Dharma 0 Report post Posted December 15, 2001 http://www.theatlantic.com/issues/2001/12/hoffman.htm Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gHari 0 Report post Posted December 15, 2001 That was a good lesson in bad communication. So many words to say "Get them married". I wonder how many people will actually lose interest in the article in frustration before really finding out what it tried to say. I skipped past a zillion huge mountains of words, searching for the answer to their introductory teasing riddle, only fortunate to spot it near the end. If I hadn't caught it on the first pass, I was out of there in total frustration. They shouldn't presume that their readers are interested enough in their speclations that they will wait that long. I also think it will benefit to financially support the sane clerics of Islam. We now hear of billions being ear-marked for defence. It has to be much cheaper and more humanitarian to make real Islam more accessible to the lamer-brained folks. But yes, give those losers a life; a life they will think twice about losing. Islam herself must now take action against these renegade jihad ministers, before the entire world completely writes off Islam as totally demoniac.<font color="#f7f7f7"> [This message has been edited by gHari (edited 12-15-2001).] Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dharma 0 Report post Posted December 16, 2001 If it got some readers in touch with their lack of concentration, frustration, impatience and complaining nature then it served an even greater purpose I suppose. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gHari 0 Report post Posted December 16, 2001 Too much mundane info for me. I will be satisfied with only the communication effectiveness lesson. And the insightful bit about marriage. Thanks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tarun 6 Report post Posted December 17, 2001 Good idea. Vedik base. When his passion's quieted, he's freed of sin. All 4 varNas marry - gRhastha. 1) Zudras can only experience one azram - gRhastha. 2) Vaizyas 2 - brahmacari, gRhastha 3) Xatriyas 3 - brahmacari, gRhastha, vanaprastha 4) BrAhmaNas - all 4... Or if they opt, only 2: 1st => 4th ~ brahmacari bypass. It's now 2am in NYC. I'm watching PBS Channel 13. Well done documentary interviewing Israeli & Palestinian kids. Much hate on both sides till they met each other face to face. Then all hate subsided, friendship grew, parting brought tears. pov@pbs.org or search 'pov' with aol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites