anandmahal

lamp / diya will be available in market (pots and pans shop) or potters. white cloth mean : at cloth merchant

both, whatever you like. while chanting, please feel the sound/vibration of words........... get yourself deeply involved in sounds.... leave other things on hanuman/ram ji. this is the remedy...........................

Dear Sudhir, I understand in whole your feelings and emotional attachment with your wife. My views are as under :- 1. Your words give alarm to society. Do you need 'stamp' from society to prove your feelings and mishaviour in society. You are still not matured and exposing your personal life (focus on sex) before society, considering that your relationship is very special. There are billions of people on earth and you are not very special. So, remove your mis-understanding and live a simple life in society. 2. However, I am partly with you on this matter. YOU TRY TO IMAGINE AND BELIEVE THAT in the past, both of you were 'special sevak/sevika' of the goddess like the story of 'tulsi and sudama (jalandhar). Due to some reasons, you were forced/compelled to live on this earth. At the same time, considering your loyalty to goddess, she also blessed you to live together in deep love. 3. Now the picture is before you, both of you treat each other as 'ansh/part' of the divine goddess and try to improve your physical love/attachment. Both of you should consider each other as 'Shiv and Shakti' and live a simple life before society. Otherwise continuing physical relations and at the same time considering your wife as goddess will annoy your FOREFATHERS and others. Then many problems will arise and your children and you will suffer badly. Be in control and live a balanced life. Goddess is considered in the form of lovely mother. Do not bring her into your wife. My best wishes are with you. Regards Anand