happy father's day!

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to all fathers in this forum with a 'mother' heart!

 

There are many single fathers out there who are both 'father nand

mother' to their kids. happy father's day to you all!

 

Then there are 'fathers' who also do a great job of 'nurturing' as a

mother figure in two-income families... many fathers don on a

mother's role when their spouses are busy working or away on

bussiness trips,..

 

 

well, who said only a mother can be a mother? fathers make

great 'mothers' too! my dad was a very , loving , caring, nurturing

dad... in fact, i was very close to him... he brought out the best in

me and i remember when i got married and left to join my husband, his

parting words to me were " now, who will comment on my editorials

and offer croticism? who is there to admire my articles ? " there

were tears in his eyes when he bade me goodbye at the train

station...

 

then when i was expecting my first child, he visted me along with my

mom and offered me all the help ... he was so delirious when he

became a grandpa that he said " my baby has now a baby" and

celebrated the occassion by distributing sweets to all his employees

at work.

 

I could confide more in my dad than my mom for my dad was more

understanding and was a creative listener...

 

so guys, there are no more such distinctions - THAT A FATHER IS ONLY

A FATHER AND A MOTHER ONLY A MOTHER... in this age, roles have

reversed - more and more fathers are developing 'mother' like

qualiitie and mothers are developing 'father' like qualities... the

typical jungian anima-animus qualities!

 

There is a hindu prayer which goes like this ..

 

Twameva mata pita twameva twamva bandhu sakha twameva !

 

O LORD, YOU ARE MY FATHER AND MOTHER! YOU ARE MY FRIEND AS WELL AS MY

RELATIVE!

 

love to all !!!!