Guest guest Posted April 15, 2004 Report Share Posted April 15, 2004 I am hindu..and learning about hinduism reli excites me..well for me i dunt reli care bout wat religion the person i love or who i marry will be. But i liked this guy and he was muslim and as all hindus their parents dunt allow them to date especially muslims boys...well i talk to my mom about but didnt tell her i liked a muslim just talking asked her if it would be ok to have a boyfriend who is muslim and she said no she doenst want me too. Well wat if i reli like they guy and the guy reli like me he didnt care if i was hindu and i dunt think his parents cared either buh my parents did..wat can i do den? if i marry a muslim guy wat would our kids turn out to be..how about if he wanted them with the religon of muslim and i wanted hindu how will our kids be muslim and hindu if both religions r completely differnt? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 15, 2004 Report Share Posted April 15, 2004 Dear Sister, You are worrying about your children. Have you worried about what will happen to "YOU"? If you are not employed or, dependent on him, have you ever considered the possibility that he might try to convert you to islam? And if you are a vegetarian, you shud also consider the possibility of cooking bakra, cows, fish and all that stuff for him. Can you do that? Can you eat that? What if he ridicules hinduism after marriage? Did you try to find out any motives? Both religions are entirely different. So consider what all can go wrong. With regards. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 15, 2004 Report Share Posted April 15, 2004 truly i think u should do wat ur mom is telling u..now that u kno she doenst want u to marry or be in love with a muslim dunt get urslef mixed with muslims guys make sureu find out what the guy s background is before anything happens. y do u even want to marry muslim? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 15, 2004 Report Share Posted April 15, 2004 thnx but he reli loves me and likes to learn about hinduism too. He asks me himself if i can teach him some things about hinduism. He loves talking and singing in hindi..i juss love him for who he is not for what religion he is...y is it soo bad to marry a muslim ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2004 Report Share Posted April 16, 2004 Dear sister, It may be a good topic for hindi movies and tamil movies. I am just sharing the experience some of the girls in my neighbourhood had. They have lost contact with their family, stopped wearing bindi, the way they looked changes, well it was not good for their family ( I mean the hindu families). As per muslim marriage law, the male can say talaq thrice, and they are divorced. A male can have 7 wives. Can a hindu girl tolerate all that? I am not sure of the other civil laws of muslims. In hinduism, the daughter in law is considered the lakshmi of the house. I donno what the muslims consider. Well attraction is different. Its all momentary. But think of long term implications carefully and the consequences, your ability to react to the unknown carefully before making a decision. With regards. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2004 Report Share Posted April 16, 2004 Hare krishna, thnx but he reli loves me and likes to learn about hinduism too. He asks me himself if i can teach him some things about hinduism. He loves talking and singing in hindi..i juss love him for who he is not for what religion he is...y is it soo bad to marry a muslim ? Are you sure. Muslims can never accept Hinduism. All his interest in Hinduism is because of his attraction for you and it is not genuine interest in Hinduism. Whatever make sure he really loves you. Some muslims marry Hindu girls just to convert them. This is true for christian girls as well. A muslim's main aim is conversion. They always approach non-muslim girls with all this soft talk, then once married they treat their non-muslim wives like dogs. I have heard a lot of horror stories and would strongly advice against marrying any muslim man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maadhav Posted April 16, 2004 Report Share Posted April 16, 2004 listen to your mom. marry him only if he gives up islam formally and agrees to live like a hindu. else, i see no hope for real happiness in your future. it is your life, your risk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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