Guest guest Report post Posted July 21, 2006 --- iietsa <iietsa a écrit : > Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " > <dan330033 > wrote: > > > > Nisargadatta , " skywhilds " > <skywords@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > >I only want to know how you yourself are > feeling. Please do > not > > > talk to me about no-self, nor about abstract > situations. So > that I > > > may feel your love and offer mine in return. > > > > > > I am no longer interested in the semantics of > being an island. > If you > > > suffer, open the door to love in love. If you > do not suffer, why > > > list, why anything? > > > > > > Listing, being, is suffering, anyone who denies > this is > suffering too > > > much to admit it. > > > > > > Love is beautiful suffering in hope of healing > transformation > though > > > another, is it not? > > > > > > No one is beyond hope, beauty, transformation, > the longing for > another > > > to love and be loved. > > > > > > ~*~ > > > > People talk about their concern to end suffering, > theirs or someone > > else's. > > > > That very attempt to end suffering, or to have a > solution for > > suffering, it itself a form of suffering. And of > course, it's a > form > > of suffering that has been *very* good for > organized religions. > > > > Suffering isn't problematic, in and of itself, as > it is. > > > > What gets problematic is the attaching to > suffering, or conceiving > of > > an opposite state that one wants to attach to, or > conceiving > suffering > > as something needing to be got rid of. Often, the > conceiving it as > > something better to be got rid of, and the > attaching to it, are the > > same process. > > > > There's where the excessive friction comes in. > > > > If one is suffering, one can suffer honestly and > nonproblematically, > > although generally people complicate it and make > it worse than it > is. > > If one isn't suffering, then no need to try to > manufacture it. > How > > it is, it is. If someone else is there and a > loving connection is, > > then it is. If a bond is broken, then it is time > for a bond to > break. > > Nothing to attach to, in either situation. > > > > There's no need to look for a remedy, or to hold a > person or some > kind > > of state of being in love as a solution. > > > > Love isn't a remedy for suffering. > > > > Love is able to embody suffering without trying to > move away to > some > > other state of being, without requiring a > transformation of itself > > into something else. > > > > To think someone else will be the answer for one's > suffering, often > > tends to compound one's suffering. > > > > -- Dan > > > > love is welcoming what comes... > without even empasizing what comes... > loves very nature is loving... > and loving dont judge what comes... > > ...iietsa that meth head neighbor of mine approached me yesterday, his eyes so shiny and fixed, on i don`t know what, i just pick up those bananas i was lovingly looking at and ran. didn`t feel to welcoming, no time for judjing either. Should i have stayed and wait for whatever was coming with trust that love solves everything?? don`t think so. Patricia > > > > > _________________________ Découvrez un nouveau moyen de poser toutes vos questions quelque soit le sujet ! Questions/Réponses pour partager vos connaissances, vos opinions et vos expériences. http://fr.answers. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
