Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , does anyone else feel this way ? -Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 Chris, Citrine is a 3rd Chakra Stone... seat of the will. I would ask if you do not deal with anger? Many people on a spiritual path feel it is not " spiritual " to be angry. That is not true. Anger unexpressed turns into depression. Out of control anger is another thing altogether. It would seem to me that perhaps the citrine is helping you move stuck energy in the will center which could feel like or express as anger if you are not used to dealing with this energy. This is good energy.. it helps to move us forward and also helps to protect us in times of danger. Just my thoughts Chris. In gratitude, John Van Rees http://www.exquisitecrystals.com > citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , > > does anyone else feel this way ? > > -Chris > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 Well said. In these time especially, those on a true spiritual jurney, find themselves upset and angry with the current state of the world. We need to voice our anger sometimes to bring about a positive change. I am ussually the one to keep quite, but my wife has tought me much about voicing our true feelings. I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. So I think that sometimes we need to take a moment to reflect on our anger and what it teaches us. Chris and O www.earthhealingcrystals.com Check Out Our New Enlightenment Center www.earthhealingenlightenment.org , John Van Rees <john wrote: > > Chris, > > Citrine is a 3rd Chakra Stone... seat of the will. I would ask if you do > not deal with anger? Many > people on a spiritual path feel it is not " spiritual " to be angry. That > is not true. Anger unexpressed > turns into depression. Out of control anger is another thing altogether. > > It would seem to me that perhaps the citrine is helping you move stuck > energy in the will center > which could feel like or express as anger if you are not used to dealing > with this energy. This is > good energy.. it helps to move us forward and also helps to protect us > in times > of danger. > > Just my thoughts Chris. > > In gratitude, > > John Van Rees > http://www.exquisitecrystals.com > > > > citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , > > > > does anyone else feel this way ? > > > > -Chris > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 I find this interesting. I had no idea about the use of Citrine--especially for this purpose. It sounds like the right perscription for me to try. Only, how long would you leave the Citrine on AND What do we do with all of this anger? What do we do when we first get up from the healing? Thanks for sharing this! Jackie --- On Mon, 3/30/09, holyreality11 <holyreality11 wrote: holyreality11 <holyreality11 [CrystalHW] citrine and anger Monday, March 30, 2009, 7:14 PM citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , does anyone else feel this way ? -Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 Aloha Chris. . . I had an experience where lots of anger came up as result of some network chiropractic that seemed unresolved. After 2 speeding tickets and very uncharacteristic grouchiness on my part I realized something needed to be done. Intutiively used a piece of pyrite (a sun formation) that I left tucked at my waistline for days (lots of anger!). Found out that pyrite is great for detoxing, balancing male/female polarity and must say that it worked. Jaspers, Agates and any stone with high hematite content (Tiger Eye, Carnelian, even Amethyst) might be useful depending on source of anger. Stones can be great allies in helping us discover what we need to bring into balance. Release is sometimes the key! Blessings on your journey of self-discovery! In Light )'( Skye HEALING THRU HEART Crystals, Minerals and More www.heartofmaui.com 1-808-280-3682 --- On Mon, 3/30/09, jackie moore <jerryandkramer wrote: jackie moore <jerryandkramer Re: [CrystalHW] citrine and anger Monday, March 30, 2009, 3:57 PM I find this interesting. I had no idea about the use of Citrine--especially for this purpose. It sounds like the right perscription for me to try. Only, how long would you leave the Citrine on AND What do we do with all of this anger? What do we do when we first get up from the healing? Thanks for sharing this! Jackie --- On Mon, 3/30/09, holyreality11 <holyreality11 wrote: holyreality11 <holyreality11 [CrystalHW] citrine and anger Monday, March 30, 2009, 7:14 PM citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , does anyone else feel this way ? -Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 Jackie, Great questions! What to do with all of the anger? How about : 1. Exercise... this will work wonders. 2. Volunteer.. anger creates energy.... use that energy in a constructive way and you will see huge results.. the anger can turn into love. 3.Beat a pillow 4.Primal Scream 5.Clean house! Just move the anger.. it is only energy. Energy is neither bad nor good... it is energy. Same thing for anger... it is not bad nor good... just energy that needs a place to go. Make anger your friend... rather than being something to be afraid of.. make it something that moves you forward. Embrace it, love it, use it. In gratitude, John Van Rees http://www.exquisitecrystals.com > I find this interesting. I had no idea about the use of > Citrine--especially for this purpose. It sounds like the right > perscription for me to try. Only, how long would you leave the > Citrine on AND What do we do with all of this anger? What do we do > when we first get up from the healing? Thanks for sharing this! Jackie > > --- On Mon, 3/30/09, holyreality11 <holyreality11 > <holyreality11%40>> wrote: > > holyreality11 <holyreality11 > <holyreality11%40>> > [CrystalHW] citrine and anger > > <%40> > Monday, March 30, 2009, 7:14 PM > > citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , > > does anyone else feel this way ? > > -Chris > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 In a message dated 3/30/2009 10:16:35 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, cyork writes: I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. Greetings Chris, I want to interject a couple of perspectives here for you about this sort of situation. The first of these perspectives are more from the view point of being in a shopping environment. Yes, there certainly are people out there who could care less when a little one greets them in a store. I feel sorry for them and the little one is much better off without that person's energies anyway. Some folks may just not respond due to the potential of an over protective parent who might take them responding to that " Hi " as something more then just a " Hi " back to the child. With all the " crazies " out there, for some it is merely self-preservation. Many parents these days actually try to dissuade their little ones from saying Hi " to total strangers for just that reason. Other still may be so focused on their reason for being there (i.e. reciting their shopping list in their head over and over so they don't forget anything). So, they honestly do not hear a little one saying " Hi " . Now this second view point is from hiking out in nature. For me, when I am out hiking in nature, I am " in church " and there to commune WITH nature and meditate.... NOT interact with humans. If I wanted to be with humans at this time, I would be. So, I actually find it quite rude of folks that insist on saying " Hi " to me in passing on a path. They could just nod and smile without making a sound, if they must acknowledge my presence but they do not have to invade my quiet solitude. The more noise that people create when out in nature, the less one truly sees and there is so much to be seen when out in nature but too many people assume you are out there for the same reason they are (which for many appears to just be exercise and nothing spiritual at all). Even when my kids were small and I would take them on an annual nature hike to look at the changing leaves and see nature, they learned quiet voices on the hiking trails. Quiet voices that would allow them to see the birds and see the deer and anything else that would present itself. Hmmmm .... I wonder .... is there a crystal out there that gives a person " invisibility " for just such places as the forest/woods? Then maybe I could hike without intrusion ... heehee Now from a personal point, if I hear a little one say " Hi " to me, I always answer back with a big smile if I do hear a little one say " Hi " in passing. In fact I am more apt to respond to a little one then an adult. I worked in retail for 14 LONG years and too many adults are quite rude to sales staff. Some parents go so far as to think that it is the sales staffs job to baby sit their kids while they shop and will let them run around stores screaming and yelling and paying no attention to what their kids are doing, even if it includes messing up displays and potentially damaging merchandise. So, when you or your wife feels put out by someone not saying " Hi " back to your daughter, try to keep it in perspective as to how our world is today and move on. It is not worth getting upset over because you do not know the true " why " of their lack of response and rudeness many times has absolutely nothing to do with it. Blessings to your day all. ReNau " Codail, suaimhnigh i nge/aga nadragain " " Sleep, rest in the arms of the Dragon " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 I have felt '' anger '' , and i think it is a spin off of '' hurt ''. I think when someone '' hurts '' you . You maybe upset initially , but then i believe '' anger '' can set in .This is just my opinion ....... Bright Blessings Diane H xxx --- On Tue, 31/3/09, Skye Coe <mauiskye1 wrote: Skye Coe <mauiskye1 Re: [CrystalHW] citrine and anger Tuesday, 31 March, 2009, 3:35 AM Aloha Chris. . . I had an experience where lots of anger came up as result of some network chiropractic that seemed unresolved. After 2 speeding tickets and very uncharacteristic grouchiness on my part I realized something needed to be done. Intutiively used a piece of pyrite (a sun formation) that I left tucked at my waistline for days (lots of anger!). Found out that pyrite is great for detoxing, balancing male/female polarity and must say that it worked. Jaspers, Agates and any stone with high hematite content (Tiger Eye, Carnelian, even Amethyst) might be useful depending on source of anger. Stones can be great allies in helping us discover what we need to bring into balance. Release is sometimes the key! Blessings on your journey of self-discovery! In Light )'( Skye HEALING THRU HEART Crystals, Minerals and More www.heartofmaui. com 1-808-280-3682 --- On Mon, 3/30/09, jackie moore <jerryandkramer@ > wrote: jackie moore <jerryandkramer@ > Re: [CrystalHW] citrine and anger CrystalHealing- workshop Monday, March 30, 2009, 3:57 PM I find this interesting. I had no idea about the use of Citrine--especially for this purpose. It sounds like the right perscription for me to try. Only, how long would you leave the Citrine on AND What do we do with all of this anger? What do we do when we first get up from the healing? Thanks for sharing this! Jackie --- On Mon, 3/30/09, holyreality11 <holyreality11@ > wrote: holyreality11 <holyreality11@ > [CrystalHW] citrine and anger CrystalHealing- workshop Monday, March 30, 2009, 7:14 PM citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , does anyone else feel this way ? -Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 Hi Chris, Just to add a note to ReNau's comment. For the first seven years of life the child is still closest to source....from where she came. The mission of the parents is to lead by great example as the young child is beginning to create form of the new world and not to have it totally defined for them...like by being told to follow super hero's (in the Waldorf/Steiner teachings children are not suppose to wear clothing with cartoon figures as it gives them a false sense of who to emulate). Let them find their own hero's....and hopefully the parents.. The children follow the examples of the ones closest to them...the parents. If your daughter sees you treating others well in the world that is the example she will likely emulate. If she sees you telling others how they should act...well that might be what she emulates as well. If you " coach " her to always say please and thank you...then she is coached. Maybe ask " what do you think? " If she does not say thank you or something like...how wonderful...then later in your own space you can remark how people love to be thanked...it makes them feel warm and loved. and not a lecture. I actually do not like to see children always being told how to respond. While the parents may think they are raising kids to be polite....it does not feel like a natural response... I have a 17 year old and 20 years old....and everyone everywhere always tells me how amazing my children (adults) are in conversation and with manners.... Just trust that your daughter , who will see you in the world that way, will naturally be that because it comes from her heart and her ability to respond with truth. If she sees you busy and productive in your day...happy....handling issues well...taking time out to bless your food....enjoying your home...the world.....your friends...then that is what she will have as her base of memories when the spirit world becomes a bit less real for her. It is our job to keep her connected....but all things by example and not lecture. When we tell stories it is helpful to tell stories from the memory so the young child can form their own pictures (usually quite different then the pictures by the artists in books). They are creating their own inner genius. Enjoy your wonderful loving child who loves to be open and friendly...that is a great gift, Dawn Silver Jewels of the Lotus Oracle --- On Tue, 3/31/09, renaumoon <renaumoon wrote: renaumoon <renaumoon Re: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 6:29 AM In a message dated 3/30/2009 10:16:35 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, cyork@earthhealingc rystals.com writes: I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. Greetings Chris, I want to interject a couple of perspectives here for you about this sort of situation. The first of these perspectives are more from the view point of being in a shopping environment. Yes, there certainly are people out there who could care less when a little one greets them in a store. I feel sorry for them and the little one is much better off without that person's energies anyway. Some folks may just not respond due to the potential of an over protective parent who might take them responding to that " Hi " as something more then just a " Hi " back to the child. With all the " crazies " out there, for some it is merely self-preservation. Many parents these days actually try to dissuade their little ones from saying Hi " to total strangers for just that reason. Other still may be so focused on their reason for being there (i.e. reciting their shopping list in their head over and over so they don't forget anything). So, they honestly do not hear a little one saying " Hi " . Now this second view point is from hiking out in nature. For me, when I am out hiking in nature, I am " in church " and there to commune WITH nature and meditate.... NOT interact with humans. If I wanted to be with humans at this time, I would be. So, I actually find it quite rude of folks that insist on saying " Hi " to me in passing on a path. They could just nod and smile without making a sound, if they must acknowledge my presence but they do not have to invade my quiet solitude. The more noise that people create when out in nature, the less one truly sees and there is so much to be seen when out in nature but too many people assume you are out there for the same reason they are (which for many appears to just be exercise and nothing spiritual at all). Even when my kids were small and I would take them on an annual nature hike to look at the changing leaves and see nature, they learned quiet voices on the hiking trails. Quiet voices that would allow them to see the birds and see the deer and anything else that would present itself. Hmmmm .... I wonder .... is there a crystal out there that gives a person " invisibility " for just such places as the forest/woods? Then maybe I could hike without intrusion ... heehee Now from a personal point, if I hear a little one say " Hi " to me, I always answer back with a big smile if I do hear a little one say " Hi " in passing. In fact I am more apt to respond to a little one then an adult. I worked in retail for 14 LONG years and too many adults are quite rude to sales staff. Some parents go so far as to think that it is the sales staffs job to baby sit their kids while they shop and will let them run around stores screaming and yelling and paying no attention to what their kids are doing, even if it includes messing up displays and potentially damaging merchandise. So, when you or your wife feels put out by someone not saying " Hi " back to your daughter, try to keep it in perspective as to how our world is today and move on. It is not worth getting upset over because you do not know the true " why " of their lack of response and rudeness many times has absolutely nothing to do with it. Blessings to your day all. ReNau " Codail, suaimhnigh i nge/aga nadragain " " Sleep, rest in the arms of the Dragon " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 Hello from a different perspective, Every child that looks at me, stares, or just looking with wonder, I say hi to , wave at, smile, you name it. and i wonder what the child's parent is thinking some smile with the child some will say, say hello, and i defiantly answer any-ones hello child or adult, some times add in how are u? hows your day going? even when in a blue mood, because this brings happiness to me, and when some one does not respond, I think what a beautiful hello they missed, and i know in my heart that person is closed off for some reason, or they have never been awake to feel that life.but i have given them a hello and maybe it will, work next time with the next person that comes into there life they will open a little more. So I'vestarted a chain of events. sharing love in life even if the other person doesn't see it, is a part of unconditional love, i believe, and that is the best way i had to explain it to my daughter. Shes 27 now, and says hello to every one who may look at her, expessially children, In Love Always Bella The life we lead is in the happiness we live ________________________________ " renaumoon " <renaumoon Tuesday, March 31, 2009 6:29:48 AM Re: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger In a message dated 3/30/2009 10:16:35 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, cyork@earthhealingc rystals.com writes: I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. Greetings Chris, I want to interject a couple of perspectives here for you about this sort of situation. The first of these perspectives are more from the view point of being in a shopping environment. Yes, there certainly are people out there who could care less when a little one greets them in a store. I feel sorry for them and the little one is much better off without that person's energies anyway. Some folks may just not respond due to the potential of an over protective parent who might take them responding to that " Hi " as something more then just a " Hi " back to the child. With all the " crazies " out there, for some it is merely self-preservation. Many parents these days actually try to dissuade their little ones from saying Hi " to total strangers for just that reason. Other still may be so focused on their reason for being there (i.e. reciting their shopping list in their head over and over so they don't forget anything). So, they honestly do not hear a little one saying " Hi " .. Now this second view point is from hiking out in nature. For me, when I am out hiking in nature, I am " in church " and there to commune WITH nature and meditate.... NOT interact with humans. If I wanted to be with humans at this time, I would be. So, I actually find it quite rude of folks that insist on saying " Hi " to me in passing on a path. They could just nod and smile without making a sound, if they must acknowledge my presence but they do not have to invade my quiet solitude. The more noise that people create when out in nature, the less one truly sees and there is so much to be seen when out in nature but too many people assume you are out there for the same reason they are (which for many appears to just be exercise and nothing spiritual at all). Even when my kids were small and I would take them on an annual nature hike to look at the changing leaves and see nature, they learned quiet voices on the hiking trails.. Quiet voices that would allow them to see the birds and see the deer and anything else that would present itself. Hmmmm .... I wonder .... is there a crystal out there that gives a person " invisibility " for just such places as the forest/woods? Then maybe I could hike without intrusion ... heehee Now from a personal point, if I hear a little one say " Hi " to me, I always answer back with a big smile if I do hear a little one say " Hi " in passing. In fact I am more apt to respond to a little one then an adult. I worked in retail for 14 LONG years and too many adults are quite rude to sales staff. Some parents go so far as to think that it is the sales staffs job to baby sit their kids while they shop and will let them run around stores screaming and yelling and paying no attention to what their kids are doing, even if it includes messing up displays and potentially damaging merchandise. So, when you or your wife feels put out by someone not saying " Hi " back to your daughter, try to keep it in perspective as to how our world is today and move on. It is not worth getting upset over because you do not know the true " why " of their lack of response and rudeness many times has absolutely nothing to do with it. Blessings to your day all. ReNau " Codail, suaimhnigh i nge/aga nadragain " " Sleep, rest in the arms of the Dragon " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 Hiyas everyone, Interesting about the anger part with citrine. I guess I don't have a lot of issues with anger as it just happens with or without the help of crystals. Usually citrine for me is attuned to money and happiness. I have a double terminated citrine that I carry with me in my purse. While this particular piece for me has to do with being my happy stone it lately has had a calming effect on both me and my dad while we were attending my grandma (mom's side) memorial. It helped us keep calm and eased our crying somewhat. Anyhow, I guess that's all. Take care, hugs, namaste, mp, ah'o, Lynn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 Nice Bella...really nice....I for one love saying hello to children.. Dawn --- On Tue, 3/31/09, D Bell <heartfreetofly wrote: D Bell <heartfreetofly Re: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 9:22 AM Hello from a different perspective, Every child that looks at me, stares, or just looking with wonder, I say hi to , wave at, smile, you name it. and i wonder what the child's parent is thinking some smile with the child some will say, say hello, and i defiantly answer any-ones hello child or adult, some times add in how are u? hows your day going? even when in a blue mood, because this brings happiness to me, and when some one does not respond, I think what a beautiful hello they missed, and i know in my heart that person is closed off for some reason, or they have never been awake to feel that life.but i have given them a hello and maybe it will, work next time with the next person that comes into there life they will open a little more. So I'vestarted a chain of events. sharing love in life even if the other person doesn't see it, is a part of unconditional love, i believe, and that is the best way i had to explain it to my daughter. Shes 27 now, and says hello to every one who may look at her, expessially children, In Love Always Bella The life we lead is in the happiness we live ____________ _________ _________ __ " renaumoon (AT) aol (DOT) com " <renaumoon (AT) aol (DOT) com> CrystalHealing- workshop@ . .com Tuesday, March 31, 2009 6:29:48 AM Re: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger In a message dated 3/30/2009 10:16:35 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, cyork@earthhealingc rystals.com writes: I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. Greetings Chris, I want to interject a couple of perspectives here for you about this sort of situation. The first of these perspectives are more from the view point of being in a shopping environment. Yes, there certainly are people out there who could care less when a little one greets them in a store. I feel sorry for them and the little one is much better off without that person's energies anyway. Some folks may just not respond due to the potential of an over protective parent who might take them responding to that " Hi " as something more then just a " Hi " back to the child. With all the " crazies " out there, for some it is merely self-preservation. Many parents these days actually try to dissuade their little ones from saying Hi " to total strangers for just that reason. Other still may be so focused on their reason for being there (i.e. reciting their shopping list in their head over and over so they don't forget anything). So, they honestly do not hear a little one saying " Hi " .. Now this second view point is from hiking out in nature. For me, when I am out hiking in nature, I am " in church " and there to commune WITH nature and meditate.... NOT interact with humans. If I wanted to be with humans at this time, I would be. So, I actually find it quite rude of folks that insist on saying " Hi " to me in passing on a path. They could just nod and smile without making a sound, if they must acknowledge my presence but they do not have to invade my quiet solitude. The more noise that people create when out in nature, the less one truly sees and there is so much to be seen when out in nature but too many people assume you are out there for the same reason they are (which for many appears to just be exercise and nothing spiritual at all). Even when my kids were small and I would take them on an annual nature hike to look at the changing leaves and see nature, they learned quiet voices on the hiking trails.. Quiet voices that would allow them to see the birds and see the deer and anything else that would present itself. Hmmmm .... I wonder .... is there a crystal out there that gives a person " invisibility " for just such places as the forest/woods? Then maybe I could hike without intrusion ... heehee Now from a personal point, if I hear a little one say " Hi " to me, I always answer back with a big smile if I do hear a little one say " Hi " in passing. In fact I am more apt to respond to a little one then an adult. I worked in retail for 14 LONG years and too many adults are quite rude to sales staff. Some parents go so far as to think that it is the sales staffs job to baby sit their kids while they shop and will let them run around stores screaming and yelling and paying no attention to what their kids are doing, even if it includes messing up displays and potentially damaging merchandise. So, when you or your wife feels put out by someone not saying " Hi " back to your daughter, try to keep it in perspective as to how our world is today and move on. It is not worth getting upset over because you do not know the true " why " of their lack of response and rudeness many times has absolutely nothing to do with it. Blessings to your day all. ReNau " Codail, suaimhnigh i nge/aga nadragain " " Sleep, rest in the arms of the Dragon " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 Hi! Even if you don't have an issue with anger, wouldn't Citrine then be good for ANY NEGATIVE feelings that might occur? Disappointment, the blues, missing somebody, etc? Jackie --- On Tue, 3/31/09, spiritcrystal_lynn <spiritcrystal_lynn wrote: spiritcrystal_lynn <spiritcrystal_lynn [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 9:44 AM Hiyas everyone, Interesting about the anger part with citrine. I guess I don't have a lot of issues with anger as it just happens with or without the help of crystals. Usually citrine for me is attuned to money and happiness. I have a double terminated citrine that I carry with me in my purse. While this particular piece for me has to do with being my happy stone it lately has had a calming effect on both me and my dad while we were attending my grandma (mom's side) memorial. It helped us keep calm and eased our crying somewhat. Anyhow, I guess that's all. Take care, hugs, namaste, mp, ah'o, Lynn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2009 Report Share Posted March 31, 2009 Isn't there an old saying about , " When a person cannot AFFORD a smile and a hello, they are truly broke " , or " If they can't afford the smile and hello, share yours with them? " I'm one to talk--at times I find myself somewhat resenting the fact that someone couldn't just smile and say hello. But then again, I hate holding the door for someone (in public) and them not bothering to say " thanks " . Maybe I'd better head for the Citrine, huh? Jackie --- On Tue, 3/31/09, D Bell <heartfreetofly wrote: D Bell <heartfreetofly Re: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 9:22 AM Hello from a different perspective, Every child that looks at me, stares, or just looking with wonder, I say hi to , wave at, smile, you name it. and i wonder what the child's parent is thinking some smile with the child some will say, say hello, and i defiantly answer any-ones hello child or adult, some times add in how are u? hows your day going? even when in a blue mood, because this brings happiness to me, and when some one does not respond, I think what a beautiful hello they missed, and i know in my heart that person is closed off for some reason, or they have never been awake to feel that life.but i have given them a hello and maybe it will, work next time with the next person that comes into there life they will open a little more. So I'vestarted a chain of events. sharing love in life even if the other person doesn't see it, is a part of unconditional love, i believe, and that is the best way i had to explain it to my daughter. Shes 27 now, and says hello to every one who may look at her, expessially children, In Love Always Bella The life we lead is in the happiness we live ____________ _________ _________ __ " renaumoon (AT) aol (DOT) com " <renaumoon (AT) aol (DOT) com> CrystalHealing- workshop@ . .com Tuesday, March 31, 2009 6:29:48 AM Re: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger In a message dated 3/30/2009 10:16:35 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, cyork@earthhealingc rystals.com writes: I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. Greetings Chris, I want to interject a couple of perspectives here for you about this sort of situation. The first of these perspectives are more from the view point of being in a shopping environment. Yes, there certainly are people out there who could care less when a little one greets them in a store. I feel sorry for them and the little one is much better off without that person's energies anyway. Some folks may just not respond due to the potential of an over protective parent who might take them responding to that " Hi " as something more then just a " Hi " back to the child. With all the " crazies " out there, for some it is merely self-preservation. Many parents these days actually try to dissuade their little ones from saying Hi " to total strangers for just that reason. Other still may be so focused on their reason for being there (i.e. reciting their shopping list in their head over and over so they don't forget anything). So, they honestly do not hear a little one saying " Hi " .. Now this second view point is from hiking out in nature. For me, when I am out hiking in nature, I am " in church " and there to commune WITH nature and meditate.... NOT interact with humans. If I wanted to be with humans at this time, I would be. So, I actually find it quite rude of folks that insist on saying " Hi " to me in passing on a path. They could just nod and smile without making a sound, if they must acknowledge my presence but they do not have to invade my quiet solitude. The more noise that people create when out in nature, the less one truly sees and there is so much to be seen when out in nature but too many people assume you are out there for the same reason they are (which for many appears to just be exercise and nothing spiritual at all). Even when my kids were small and I would take them on an annual nature hike to look at the changing leaves and see nature, they learned quiet voices on the hiking trails.. Quiet voices that would allow them to see the birds and see the deer and anything else that would present itself. Hmmmm .... I wonder .... is there a crystal out there that gives a person " invisibility " for just such places as the forest/woods? Then maybe I could hike without intrusion ... heehee Now from a personal point, if I hear a little one say " Hi " to me, I always answer back with a big smile if I do hear a little one say " Hi " in passing. In fact I am more apt to respond to a little one then an adult. I worked in retail for 14 LONG years and too many adults are quite rude to sales staff. Some parents go so far as to think that it is the sales staffs job to baby sit their kids while they shop and will let them run around stores screaming and yelling and paying no attention to what their kids are doing, even if it includes messing up displays and potentially damaging merchandise. So, when you or your wife feels put out by someone not saying " Hi " back to your daughter, try to keep it in perspective as to how our world is today and move on. It is not worth getting upset over because you do not know the true " why " of their lack of response and rudeness many times has absolutely nothing to do with it. Blessings to your day all. ReNau " Codail, suaimhnigh i nge/aga nadragain " " Sleep, rest in the arms of the Dragon " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2009 Report Share Posted April 1, 2009 " The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. " well tell me if I am wrong : these people SHOULD NOT EXIST if 2 people exist, they love each other, what else do they have? if 3 exist, father, mother, child, they love each other, what else do they have ? maybe, 212, 12, 100 people exist they are a tribe, they love each other, there is no room for perversion, for one rotten apple immediately spoils the bunch so how - come 6 - 7 billion people most of them tools and slaves working as fools going to schools and being educated on every - which way to avoid a child that says " Hi " to you and focus on more important things like keeping the economy, which enslaves children by necessity and deliberate design, is the source of all truly Satanic blackness, alive? these people ought to be wiped out so yes I am angry Om Namah Shivaya how many repetitions will it take for him to wake up and erase all that is not Him? , " earthhealingcrystals " <cyork wrote: > > Well said. In these time especially, those on a true spiritual jurney, find themselves upset and angry with the current state of the world. We need to voice our anger sometimes to bring about a positive change. I am ussually the one to keep quite, but my wife has tought me much about voicing our true feelings. > > I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. > Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. > > So I think that sometimes we need to take a moment to reflect on our anger and what it teaches us. > > Chris and O > www.earthhealingcrystals.com > > Check Out Our New Enlightenment Center > www.earthhealingenlightenment.org > > > > , John Van Rees <john@> wrote: > > > > Chris, > > > > Citrine is a 3rd Chakra Stone... seat of the will. I would ask if you do > > not deal with anger? Many > > people on a spiritual path feel it is not " spiritual " to be angry. That > > is not true. Anger unexpressed > > turns into depression. Out of control anger is another thing altogether. > > > > It would seem to me that perhaps the citrine is helping you move stuck > > energy in the will center > > which could feel like or express as anger if you are not used to dealing > > with this energy. This is > > good energy.. it helps to move us forward and also helps to protect us > > in times > > of danger. > > > > Just my thoughts Chris. > > > > In gratitude, > > > > John Van Rees > > http://www.exquisitecrystals.com > > > > > > > citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , > > > > > > does anyone else feel this way ? > > > > > > -Chris > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2009 Report Share Posted April 1, 2009 I want to comment on the , " how the world is " there is the shadow / anti - christ (or anti - Ganesha ! or anti - Good) and the christ and the media projects phatnasms into our minds and when we load up on fear our compassion goes away so that we compare the people in the world, to what we are taught people are like so it is , unless you are empathic / psychic rather " hard " for a parent to know really what the world IS in relation to their children and 'safety' now i read something like " fear will promise you safety, but love IS safety " now this makes me think there is a bright possibly psychic / indigo / crystal child with typical parents who don't get that he does things on his own, obeys no rules, wanders out of the neighborhood into peoples yards this is wholesome behavior, now some that are the devil's advocate (LITERALLY) will come up with a great big pre-fabricated check-list that has been fretted into them like an out of tune guitar playing dissonance to any sweet chords it hears , about the " what if " scenarios (hence the devi's advocate is a LAWyer (liar! ) ) about bad t hings that can happen and if you stare this demon in the face it cannot think of one good thing t hat might happen to an unsupervised child and if it can, then the person you are speaking to has an angel in them, which can overcome dys-functional programs and the Beatles sing " dear prudence, its a brand new day! " -Chris (ps i have felt fear not of the wrongness of speaking to this child, but of how adults may judge me for speaking to him, which I should not have and sometimes i have been in such a low mood that if he yells out " hi " i feel ashamed to be confronted by such an angel, and have not responded, although i have also played with him and been put up with various odd tests of " patience " (to the not comprehending adults) such as being asked to throw sticks and rocks and etc... , Dawn Silver <DawnSilver wrote: > > Hi Chris, > Just to add a note to ReNau's comment. > For the first seven years of life the child is still closest to source....from where she came. The mission of the parents is to lead by great example as the young child is beginning to create form of the new world and not to have it totally defined for them...like by being told to follow super hero's (in the Waldorf/Steiner teachings children are not suppose to wear clothing with cartoon figures as it gives them a false sense of who to emulate). Let them find their own hero's....and hopefully the parents.. > The children follow the examples of the ones closest to them...the parents. If your daughter sees you treating others well in the world that is the example she will likely emulate. If she sees you telling others how they should act...well that might be what she emulates as well. If you " coach " her to always say please and thank you...then she is coached. Maybe ask " what do you think? " If she does not say thank you or something like...how wonderful...then later in your own space you can remark how people love to be thanked...it makes them feel warm and loved. and not a lecture. I actually do not like to see children always being told how to respond. While the parents may think they are raising kids to be polite....it does not feel like a natural response... I have a 17 year old and 20 years old....and everyone everywhere always tells me how amazing my children (adults) are in conversation and with manners.... Just trust that your > daughter , who will see you in the world that way, will naturally be that because it comes from her heart and her ability to respond with truth. > If she sees you busy and productive in your day...happy....handling issues well...taking time out to bless your food....enjoying your home...the world.....your friends...then that is what she will have as her base of memories when the spirit world becomes a bit less real for her. It is our job to keep her connected....but all things by example and not lecture. When we tell stories it is helpful to tell stories from the memory so the young child can form their own pictures (usually quite different then the pictures by the artists in books). They are creating their own inner genius. > Enjoy your wonderful loving child who loves to be open and friendly...that is a great gift, > Dawn Silver > Jewels of the Lotus Oracle > > --- On Tue, 3/31/09, renaumoon <renaumoon wrote: > > renaumoon <renaumoon > Re: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger > > Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 6:29 AM In a message dated 3/30/2009 10:16:35 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, > cyork@earthhealingc rystals.com writes: > > I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. > She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes > people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to > her. > Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not > answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did > not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was > teaching my daughter by not answering back. > > Greetings Chris, > > I want to interject a couple of perspectives here for you about this sort of > situation. > > The first of these perspectives are more from the view point of being in a > shopping environment. Yes, there certainly are people out there who could care > less when a little one greets them in a store. I feel sorry for them and the > little one is much better off without that person's energies anyway. Some > folks may just not respond due to the potential of an over protective parent who > might take them responding to that " Hi " as something more then just a " Hi " > back to the child. With all the " crazies " out there, for some it is merely > self-preservation. Many parents these days actually try to dissuade their > little ones from saying Hi " to total strangers for just that reason. Other still > may be so focused on their reason for being there (i.e. reciting their shopping > list in their head over and over so they don't forget anything). So, they > honestly do not hear a little one saying " Hi " . > > Now this second view point is from hiking out in nature. For me, when I am > out hiking in nature, I am " in church " and there to commune WITH nature and > meditate.... NOT interact with humans. If I wanted to be with humans at this > time, I would be. So, I actually find it quite rude of folks that insist on > saying " Hi " to me in passing on a path. They could just nod and smile without > making a sound, if they must acknowledge my presence but they do not have to > invade my quiet solitude. The more noise that people create when out in nature, > the less one truly sees and there is so much to be seen when out in nature > but too many people assume you are out there for the same reason they are > (which for many appears to just be exercise and nothing spiritual at all). Even > when my kids were small and I would take them on an annual nature hike to look > at the changing leaves and see nature, they learned quiet voices on the > hiking trails. Quiet voices that would allow them to see the birds and see the > deer and anything else that would present itself. > > Hmmmm .... I wonder .... is there a crystal out there that gives a person > " invisibility " for just such places as the forest/woods? Then maybe I could hike > without intrusion ... heehee > > Now from a personal point, if I hear a little one say " Hi " to me, I always > answer back with a big smile if I do hear a little one say " Hi " in passing. In > fact I am more apt to respond to a little one then an adult. I worked in > retail for 14 LONG years and too many adults are quite rude to sales staff. Some > parents go so far as to think that it is the sales staffs job to baby sit > their kids while they shop and will let them run around stores screaming and > yelling and paying no attention to what their kids are doing, even if it > includes messing up displays and potentially damaging merchandise. > > > So, when you or your wife feels put out by someone not saying " Hi " back to > your daughter, try to keep it in perspective as to how our world is today and > move on. It is not worth getting upset over because you do not know the true > " why " of their lack of response and rudeness many times has absolutely nothing > to do with it. > > Blessings to your day all. > ReNau > > " Codail, suaimhnigh i nge/aga nadragain " > " Sleep, rest in the arms of the Dragon " > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2009 Report Share Posted April 1, 2009 jackie moore wrote: > > Hi! Even if you don't have an issue with anger, wouldn't Citrine > then be good for ANY NEGATIVE feelings that might occur? > Disappointment, the blues, missing somebody, etc? Jackie > Jackie, I think some people have mis-construed what was written.. What I was saying is that Citrine will move stuck energy.... in this case stuck anger energy. When you ask will it be good for any negative feelings... I also posted that anger is not a negative energy.. it is just energy. So I would say again... that Citrine will create the energy of moving forward and will help to unblock any stuck energy... so if stuck energy is contributing to the above issues,,, the answer would be yes. If they are due to other situations, then the answer would be no. :-) In gratitude, John Van Rees http://www.exquisitecrystals.com > > --- On Tue, 3/31/09, spiritcrystal_lynn <spiritcrystal_lynn > <spiritcrystal_lynn%40>> wrote: > > spiritcrystal_lynn <spiritcrystal_lynn > <spiritcrystal_lynn%40>> > [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger > > <%40> > Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 9:44 AM > > Hiyas everyone, > > Interesting about the anger part with citrine. I guess I don't have a > lot of issues with anger as it just happens with or without the help > of crystals. Usually citrine for me is attuned to money and happiness. > I have a double terminated citrine that I carry with me in my purse. > While this particular piece for me has to do with being my happy stone > it lately has had a calming effect on both me and my dad while we were > attending my grandma (mom's side) memorial. It helped us keep calm and > eased our crying somewhat. > > Anyhow, I guess that's all. Take care, hugs, namaste, mp, ah'o, > > Lynn > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2009 Report Share Posted April 2, 2009 I too don't understand greeting a child who says a friendly hello. As for adults....well, I lived 50 years in So. Calif. The accepted normal behavior out THERE ( I generalize, but not by much), is if you are walking past ANYone, you either look down as you walk, or stare straight-ahead, indicating that there is an invisible sheild all around you: This sheild you automatically place there to make the statement that you do not see the other person you pass, you won't be saying hello, smiling or nodding, and this sheild provides you with the ability to just " pretend " that you are the only person on the sidewalk. Almost invariably, the person you're passing stares down or straight ahead, sporting the same sheild. Thus, two human beings have walked past, into and right out of each other's lives without having acknowledged that a fellow-human is even human. I did this same thing much of my life, I'm ashamed to say. However, there were many times when I would smile and say hi, and the person 'I'd said it to, rapidly eyed me, then just as fast, looked back into his " sheild " \bubble " , all the while looking startled, even shocked, and somewhat traumatized by the fact that I'd broken " protical " . The looks on those faces make me think that we did this, of course by (bad) habit, but that lurking behind the habit was fear. There are so many people in So. Cal who are on the con or grift; so many looking for an opportunity to do SOME kind of harm or just mess with people, that so many have to hide behind their sheild for safety\protection, OR they will be forced to address the issue of " Who ARE you? What do you want from me? What might you be ready to do to me? If I don't make eye contact, perhaps they'll just leave me alone. " That's one reason I believe folks don't give friendly greetings. Jackie --- On Tue, 3/31/09, holyreality11 <holyreality11 wrote: holyreality11 <holyreality11 [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 6:39 PM " The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. " well tell me if I am wrong : these people SHOULD NOT EXIST if 2 people exist, they love each other, what else do they have? if 3 exist, father, mother, child, they love each other, what else do they have ? maybe, 212, 12, 100 people exist they are a tribe, they love each other, there is no room for perversion, for one rotten apple immediately spoils the bunch so how - come 6 - 7 billion people most of them tools and slaves working as fools going to schools and being educated on every - which way to avoid a child that says " Hi " to you and focus on more important things like keeping the economy, which enslaves children by necessity and deliberate design, is the source of all truly Satanic blackness, alive? these people ought to be wiped out so yes I am angry Om Namah Shivaya how many repetitions will it take for him to wake up and erase all that is not Him? CrystalHealing- workshop, " earthhealingcrysta ls " <cyork wrote: > > Well said. In these time especially, those on a true spiritual jurney, find themselves upset and angry with the current state of the world. We need to voice our anger sometimes to bring about a positive change. I am ussually the one to keep quite, but my wife has tought me much about voicing our true feelings. > > I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. > Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. > > So I think that sometimes we need to take a moment to reflect on our anger and what it teaches us. > > Chris and O > www.earthhealingcry stals.com > > Check Out Our New Enlightenment Center > www.earthhealingenl ightenment. org > > > > CrystalHealing- workshop, John Van Rees <john@> wrote: > > > > Chris, > > > > Citrine is a 3rd Chakra Stone... seat of the will. I would ask if you do > > not deal with anger? Many > > people on a spiritual path feel it is not " spiritual " to be angry. That > > is not true. Anger unexpressed > > turns into depression. Out of control anger is another thing altogether. > > > > It would seem to me that perhaps the citrine is helping you move stuck > > energy in the will center > > which could feel like or express as anger if you are not used to dealing > > with this energy. This is > > good energy.. it helps to move us forward and also helps to protect us > > in times > > of danger. > > > > Just my thoughts Chris. > > > > In gratitude, > > > > John Van Rees > > http://www.exquisit ecrystals. com > > > > > > > citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , > > > > > > does anyone else feel this way ? > > > > > > -Chris > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2009 Report Share Posted April 7, 2009 I live in East Texas and have noticed that prople are much different that that of the place I grew up in. Arizona. People here like to greet you and say hello. I guess you could say it is southern hospitality and still keeping with the old fashion ways. I have met more friendly people here than anywhere else I guess I could say. People don't seem to be " affraid' of people here. I have been guilty too of not saying hello when I should have. However living her has brought the friendlyness back so to speak. It's nice to walk down your street and say hello and get a hello or a smile back. I think thought that al lot of places these days are in the keeping to you self society because of lack of community we have now. Atleast in a lot of places. We can learn a lot from kids though. They still have the barriers down and are very trusting. Kristin S. jerryandkramer Thu, 2 Apr 2009 00:15:25 -0700 Re: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger I too don't understand greeting a child who says a friendly hello. As for adults....well, I lived 50 years in So. Calif. The accepted normal behavior out THERE ( I generalize, but not by much), is if you are walking past ANYone, you either look down as you walk, or stare straight-ahead, indicating that there is an invisible sheild all around you: This sheild you automatically place there to make the statement that you do not see the other person you pass, you won't be saying hello, smiling or nodding, and this sheild provides you with the ability to just " pretend " that you are the only person on the sidewalk. Almost invariably, the person you're passing stares down or straight ahead, sporting the same sheild. Thus, two human beings have walked past, into and right out of each other's lives without having acknowledged that a fellow-human is even human. I did this same thing much of my life, I'm ashamed to say. However, there were many times when I would smile and say hi, and the person 'I'd said it to, rapidly eyed me, then just as fast, looked back into his " sheild " \bubble " , all the while looking startled, even shocked, and somewhat traumatized by the fact that I'd broken " protical " . The looks on those faces make me think that we did this, of course by (bad) habit, but that lurking behind the habit was fear. There are so many people in So. Cal who are on the con or grift; so many looking for an opportunity to do SOME kind of harm or just mess with people, that so many have to hide behind their sheild for safety\protection, OR they will be forced to address the issue of " Who ARE you? What do you want from me? What might you be ready to do to me? If I don't make eye contact, perhaps they'll just leave me alone. " That's one reason I believe folks don't give friendly greetings. Jackie --- On Tue, 3/31/09, holyreality11 <holyreality11 wrote: holyreality11 <holyreality11 [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 6:39 PM " The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. " well tell me if I am wrong : these people SHOULD NOT EXIST if 2 people exist, they love each other, what else do they have? if 3 exist, father, mother, child, they love each other, what else do they have ? maybe, 212, 12, 100 people exist they are a tribe, they love each other, there is no room for perversion, for one rotten apple immediately spoils the bunch so how - come 6 - 7 billion people most of them tools and slaves working as fools going to schools and being educated on every - which way to avoid a child that says " Hi " to you and focus on more important things like keeping the economy, which enslaves children by necessity and deliberate design, is the source of all truly Satanic blackness, alive? these people ought to be wiped out so yes I am angry Om Namah Shivaya how many repetitions will it take for him to wake up and erase all that is not Him? CrystalHealing- workshop, " earthhealingcrysta ls " <cyork wrote: > > Well said. In these time especially, those on a true spiritual jurney, find themselves upset and angry with the current state of the world. We need to voice our anger sometimes to bring about a positive change. I am ussually the one to keep quite, but my wife has tought me much about voicing our true feelings. > > I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. > Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. > > So I think that sometimes we need to take a moment to reflect on our anger and what it teaches us. > > Chris and O > www.earthhealingcry stals.com > > Check Out Our New Enlightenment Center > www.earthhealingenl ightenment. org > > > > CrystalHealing- workshop, John Van Rees <john@> wrote: > > > > Chris, > > > > Citrine is a 3rd Chakra Stone... seat of the will. I would ask if you do > > not deal with anger? Many > > people on a spiritual path feel it is not " spiritual " to be angry. That > > is not true. Anger unexpressed > > turns into depression. Out of control anger is another thing altogether. > > > > It would seem to me that perhaps the citrine is helping you move stuck > > energy in the will center > > which could feel like or express as anger if you are not used to dealing > > with this energy. This is > > good energy.. it helps to move us forward and also helps to protect us > > in times > > of danger. > > > > Just my thoughts Chris. > > > > In gratitude, > > > > John Van Rees > > http://www.exquisit ecrystals. com > > > > > > > citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , > > > > > > does anyone else feel this way ? > > > > > > -Chris > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2009 Report Share Posted April 7, 2009 Hiyas Kristin, Where in Arizona did you live? Having lived in Tucson, most people there seemed to be fairly old fashioned when it came to greetings, not sure about other places in Arizona though ::shrugs::. Here in Colorado though, that friendliness seems to have slipped away somewhat. Lynn , kristin Swint <Kristin1_7 wrote: > > > I live in East Texas and have noticed that prople are much different that that of the place I grew up in. Arizona. People here like to greet you and say hello. I guess you could say it is southern hospitality and still keeping with the old fashion ways. I have met more friendly people here than anywhere else I guess I could say. People don't seem to be " affraid' of people here. I have been guilty too of not saying hello when I should have. However living her has brought the friendlyness back so to speak. It's nice to walk down your street and say hello and get a hello or a smile back. I think thought that al lot of places these days are in the keeping to you self society because of lack of community we have now. Atleast in a lot of places. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2009 Report Share Posted April 7, 2009 Kristin, I now live in Kansas and people here say hello or wave as they drive past. I LOVE that! Jackie --- On Mon, 4/6/09, kristin Swint <Kristin1_7 wrote: kristin Swint <Kristin1_7 RE: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger Monday, April 6, 2009, 8:45 PM I live in East Texas and have noticed that prople are much different that that of the place I grew up in. Arizona. People here like to greet you and say hello. I guess you could say it is southern hospitality and still keeping with the old fashion ways. I have met more friendly people here than anywhere else I guess I could say. People don't seem to be " affraid' of people here. I have been guilty too of not saying hello when I should have. However living her has brought the friendlyness back so to speak. It's nice to walk down your street and say hello and get a hello or a smile back. I think thought that al lot of places these days are in the keeping to you self society because of lack of community we have now. Atleast in a lot of places. We can learn a lot from kids though. They still have the barriers down and are very trusting. Kristin S. CrystalHealing- workshop jerryandkramer@ Thu, 2 Apr 2009 00:15:25 -0700 Re: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger I too don't understand greeting a child who says a friendly hello. As for adults....well, I lived 50 years in So. Calif. The accepted normal behavior out THERE ( I generalize, but not by much), is if you are walking past ANYone, you either look down as you walk, or stare straight-ahead, indicating that there is an invisible sheild all around you: This sheild you automatically place there to make the statement that you do not see the other person you pass, you won't be saying hello, smiling or nodding, and this sheild provides you with the ability to just " pretend " that you are the only person on the sidewalk. Almost invariably, the person you're passing stares down or straight ahead, sporting the same sheild. Thus, two human beings have walked past, into and right out of each other's lives without having acknowledged that a fellow-human is even human. I did this same thing much of my life, I'm ashamed to say. However, there were many times when I would smile and say hi, and the person 'I'd said it to, rapidly eyed me, then just as fast, looked back into his " sheild " \bubble " , all the while looking startled, even shocked, and somewhat traumatized by the fact that I'd broken " protical " . The looks on those faces make me think that we did this, of course by (bad) habit, but that lurking behind the habit was fear. There are so many people in So. Cal who are on the con or grift; so many looking for an opportunity to do SOME kind of harm or just mess with people, that so many have to hide behind their sheild for safety\protection, OR they will be forced to address the issue of " Who ARE you? What do you want from me? What might you be ready to do to me? If I don't make eye contact, perhaps they'll just leave me alone. " That's one reason I believe folks don't give friendly greetings. Jackie --- On Tue, 3/31/09, holyreality11 <holyreality11@ > wrote: holyreality11 <holyreality11@ > [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger CrystalHealing- workshop Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 6:39 PM " The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. " well tell me if I am wrong : these people SHOULD NOT EXIST if 2 people exist, they love each other, what else do they have? if 3 exist, father, mother, child, they love each other, what else do they have ? maybe, 212, 12, 100 people exist they are a tribe, they love each other, there is no room for perversion, for one rotten apple immediately spoils the bunch so how - come 6 - 7 billion people most of them tools and slaves working as fools going to schools and being educated on every - which way to avoid a child that says " Hi " to you and focus on more important things like keeping the economy, which enslaves children by necessity and deliberate design, is the source of all truly Satanic blackness, alive? these people ought to be wiped out so yes I am angry Om Namah Shivaya how many repetitions will it take for him to wake up and erase all that is not Him? CrystalHealing- workshop, " earthhealingcrysta ls " <cyork wrote: > > Well said. In these time especially, those on a true spiritual jurney, find themselves upset and angry with the current state of the world. We need to voice our anger sometimes to bring about a positive change. I am ussually the one to keep quite, but my wife has tought me much about voicing our true feelings. > > I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. > Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. > > So I think that sometimes we need to take a moment to reflect on our anger and what it teaches us. > > Chris and O > www.earthhealingcry stals.com > > Check Out Our New Enlightenment Center > www.earthhealingenl ightenment. org > > > > CrystalHealing- workshop, John Van Rees <john@> wrote: > > > > Chris, > > > > Citrine is a 3rd Chakra Stone... seat of the will. I would ask if you do > > not deal with anger? Many > > people on a spiritual path feel it is not " spiritual " to be angry. That > > is not true. Anger unexpressed > > turns into depression. Out of control anger is another thing altogether. > > > > It would seem to me that perhaps the citrine is helping you move stuck > > energy in the will center > > which could feel like or express as anger if you are not used to dealing > > with this energy. This is > > good energy.. it helps to move us forward and also helps to protect us > > in times > > of danger. > > > > Just my thoughts Chris. > > > > In gratitude, > > > > John Van Rees > > http://www.exquisit ecrystals. com > > > > > > > citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , > > > > > > does anyone else feel this way ? > > > > > > -Chris > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 9, 2009 Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 I am from Tucson too! I grew up in North Tucson. Maybe it was the places I frecuented that did not seem to be as friendly as here in Texas, I don't know it just seems much happier here. I just remember your neightbors would not talk much to you if you said hello. I think as time goes but It does, as you said, slip away. Too bad though. Kristin S. spiritcrystal_lynn Tue, 7 Apr 2009 15:50:51 +0000 [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger Hiyas Kristin, Where in Arizona did you live? Having lived in Tucson, most people there seemed to be fairly old fashioned when it came to greetings, not sure about other places in Arizona though ::shrugs::. Here in Colorado though, that friendliness seems to have slipped away somewhat. Lynn , kristin Swint <Kristin1_7 wrote: > > > I live in East Texas and have noticed that prople are much different that that of the place I grew up in. Arizona. People here like to greet you and say hello. I guess you could say it is southern hospitality and still keeping with the old fashion ways. I have met more friendly people here than anywhere else I guess I could say. People don't seem to be " affraid' of people here. I have been guilty too of not saying hello when I should have. However living her has brought the friendlyness back so to speak. It's nice to walk down your street and say hello and get a hello or a smile back. I think thought that al lot of places these days are in the keeping to you self society because of lack of community we have now. Atleast in a lot of places. > _______________ Rediscover Hotmail®: Get quick friend updates right in your inbox. http://windowslive.com/RediscoverHotmail?ocid=TXT_TAGLM_WL_HM_Rediscover_Updates\ 1_042009 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 9, 2009 Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 People do that here more too. I love it too! Kristin S. jerryandkramer Tue, 7 Apr 2009 12:25:37 -0700 RE: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger Kristin, I now live in Kansas and people here say hello or wave as they drive past. I LOVE that! Jackie --- On Mon, 4/6/09, kristin Swint <Kristin1_7 wrote: kristin Swint <Kristin1_7 RE: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger Monday, April 6, 2009, 8:45 PM I live in East Texas and have noticed that prople are much different that that of the place I grew up in. Arizona. People here like to greet you and say hello. I guess you could say it is southern hospitality and still keeping with the old fashion ways. I have met more friendly people here than anywhere else I guess I could say. People don't seem to be " affraid' of people here. I have been guilty too of not saying hello when I should have. However living her has brought the friendlyness back so to speak. It's nice to walk down your street and say hello and get a hello or a smile back. I think thought that al lot of places these days are in the keeping to you self society because of lack of community we have now. Atleast in a lot of places. We can learn a lot from kids though. They still have the barriers down and are very trusting. Kristin S. CrystalHealing- workshop jerryandkramer@ Thu, 2 Apr 2009 00:15:25 -0700 Re: [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger I too don't understand greeting a child who says a friendly hello. As for adults....well, I lived 50 years in So. Calif. The accepted normal behavior out THERE ( I generalize, but not by much), is if you are walking past ANYone, you either look down as you walk, or stare straight-ahead, indicating that there is an invisible sheild all around you: This sheild you automatically place there to make the statement that you do not see the other person you pass, you won't be saying hello, smiling or nodding, and this sheild provides you with the ability to just " pretend " that you are the only person on the sidewalk. Almost invariably, the person you're passing stares down or straight ahead, sporting the same sheild. Thus, two human beings have walked past, into and right out of each other's lives without having acknowledged that a fellow-human is even human. I did this same thing much of my life, I'm ashamed to say. However, there were many times when I would smile and say hi, and the person 'I'd said it to, rapidly eyed me, then just as fast, looked back into his " sheild " \bubble " , all the while looking startled, even shocked, and somewhat traumatized by the fact that I'd broken " protical " . The looks on those faces make me think that we did this, of course by (bad) habit, but that lurking behind the habit was fear. There are so many people in So. Cal who are on the con or grift; so many looking for an opportunity to do SOME kind of harm or just mess with people, that so many have to hide behind their sheild for safety\protection, OR they will be forced to address the issue of " Who ARE you? What do you want from me? What might you be ready to do to me? If I don't make eye contact, perhaps they'll just leave me alone. " That's one reason I believe folks don't give friendly greetings. Jackie --- On Tue, 3/31/09, holyreality11 <holyreality11@ > wrote: holyreality11 <holyreality11@ > [CrystalHW] Re: citrine and anger CrystalHealing- workshop Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 6:39 PM " The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. " well tell me if I am wrong : these people SHOULD NOT EXIST if 2 people exist, they love each other, what else do they have? if 3 exist, father, mother, child, they love each other, what else do they have ? maybe, 212, 12, 100 people exist they are a tribe, they love each other, there is no room for perversion, for one rotten apple immediately spoils the bunch so how - come 6 - 7 billion people most of them tools and slaves working as fools going to schools and being educated on every - which way to avoid a child that says " Hi " to you and focus on more important things like keeping the economy, which enslaves children by necessity and deliberate design, is the source of all truly Satanic blackness, alive? these people ought to be wiped out so yes I am angry Om Namah Shivaya how many repetitions will it take for him to wake up and erase all that is not Him? CrystalHealing- workshop, " earthhealingcrysta ls " <cyork wrote: > > Well said. In these time especially, those on a true spiritual jurney, find themselves upset and angry with the current state of the world. We need to voice our anger sometimes to bring about a positive change. I am ussually the one to keep quite, but my wife has tought me much about voicing our true feelings. > > I have a 3 yr old girl, that we try to teach to be very friendly and happy. She says hi to a lot of people that pass us during the day, and sometimes people hear her and say nothing. It would not take much to just say " HI " back to her. > Most of the time we would just make an excuse for the person that did not answer back. The other day my wife remained calm and told the person that did not respond to her, how impolite it was not to answer back and what she was teaching my daughter by not answering back. This is not only about my doughter, but I think it touched the person, and made them think about the type of person they are. > > So I think that sometimes we need to take a moment to reflect on our anger and what it teaches us. > > Chris and O > www.earthhealingcry stals.com > > Check Out Our New Enlightenment Center > www.earthhealingenl ightenment. org > > > > CrystalHealing- workshop, John Van Rees <john@> wrote: > > > > Chris, > > > > Citrine is a 3rd Chakra Stone... seat of the will. I would ask if you do > > not deal with anger? Many > > people on a spiritual path feel it is not " spiritual " to be angry. That > > is not true. Anger unexpressed > > turns into depression. Out of control anger is another thing altogether. > > > > It would seem to me that perhaps the citrine is helping you move stuck > > energy in the will center > > which could feel like or express as anger if you are not used to dealing > > with this energy. This is > > good energy.. it helps to move us forward and also helps to protect us > > in times > > of danger. > > > > Just my thoughts Chris. > > > > In gratitude, > > > > John Van Rees > > http://www.exquisit ecrystals. com > > > > > > > citrine seems to bring out a great amount of anger within me , > > > > > > does anyone else feel this way ? > > > > > > -Chris > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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