Help about nocturnal ejaculation - and the pain that follows

[Guest guest]

Hello,

 

I hope that if some of you on this list put have any knowledge about

this matter or knows of anyone that does that you will forward the

information to me.

About about me - I study psychology, I have a girlfriend - and I

have it for about three years. I am 25 years old, and I have had

some problems with ejaculation the last couple of years. I've tried

to cure it with yoga, tantra, acupuncture, tai chi, with some of

mantak chia books about sex but none have really helped yet.

 

Since I was about 19 years old, I have had problems during

intercourse - I would get very fast ejaculation in matter of

seconds. Since then other problems has arisen (but this problem

about too quick ejaculation has in periods been better - but right

now it is really bad). I read a lot of books, and some books claimed

that it was good to preserve the semen. I thought OK (because in the

years 20-23 I didn't have any lover) then I'll stop masturbating,

and I stopped. But then the ejaculations just came during dreams.

When I was about 21 years old I began getting various kinds of

symptoms after nocturnal emissions.

 

At first I always got a sore throat, sore eyes - like they were

burning - and I felt dry like a desert on my skin. Then the symptoms

changed (I never went to see a doctor - cause what would he say?)

maybe it was caused by some of the treatments I that I tried or some

of the exercises that I did (like headstand I yoga). Now it became

more traditional symptoms like backpains (that during the days that

followed moved up along the spine) and I felt a pressure against the

lower part of scrotum (not the testes but against the lower part on

some of the threads that leads from the body to the testes).

 

During the last six moth - I somehow stopped having nocturnal

emissions (I believe it was caused by the yogic headstand), but

still if I got ejaculation together with my girlfriend (which

happened about one or two times a month though - I quite often

succeeded in getting no ejaculation) I would get the former

mentioned symptoms. But during these six months I developed some

stomach pains - just above the hips (the doctor said that it

probably was stress or something emotional) and because the doctor

couldn't help I went to a another acupuncturist.

 

Somehow the focus with the acupuncturist became the symptoms I got

when I got ejaculation instead of the stomach pains. He answered

quickly before I could tell more thorougly about my situation that

the cause was loss of 'jing'. He stung me with some needles and gave

me some medicine and said I should take care of not getting

ejaculations for a while. I was happy that he at least had something

to offer. But after I had taken the medicine (herbals: called jin

suo gu jing wan) for a week I got a nightly ejaculation, and then

the day after it came again. My symptoms was two things: tiredness

and pressure against the lower scrotum - and some of the threads in

scrotum even began to swell and get hard (it felt like swollen lymph

nodes).

 

When I told the acupuncturist this, he then he prescribed some other

herbpills called Kai Kit Wan - some pills against prostatitis. But

last night (and this is why I write this mail) I got ejaculation TWO

times during the night - it might be part of the healing process (I

know nothing!!!!!!!!) but as I am writing this email the pressure in

scrotum is slowly rising and I would be very surprised if it not

will become worse the following days. And I feel so very tired and

confused ..................

 

I have some other things I would like to mention - my girlfriend

began getting very irregular periods after she had been with me for

a while, and a few months a go she was diagnosed with some kind of

bacteria called streptococcus (I don't know how it is spelled - and

whether this is the right name in English). When she was diagnosed

with it she was not told anything about that it could have comed

from me. But now (without still not knowing anything for sure) it

seems likely to me that it could have been me that have transferred

it to her (I have only had sex with one person before her though).

But of course it can also be other way around - maybe???

 

Another thing is that I have also had some itchy feelings just

inside and around anus for quite some time now (and the doctor just

gave me some salvia) could this be related to my other symptoms?

My hamstrings (my muscles on my backlegs) are short, which makes it

impossible to do certain yogic postures cause my back just becomes

round instead of remaining straight - can this be related?

 

Does anybody know anything that could help me, or tell me something

about what is happening.

 

Best regards

Henrik Nielsen, Denmark

[Guest guest]

Dear Henrik

 

I hope you find the following information of benefit. I speak from

experience. I took a personal vow of celibacy in 1980. This was due to

noticing my kundalini energy becoming less with the loss of sexual

energy and reading books on kundalini written by East Indian teachers

who come from a celibate tradition who advocated celibacy. Also

conservation and circulation of sexual life energy is the foundation for

enlightenment and longevity. I quickly found celibacy does not work in

modern society. I did not have a hard time containing my sexual energy,

but I found I easily lost it in nocturnal emissions. I found the answer

with Taoist sexual exercises.

 

For a male, sexual mechanics are simple, if you are not releasing your

sexual energy through intercourse or masturbation, the energy will build

up within one to four weeks and you will loose it in a nocturnal

emission. It is simple physics, just like water building up behind a

dam. This is particularly true for young men who have lots of expanding

sexual energy. The key is to circulate your sexual energy!

 

You mention Mantak Chia, but I am going to assume you are not practicing

the techniques completely or properly. The microcosmic orbit meditation

is the foundation for the genital breathing and big draw exercises. You

can find the exercises in the Divine Lovemaking folder listed in the

files section here SpiritualAlchemy

Learning directly from a teacher is the ideal. If you want to find a

teacher, check the directory here http://www.healingtaousa.com I would

recommend both you and your girlfriend practice the exercises to

synchronize your energy. See The Multi-Orgasmic Couple book by Mantak

Chia.

 

Blockage of the sexual energy leads to problems. As Todd mentioned, you

could have a genital-urinary tract infection. I would have this checked

out by a doctor. I would also start out by modifying your diet. Best to

eat a diet in accord with your ayurvedic constitution.

 

Initially, I found that removing pasteurized homogonized dairy products,

oily food, white sugar, fiery foods like raw onions, raw garlic, and hot

peppers had an effect. Also not over eating at night or eating anything

that caused stomach upset helped. Taking 4 to 5 capsules of triphala

with a small amount of warm water before bed also helps. However, once

you begin to properly circulate your sexual energy, diet is not a factor.

 

Also you might consider cleansing your kidneys and liver as described in

The Amazing Liver Cleanse by Andreas Moritz. In chinese medicine, the

kidneys and liver are directly related to sexual energy. I too

experimented with accupunture and herbs which might help to a degree,

but for me the Taoist sexual exercises was the direct solution. I have

studied ayurveda and chinese medicine for over twenty years. They talk

about nocturnal emissions, but they do not address the situation

directly.

 

As Todd mentioned, ayurveda does not advocate semen retention, but this

is due to the fact that ayurveda does not have the powerful technology

of Taoist sexual exercises. Yoga recommends asanas, pranayama,

meditation, and diet, but they are not sufficient for the circulation of

sexual energy. Case in point are many of the East Indian gurus who have

come to America and wound up in sexual scandal. Please let me know if I

can be of any further help.

 

Kind regards

 

OneLove

[Guest guest]

dear Mr.henrik,

i came to know about your problem and

though I do not know much about ayurveda i can suggest

you some homoeopathic medicines.According to the

symtoms you have mentioned i would like you to try

these medicines.As you have tried so many remedies

earlier ,you must be in a confused state as to whether

it will solve your problem or not.Please try these

medicines for about a week or two to see whether you

find any relief.please do the following.

 

 

1.Add 3 drops of Salix nigra Q ( mother tincture)and 3

drops of Avena sativa Q (mother tincture) in an ounce

of cool water. Take this 3 times daily (prepare the

solution just before taking it) preferably on empty

stomach or two hours after/before food.These medicines

are available at any of the Homoeopathic medicine

store.

 

2.Abstain from all kinds of stimulants like tobacco

etc.Stop taking alcohol(in case you have been taking

it)

 

3.Abstain from sex and do not even allow the thought

of sex to enter your mind,atleast ,untill you get

well.

 

 

Regarding any kind of infection of the urinary

tract,it is better to go for urine culture to

determine the type of infection and take

medicines(antibiotics) accordingly. you can give your

urine samples at any good diagnostic centre ( please

be sure about the correct collection procedure,which

you can come to know from the concerned pathologist at

the diagnostic laboratory)for culture.

 

In case you use these medicines,kindly let me know

about the result.

 

Praying for you, to get well soon.

 

 

Debadutta