do personally?

>

> Thanks,

> Bhupendra.

>

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