Hi Riaz,
Thanks for sparing time to read my horoscope.
The reason i am insisting on neelam is that saturn is yogakarak in tula lagna.Many astrologers has suggested saying the saturn causes delays in everything in work,relations,marriage etc.
I also avoided to wear neelam since all these years.But as things dont go well after trying hard..we feel that may be gemstones are the last option to try.
I have been wearing diamond and pearl since many years.But frankly speaking i dont see any visible harm as such.