Guest guest Posted November 10, 2004 Report Share Posted November 10, 2004 Hi all, I just received an email last night. I know that many have expressed the same viewpoint on something that is near and dear to my heart.... I am against the psychiatric labeling and drugging of children. I received the email from the Director of Development of The Citizens Commission On Human Rights (their web site is www.cchr.com) and he made reference that the group The Liberty Commission is also opposed. They have info and a link for you to send your note of opposition to your state representative. If you are interested: The link to the Liberty Commission web site: http://www.thelibertycommittee.org/index.html The link to the letter (just type in your zip code): http://capwiz.com/liberty/issues/alert/?alertid=6622876 & type=CO The link to some more info on this matter: http://www.forhealthfreedom.org/Publications/Privacy/MentalScreening.html There is a deadline of Wednesday at 5 pm. If you are against mandatory mental health screening --take action. Yes, it did happen in Texas and it happened in Illinois too. Thanks, Andrea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 10, 2004 Report Share Posted November 10, 2004 Andrea, You are talking about a problem that is very dear to me. My son was 15 when he had juvenile depression and was suicidal. The 'help' that was there at that time, made no sense and was dreadful, because it was all centered around kids that where juvenile delinquents and my son was the opposite. He did not drink, drug or got in trouble, his problem was to be a super perfectionist and that he could not meet his own high expectation. Problems with his care was that school psychologist did not talk to his own psychologist, ( Never mind me), when he was hospitalized because of a suicide attempt,( poured gas over himself while with his Dad 7 hours away), there was only care until his insurance run out, and the care was just to warehouse him. No follow up plan, except a juvenile detention facility. His missing a lot of school was not considered in any circumstances and he fell behind which made his situation worst. He was in trouble soon after his hospitalization, just could not cope with the pressure in school, stigma etc. Soon we where on another round of psychologist, psychiatrists, etc. which took 5 month to go through. When all paperwork was done, they felt he needed immediate hospitalization. We had to kiss the ground that they could find placement. When I had the intake interview ( 5 hours!) the intake psychologist, went juvenile delinquent, and I went troubled kid, juvenile depression, perfectionism. There was nothing to help with schooling, to keep it up or current and after 5 grueling hours, I was told that I asked too many questions and they could take my parental rights away, if I did not sign the papers for his admission. I was worried about the medication, like what education program they had with it I might as well have come from Mars. Seems no one had ever asked those questions. The kids there all looked drugged up to me. By than I knew the statistics that medicated kids often turned to street drugs to medicate themselves or alcohol, so I wanted to know that program they had to deal with that. Zip- Zero... I had run out of options, so I signed the papers, feeling in my gut, that they did not understand my kid. 20 hours later he was dead. Hanged himself with his belt that he made in the first hospital in OT., in a closet. He was dead for over 3 hours before he was found by another kid. Nothing had been taken away from him. The intake psychiatrist just asked him if he was suicidal, to which my son replied, " Not today " ....he had outbursts that morning, threatened to kill himself,s till nothing was flagged in his file.. Psychiatric juvenile facilities did not have the same 'protocol' to protect people from themselves as jails, adult mental facilities have. However, I filed a lawsuit and got that changed in MIchigan. It was the only way to bring on that change, because the people in the hospital all played the blaming game and by making changes would admit to their failing to protect my son. Nicolas would be 37 tomorrow and I still miss him every day, he was a fine boy and part of my heart died with him. To sum it up, don't trust your kid that easily with mental health professionals. Know their record, even if you are under the gun. Find out how the supporting systems work. Once a kid is 'tagged' it's hard to remove that label. C-M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2004 Report Share Posted November 11, 2004 --- Christa Maria wrote: > Andrea, > You are talking about a problem that is very dear to me. > My son was 15 when he had juvenile depression and was suicidal. The > 'help' that was there at that time, made no sense and was dreadful, > because it was all centered around kids that where juvenile delinquents and my son was the opposite. He did not drink, drug or got in trouble, his problem was to be a super perfectionist and that he could not meet his own high expectation. <snip> > C-M Christa, I am so sorry to hear about this. I can imagine that the pain of losing a child never goes away --it truly is a parent's worst fear. I cannot imagine your loss though --it is too great for me to comprehend. He sounded like a very fine boy and how I do wish things had been different for him and your family. Thank you for taking the steps necessary to bring about the changes and make them accountable. I am certain that what you did saved other children! Take care and I'll be talking with you soon! Andrea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2004 Report Share Posted November 11, 2004 I am hoping that many of you were able to log in and send a note to your state representative! If you were not able to, please keep the links to continue to get updates. I highly recommend that you visit the sites to read/research/find out for yourselves what is really going on --especially the CCHR site. Many whom I have talked to about this never heard of it and those in my state (Illinois) were shocked to hear that it has already passed in our state. I have to say that I have alarmed more than one mother recently! Thanks for any help that you have given towards this effort! Andrea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2004 Report Share Posted November 15, 2004 Oh C-M I'm way behind on posts and just read this. > You are talking about a problem that is very dear to me. > My son was 15 when he had juvenile depression and was suicidal. The > 'help' that was there at that time, made no sense and was dreadful, I'm so sorry that you had to go through this experience and lost your son at the hands of supposed professionals. I'd like to reiterate what Andrea said about you having the courage to do the necessary things to make changes that have probably helped save many lives. There was a documentary screened here during the past few months about antidepressants and youth suicide but for the main part, many people are reluctant to shift the blame to health professionals and drug companies who have a product to sell. I'm glad you told your story and I hope you managed to get through your son's birthday without too much pain. Vicki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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