Guest guest Posted March 15, 2006 Report Share Posted March 15, 2006 I am lucky to have a very detailed genealogy on my mother's side of the family. It helps me to understand more about how my mother's reduction in Jing affected me. My great grandmother, born in 1850, was married at 19, had her first child at 20 and her last child at 42 years of age. In total, she had 11 children. Not all of them lived to adulthood. My grand mother was the 11th child. She was born in 1892, got her Ph.D.. in Physics from the University of Illinois in the 1920's, and did not marry until in her mid-thirties. She had six children, including one set of twin boys that were stillborn. Her sixth and last child was born when she was 40 years of age. My mother is this sixth child. She was born in 1932, married in 1955, had her first child in September 1955, second child September 1956, third child October 1957, fourth child March 1959, fifth child January 1962, and her sixth child in August 1964. I am the sixth child. My mother was 32 years old when she had me. She has said that the first few years of her marriage are a blur and that she must have been " insane " . My older sisters told me that at about the time I was born my mother was very depressed and stayed in bed a lot. They said that they had to do a lot of the housework because my mom " just didn't care " . They also say that I am a lot like my mother, not just in appearance, but by being depressive, sickly, etc. My grand mother had breast cancer and went through a double radical mastectomy around 1945. She was in remission a long time, but her cancer came back as lymphoma in late 1969. She died in 1970. My mother had ductile breast cancer in her right breast and had it removed. She took Tamoxifen for one year, put on 40 pounds, then was diagnosed with Type II diabetes. Five years after her first mastectomy, she had ductile breast cancer in her left breast and had it removed. My doctor had me have a baseline mammogram at 35 years of age because of my family history of breast cancer. When I turned 40, I was told to have one every year. I have been following up with my sisters to make sure they get their mammograms, especially now that breast cancer can be found earlier, treated, and has a better survival rate. My mother, father and brother are Type II diabetics. I am insulin resistant and often hypoglycemic. Everyone in my family is overweight. I have been on diet for over a year, have lost 45 pounds, and plan on losing another 25 to 30 pounds. I know if I keep the weight down I have a better chance of never developing diabetes. My blood pressure is usually 90/60 and heart rate about 69. My total cholesterol number is good, but my lipids are high. This is supposedly because of the poly cystic ovarian syndrome. I am looking forward to my appointment next week at PCOM. I think any treatment is a positive step in continuing my journey to health. Karen in San Diego Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 16, 2006 Report Share Posted March 16, 2006 Chinese Traditional Medicine , Karen Peterson <kpeterha wrote: > > I am lucky to have a very detailed genealogy on my mother's side of the > family. It helps me to understand more about how my mother's reduction > in Jing affected me. Well, Karen, that is a helluva female family history. While I don't support doing a crummy gallbladder/liver flush (they sound awful [:- & ] ), I do think if you were to read Julia Chang's site, www.sensiblehealth.com , you would find it highly educational. There is brief mention of cystic ovarian syndrome, too. There is a fair bit of reference to Chinese medicine. The way I interpret Chang's advice, it seems to be a mix of traditional western naturopathy and traditional chinese herbology, and modern scientific medical knowledge. I see some deficiencies in her advice, but, hey, what do I know! In any case, it is the commentary on the functioning of the liver/hormones/etc., and the story of Chang's dreadful health and her journey out of it, that I found really interesting. Re all the illness in your near & far ancestors. Men provide half the living matter that goes into creating a new life, let's not forget that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 16, 2006 Report Share Posted March 16, 2006 Mrs. Barley, Yes, I know from my Dad's side there is Alzheimer's, arteriosclerosis, diabetes, digestive system disorders, and developmental disorders such as club feet or having one leg shorter than the other. My Dad had both hips replaced in the last three years. His legs are very short and one was longer than the other. My mother used to hem his pants and the difference was a very noticeable 1/2 inch. After the hips were replaced, his legs are now the same length. So, is it a fallacy that the leg is shorter? Or, is the leg rotated in the hip socked and just seems shorter? I was diagnosed with scholiosis at 11 years of age. I was told my left leg was shorter than the right. I had to wear a lifted shoe on that foot for a couple of years. I still have the scholiosis, but I wonder, if I got my hip adjusted, would my leg length be even? I do some beginning Yoga and it helps my low back pain/sciatica. I am working up to more challenging positions, but must do so at a slow pace. If I over do, I pay for it the next day. Karen P.S. I had Lasik eye surgery in November 1998. I was very myopic at -10 and had astigmatisms in both eyes. I couldn't wear my contact lenses because of allergies and decided to pursue Lasik. It took a few exams, but I finally found a surgeon who would work on me. TCM equates myopia with Liver, so I make sure to tell my practitioners that I had Lasik but still have a myopic shaped eye. The cornea has been shaped to reset the focus to the correct place on the retina to improve my vision, but the actual shape of the eye has not changed. KLP Mrs. Barley wrote: > Chinese Traditional Medicine , Karen Peterson <kpeterha > wrote: > > > > I am lucky to have a very detailed genealogy on my mother's side of > the > > family. It helps me to understand more about how my mother's > reduction > > in Jing affected me. > > > Well, Karen, that is a helluva female family history. While I don't > support doing a crummy gallbladder/liver flush (they sound awful [:- & ] > ), I do think if you were to read Julia Chang's site, > www.sensiblehealth.com , you would find it highly educational. There is > brief mention of cystic ovarian syndrome, too. There is a fair bit of > reference to Chinese medicine. The way I interpret Chang's advice, it > seems to be a mix of traditional western naturopathy and traditional > chinese herbology, and modern scientific medical knowledge. I see some > deficiencies in her advice, but, hey, what do I know! > > In any case, it is the commentary on the functioning of the > liver/hormones/etc., and the story of Chang's dreadful health and her > journey out of it, that I found really interesting. > > Re all the illness in your near & far ancestors. Men provide half the > living matter that goes into creating a new life, let's not forget that. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 16, 2006 Report Share Posted March 16, 2006 > Re all the illness in your near & far ancestors. Men provide half the > living matter that goes into creating a new life, let's not forget that. > Please be clear that this is not a matter of placing blame. The subjects I have recently been discussing about the responsibilities that women have in being the child bearers is not a political discussion - I am discussing simple ordinary medical issues. It is true that we get our genetic material from both parents - but the major issue I am discussing is the role that a woman's personal disease patterns play in the development of a child regardless of what genetic material the embryo has recieved from either her or the father. A woman who is addicted to cocaine will create a perhaps insurmountable challenge for a delicate vulnerable embryo. This is independant from the genetic makeup of the embyro - the genetic makeup of the developing child will also play a role but this is not the main issue being discussed. The same is true for women who have depressive disease or stress disorder that is not genetic in themselves. If we think of the millions of women who are poisoned by drugs and foods - who are depressed - over wrought - angry - freightened - hypofunctional - hypoglycemic - diabetic - overworked - undernourished - acidic - etc. etc. then the issues become clearer. In most traditional societies the role of the father in conception was clearly understood but all stated clearly that our mothers are our real source. We develop in our mothers wombs and our nourishment to develop comes from our mother's blood - the quality of that blood will determine our ability to develop in a maximmum way. We may have relatively good genetics (just as our diseased mother may have relatively good genetics but has developed disease processes that have a profound effect on our development) but are challenged from conception by the same stressors our mother is suffering under. I know that many women are sensitive about this issue but this is a mistake. There is no one to blame. We have been discussing our parents and what we have recieved from them genetically - please do not caste blame on your parents - they are just as innocent of these things personally as were their parents and their parent's parents. Genetics are simply no ones fault. This is the way it is! I told that I recieved genetic disease from my mother - this is in no way what so ever my mother's fault. Now as far as inherited non gentic disease is concerned this is something that can be corrected in many cases. I am not blaming the poor girl who is addicted to cocaine for her falling into the disease of drug addiction - she was innocent in this matter - following compulsions far beyond her ability to understand or control. My point is much more simple - I am just pointing out that when this poor woman gets pregnant the role of her cocaine addiction will play a very important role in the development of the child in and outside of the womb. This is not a social criticism it is a scientific observation. One can discuss the role that men play in the stressing of their children - but the physiological processes we are discussing may have their source in our mother and her disease patterns - it is important to understand this. The recently discussed issue was how we came to have the severe breakdowns in functioning that many have - my observation is that we do this through three major pathways - genetics - disease processes (with or without genetic components) of our mothers - and unrelenting and or severe stress that has overwhelmed our abilaties to cope. For many it is a combination of all three that has ended them in exhaustion - others may have only two risk factors or maybe only one - but these are the general pathways. My basic point is that stress begets stress and if we become 'overstressed' we may breakdown under the challenges. The children of 'overstressed' women will also be overstressed - a simple fact - the question is what must be done about this fact? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 16, 2006 Report Share Posted March 16, 2006 I took your post (and I hope others do as well) as a wake-up call to be more supportive of pregnant women and families. What a lot of modern Westerners don't realize is that so- called " primitive " societies often have more support for pregnant women and families than modern societies do. Especially in the US where family members often live hundreds if not thousands of miles apart and may be spread out all over the US. Many modern European countries have far more support in place for pregnant women and families than the US does. The US needs to do more than just give lip service to supporting families. For the poster who talked about half of the genetic info coming from the mother and half from the father, actually slightly more than half comes from the mother in the case of sons. A female is formed when the mother (XX) passes on one of her two X chromosomes and the father (XY) passes on his X chromosome. That is 50/50. But in the case of a son (XY), the father has passed on his Y chromosome. The Y chromosome is smaller than the X chromosome. There are not spaces on it for some of the genes that are on the X chromosome. This is why some (not all) genetic disorders are sex-linked. Conditions like hemophilia and color blindness. The genes are " recessive " in females but " dominant " in males because there isn't a second gene in men. Let's say a female gets one normal gene for blood clotting but the gene from the other parent results in hemophilia. (I'm simplifying things here quite a bit.) She won't have hemophilia because that normal gene is dominant and her blood clots OK (more or less). But she is a carrier of hemophilia. If she passes on the normal gene to a son, his blood will clot OK. BUT, if she passes on the defective gene he will be a hemophiliac because there is not a second gene on his Y chromosome which could overcome the effects of the defective gene on the X chromosome. Hemophilia does occur in women, but it is rare. This is because in order for a woman to be a hemophiliac she must receive 2 of the defective genes. One from the X chromosome passed on by her mother, and one from the X chromosome passed on by her father. Since male hemophiliacs often don't live to produce children or don't marry or try to reproduce, they aren't passing on the defective gene to daughters. And the fact that this gene is " recessive " (takes two to manifest in women), the chances of a woman who is a carrier passing on the defective gene and a father who is a hemophiliac passing on the gene to a daughter are slim. I also want to point out that some genetic " flaws " have survived because they do something positive. The best known example of this is the gene for sickle cell anemia. It too is a " recessive " gene (takes two to manifest full-blown sicle cell anemia). (Again I'm simplifying things quite a bit here.) But it's not sex-linked. Both the male and the female will each pass on this particular gene to both sons and daughters. The reason this particular gene is so prevalent is that when a person only has one of these genes, the person has an increased resistence to malaria. People in tropical areas with an increased resistence to malaria tend to live longer and thus produce more children, and at least part of these children inherit the gene for the trait. The children who received one gene for the trait but not 2 also tend to live longer and thus have more children. Like Vinod, I want to caution readers that this is not a case of it being the mother's fault. These are things that simply are. One can no more blame women than blame a higher power and/or evolution. But if anyone still is tempted to blame the woman, consider this: It is the father who determines the sex of the child. If he passes on his X chromosome, the child will be a daughter(XX). If he passes on his Y chromosome, the child will be a son (XY). Again, I see this as a wake-up call for the need to be more supportive of pregnant women and families. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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