Will I ever get married & have a family life -Can faith & perseverance help win fate?

kgp76 · July 12, 2010

I have asked this question to many astrologers and I thought of posting this openly on this website. Unfortunately or fortunately, my birth chart says I'm Manglik. Whenever I approach an astrolger they say you are manglik and your birth chart has Mars in 7th place and your navamasa also kalsarpa dosha. You will not have a good marital life and always have relationship problem. Does that mean a person born like this has to lead a life of a bachelor and have no relationship in life. Vedic Astrology is a branch of science and it relates to human life derived from Vedas and shastras. Don't they specify remedies for such ill fated horoscopes. If a person has done some sin in life.. does that mean he has to carry that burden?

I am looking for an expert answer to help me. Can I lead a normal life like others..have a family and kids? I honestly don't know whether to believe in astrology or not.

I was born on 13th March 1976, 00:45 Hrs (12:45 AM) in Chennai. I had an engagement in November 2006 and even before the marriage, it was cancelled in Jan 2007. I got engaged to a different person in June 2007 and Married her in Nov 2007. My Marriage broke in Feb 2008 and I got my divorce in Nov 2008. Now I'm little nervous whether I should go for a second marriage or not. Even though these things might happened because of incompatibility or for other reasons, I still feel this could be a reason becoz I'm Manglik and people have said in the past, my mars is stronger and will give trouble in relationship or marital life. How long can I believe this..what is in store for me in life? Can some one give me a prediction and remedy here? I do understand no body can predict future and everyone's future is in their hands. However I am looking for a vedic astrological remedy or some kind of assistance. I like to pray god and change my fate. Can someone help me? Thanks and God bless All.

sasisekaran_pti · July 15, 2010

Hello KGP,

Mars placed in 2/4/7/8/12 house from either lagna or moon or venus

constitute a mars dosha or manglik.. This way many are manglik.

Marriages can break even without the influence of mars. There are

people with magnlik dosha who are leading happy married life. Do

not be disturbed by the fact that mars is placed in 7th house in

your chart. The real trouble maker is Rahu ( the ascending node of

the moon). Rahu looks at your 7th house through is special trinal

sight. Apart from this your 7th lord mercury is under bandana caused

by mars and rahu.

Rahu brought in your marriage and also broke it. Saturn , the darakarak

(spouse) is not placed well in another dimensional chart called as

navamsa. There are many other factors that have led to this failure.

Vimsottari Dasa:

Ven MD: 2006-07-02 - 2026-07-02

Ven AD: 2006-07-02 - 2009-11-02

Rah PD: 2007-09-13 - 2008-03-10... MARRIAGE & BREAK..

Another marriage is possible during the influence of rahu during

sep 2013 - sep 2016. However care should be taken to protect the

marriage. If you can probe into the reasons for failure through a

consultation with advisers/elders/friends, you may succeed in your

next attempt.

By any chance, do you tend to dominate in relationship matters ?

sasisekaran.

kgp76 · July 25, 2010

Hello KGP,

Mars placed in 2/4/7/8/12 house from either lagna or moon or venus

constitute a mars dosha or manglik.. This way many are manglik.

Marriages can break even without the influence of mars. There are

people with magnlik dosha who are leading happy married life. Do

not be disturbed by the fact that mars is placed in 7th house in

your chart. The real trouble maker is Rahu ( the ascending node of

the moon). Rahu looks at your 7th house through is special trinal

sight. Apart from this your 7th lord mercury is under bandana caused

by mars and rahu.

Rahu brought in your marriage and also broke it. Saturn , the darakarak

(spouse) is not placed well in another dimensional chart called as

navamsa. There are many other factors that have led to this failure.

Vimsottari Dasa:

Ven MD: 2006-07-02 - 2026-07-02

Ven AD: 2006-07-02 - 2009-11-02

Rah PD: 2007-09-13 - 2008-03-10... MARRIAGE & BREAK..

Another marriage is possible during the influence of rahu during

sep 2013 - sep 2016. However care should be taken to protect the

marriage. If you can probe into the reasons for failure through a

consultation with advisers/elders/friends, you may succeed in your

next attempt.

By any chance, do you tend to dominate in relationship matters ?

sasisekaran.

Thanks Mr. Sasisekaran. I really don't know what went wrong in the last marriage. The other family took fast decisions to break it. Even though we were ready to discuss, they didn't want to sit and talk.

Do I ten to dominate in relationship matters? May be before the marriage break..but now I understand from my past marital break up and trying to change myself.

Anyways one of the astrologer I consulted asked me to visit vaitheeswaran koil, thiruvengadu, kanjanur and alangudi. I will also try to visit Thirumancheri if possible.

I can do what i can do. Rest is for the god to do.