No he wasn't discouraging me. The devotees in class were happy afterwards and ran up to talk to me. It was only years later that I realised why I was so attached to a nasty she-hog, because I wasn't attached to serving Krishna and my spiritual master. Gour Govinda Maharaja could and did read my mind word for word in his classes, from things I was thinking right then and there to things I had done or even thought about before. His female disciples were jealous because he mostly only did this for the men.
When my guru went to retire from family life, before going to Vrndavana and finding Srila Prabhupada, half of his village came to watch. Srila Prabhupada said he was born a devotee. He married at the request of his mother and only had sex seven times, once for each child, in his life. His grandfather was a yogi who left his body at will.
One time some sannyasis were complaining that Gour Govinda Swami was being allowed to take sannyasa, being a newcomer to ISKCON. Srila Prabhupada said to them, "He was born a devotee, you are the new men".
Another time a sannyasi called Gour Govinda a "boy". You know how they call new devotees boys sometimes? Anyway Srila Prabhupada said,"You mean Gour Govinda? He is old enough to be your father." He saw the International Society for Krishna Consciousness sign in Vrndavana and walked in. He wanted to talk to the leader. He wanted to take sannyasa. As soon as he went up to Srila Prabhupada Srila Prabhupada said,"I will give you sannyasa." He told my guru maharaja to make disciples all over the world, build the temple in Bhubaneshwar from nothing, and translate his books into Oriya, all of which my guru did.