ronitpf 0 Report post Posted July 13, 2008 namaste respected sirs I have a weird fear.. I am a confident female of 37 years staying in a joint family since birh..was married but divorced very soon...the reason i feel was my fear.. my ex husband had a senior lady friend to whom he was emotionally very very attached...this led to me being isolated..a sense of loosing my man to someone whom he was so emotionally attached was unbearable...i became so isolated that all types of thoughts entered my mind... secondly i was very very fearful of his safety which made me behave very uncharacteristically..i started fighting with him...just so that he would not laeve me alone and go.... i was a very very confident businesswomen who has seen lot of sickness in my family... i am now a divorcee..somehow i have dreading even talking to GOD who was my best friend as i could tell all my thoughts to him... i am not scared away from my ex husbad.. please can one diagnose what caused my fears through my chart why did i fear so much at my ex's house was there black magic???? was there some planetary indications please sirs' diagnose this problem so that i can get peace regarding my absolute uncharacteristic behaviour for your reference date of birth...15th march 1971 at Bombay, Maharastra India time of birth...03.45 am approximately thanks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sasisekaran_pti 0 Report post Posted July 14, 2008 om gurubhyo namah namaste dear ronitpf your fears are seen in the chart. mental stability coupled with good and balanced thinking lead to right decisions. your mind or mana shown by the moon is caught between the nodes and aspected by atmakaraka saturn , who is neecha. venus's placement in makara along with rahu and aspected by a deblitated saturn as atma karaka has given you bad experiences in relationship. bhadakesa mars's role is also seen in the chart. since i assume you may not know astrology, i do not want to go into depth. you have said your birth time is approximate. how close it is to the real birth time ? for any such fears , please chant maha mritunjiya mantra daily. pray shiva intensely. may mother bless all regards sasisekaran Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rnramachandran 0 Report post Posted July 14, 2008 what sassekaran says is correct. and considering the time of birth, you are undergoing Sani mahadasa, so such alone feelings erupts, keep going to Hanuman temple on saturday, navagraha temple offer til and oil on saturdays, the evil effects will reduce. of course chat the mantra said by sasisekaranji. 7th lord moon is placed in the 10th and aspected by Saturn, definitly whether your husband is worng or right, you will always have the feeling of being alone but that may not be true. try yoga and mediation and go to temple, that only will help you in this mahadasa. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ronitpf 0 Report post Posted July 14, 2008 namaste thank you kind sir's yes the time of birth is as said by my mother...if it is correct..is there some kind of depression i am undergoing or was i a victim of black magic as i behaved that way only for the short time i was with my ex husband....i am going for puja and will start offering til oil on saturdays thanks ps.. also the weird behaviour stopped when i restarted living in my parents house after the divorce....i was so weird that at times i cannot understand why i behaved in the manner i did which was so very very unlike me at all Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sasisekaran_pti 0 Report post Posted July 14, 2008 om gurubhyo namah namaste dear smt.ronitpf when did you marry and when did you move away from him ? i would like to asses the role of mars rahu and saturn in this regard may mother bless all regards sasisekaran Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ronitpf 0 Report post Posted July 14, 2008 Namaste Sir Sir, we met in May 2007 and had an arranged marriage in July 2007 on the 15th..we were together for a period from May...to July 23rd and then from 15th august to 6 february 2008.... he felt that i had became a depression patient and my weird behaviour was proof enough..what i cannot understand was my behaviour there which was so un believable i was not myself at all but i became normal when i reached my native place once again....i am back to my routine work....i teach here in Goa sir for your reference.. the lady in question was related to my ex from his mom's side Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ppena 0 Report post Posted July 14, 2008 Please note all the cold planets in angles (Saturn, Rahu, Venus, Moon). Your chart lacks heat, decisiveness. It's very yin. Also, when Saturn is afflicted and Rahu is on the ascendant the person is subjected to many fears/phobias. You MUST do shanti methods for Saturn somehow. You are entering Saturn MD, he is causing all these problems. Saturn is debilitated. Do what the other astrologers noted, Hanuman chalisa, etc. Saturn mantras are particularly important. Regarding the problem of heat, normally I would never recommend coral for a Capricorn but this may be an exception. Mars lords over the debilitated Saturn and is weak in the 12th. It does not aspect benefics and is causing no harm in the chart. Try and "experiment" with Red coral. Good luck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sasisekaran_pti 0 Report post Posted July 15, 2008 om gurubhyo namah namaste dear smt.ronitpf as said earlier, rahu and mars have played their role. pl look at the break up of the dasa - periods of planets Vimsottari Dasa (started from Moon): Jup MD: 1992-03-18 (20:55:53) - 2008-03-18 (23:17:23) Rah AD: 2005-10-28 (0:32:12) - 2008-03-18 (23:17:23) Pratyantardasas in this AD: Rah: 2005-10-28 (0:32:12) - 2006-03-05 (0:57:34) Jup: 2006-03-05 (0:57:34) - 2006-07-01 (11:10:44) Sat: 2006-07-01 (11:10:44) - 2006-11-18 (19:08:33) Merc: 2006-11-18 (19:08:33) - 2007-03-19 (17:15:39) Ket: 2007-03-19 (17:15:39) - 2007-05-10 (3:02:49) Ven: 2007-05-10 (3:02:49) - 2007-10-06 (18:32:33) Sun: 2007-10-06 (18:32:33) - 2007-11-19 (1:15:35) Moon: 2007-11-19 (1:15:35) - 2008-01-28 (21:35:37) Mars: 2008-01-28 (21:35:37) - 2008-03-18 (23:17:23) >>. feb falls here. your behaviour must have upset him. it is better you start praying lord Shiva daily. chant his name continously. today , that is on tuesday., between 16 hrs to 18 hrs is pradosha time which is auspicious time and shiva must be prayed wherever you are. start from today. mars is a bhadaka for your lagna and it aspects the sixth lord mercury. that is exactly the problem here and i have given you the best remedy. it is upto you to hold on to it and get away from fear problems. pl observe the following period and tell us later how you felt. from july 13 to august 20 of 2008 when did the divorce take place and was it through in such a short time ? may mother bless all regards sasisekaran Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nikhil kumar varma 0 Report post Posted July 15, 2008 wear 9 carats emerald or green tourmaline in gold in little finger. ur bhagya lord mer is debilitated and afflicted by 8th lord sun. lagna lord sat deb in 4th house. SAT :- Lord Saturn should be worshipped and oil may be offered in temple on every Saturday. In the evening, the following mantra of Saturn should be muttered for 108 times : "OM Sah Shanishcharai Namah" or "OM Sham Shanishchrai Namah". Keep a fast for atleast 40 Saturdays. This fast should be started in the brighter half of the lunar month. A mustard oil lamp should be lighted under a peepal tree. Iron, black collyrium(kala surma), mustard oil, leather shoes, black cloth, liquor, black urd dal etc. should be donated on Saturday. A ring made up of black horse shoe . Serve the people of low birth or give donations to them. Liquor or meat should not be consumed on Saturday. The black collyrium (kala surma), should be put under earth, on Saturday. The Almonds and coconut should be caused to flow in the river or running water, on Saturday. Do not drink milk on Saturday night. _____ Curse of ketu in ur chart: recite sankashtnashnam ganesh stotra by narada Regards NIKHIL KUMAR VARMA nikhilkumarvarma@ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ronitpf 0 Report post Posted July 15, 2008 thank you all kind sirs Yes sir The divorce took place within 7 days..yes we were together for that short a period.... I WILL START PRAYING TODAY BETWEEN 16 HRS AND 18 HRS AND ALSO DO ALL THE OTHER REMEDIES TOO...THANKS A LOT SIRS I will be placing order for a ring with red coral..can you tell me in which finger and how many carat??? and also will i ever get back with my ex husband ever in my lifetime????? for your reference his dob is 29th july 1968 at Bombay at 12.56 pm in the afternoon will i ever meet him again??? i would like to meet him and say lets bygones be bygones... please sirs last request to u !!! Thank you once again.... ronitpf Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ronitpf 0 Report post Posted August 10, 2008 namaste sirs i have requested to know which finger should i make the ring in and how many carat...please help me know this detail .. i will be obliged Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
