Guest guest Posted April 20, 2004 Report Share Posted April 20, 2004 Metaphor for Illness or Symptom ... What is Metaphor? We believe that there is a link between the mind and the symptoms and illnesses that our bodies express. The link that we use to examine the body through the mind is metaphor. This works because we are story-telling creatures and everything in our lives is part of our story. With our physical symptoms our mind is telling a specific story. Our mind interprets the type of symptom that we have, describes the physiological dynamic that is going on and all of this has a certain meaning to us. This is our story about our body. This all means that we can look at the body as a script that the mind is writing. We do this by identifying and interpreting the metaphor that underlies the physical symptoms that we express. There are many important aspects to examine with each metaphor such as the part of the body affected, the type of symptom that is being expressed, the medical dynamic causing the illness, duration of the problem etc. By interpreting the story that the body is writing we can find the underlying psychological process of the mind. This is how the use of metaphor gives us insight into healing the body through the mind. Anorexia Nervosa Anorexia nervosa involves a great fear of obesity and harbours self-attack, because we believe we are overweight. This condition leads to extreme loss of appetite and a lack of eating that eventually starve the body. Anorexia nervosa is believed to be a psychological condition in which the progressive loss of appetite can lead to death. It is the result of lost bonding, distorted perception and a need for love as well as self-acceptance. Anorexia comes from a dissociated form of independence, while paradoxically having the need of approval and specialness. These feelings stem from the belief that we are unloved and unacceptable, and therefore, we create self-judgement, self-rejection and self-attack. We are caught by societal norms that have become distorted and exaggerated. We are harrowed with feelings of inferiority and the need for acceptance. We are experiencing a crisis in self-esteem, and at the same time we are perfectionists. Feeling we have no value, we desperately need love, yet are not able to receive it. We feel such a lack of self-worth while being cut off from ourselves that we do not allow ourselves to have food, the metaphor for love and nurturing. Both anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa are a destructive form of calling attention to ourselves and trying to get love. In both cases there is unresolved feelings of shame about ourselves and our bodies, so we take on false societal values and carry them to an extreme. View Dynamic >With any given illness or symptom there can be many different dynamics at work, and there are, at times, layers of healing to accomplish. Often one dynamic will be more prevalent than another and it is this that we want to show as we explore some of the body systems and their symptoms. For this reason the system will randomly select the most prevalent or available dynamic that is at work with your particular illness or symptom, leaving it up to the universe to identify it. The metaphor of the illness or symptom helps to guide us to some of the prevalent issues that are at work. The illness dynamics become very useful tools in identifying the most effective healing method to use. Sacrifice Every illness is a form of sacrifice. It is a place where we are sacrificing ourselves to achieve a certain end. Sometimes we embrace sacrifice as we take on mistaken beliefs about the helpfulness of being a martyr or one who sacrifices. We may hurt ourselves to try and save others. This may be part of our religious up-bringing or a family role we use to attempt to save our family. We think that sacrifice is the highest form of giving, but, instead, it's a role that compensates for guilt and unworthiness. Sacrifice is a psychological mistake meant to trap people; we lose now to win later. In each case, sacrifice hides a fear of intimacy and a fear of equality. It gives, but it doesn't receive, which leads to burnout. It is acting out of a role, which is doing the right thing for the wrong reason. Many times it's an attempt to save others by harming ourselves when everything could have been accomplished through truth or grace, without anyone having to lose. Unfortunately, sacrifice doesn't work, and it rarely saves others because it is a psychological trap. In sacrifice we have an excuse to avoid our own purpose and destiny in the guise of helping others. The Healing Principles bring the way through for healing. Whatever symptom or illness you are experiencing, applying one or more of these healing principles to it will help with the healing process. The Healing exercise will assist you in applying the healing principle that will be the most effective for you today. If you feel inspired you can work through more than one healing principle. Click here for the healing principle that will be most helpful for you today. Choice Choice, one of the great powers and gifts of the mind, is that which creates our experience, and at the deepest levels, even our reality. The mind continuously has thoughts about what we want, all of which, at the deepest level, is a choice. We have hundreds of thoughts per minute, many of them idle wishes or mistaken choices, and we are aware of so very few of them. All of these thoughts have the power of choice and program our mind and world accordingly. Many negative choices are made in a spilt-second and immediately repressed, so when negative conditions such as our illness, show up, we have forgotten we made the choice. There is always some kind of mistaken agenda at the bottom of every negative choice. Sometimes we think we would get something, or we think something would make us happy. We not only deny we made the choice, we would deny that we had the power of choice to begin with. It not only makes us hapless pilgrims, open to all the mishaps and misadventures that can occur in life, but is also puts us in a weak and reactive stance. This denies the central place that choice has in our lives, and it makes us afraid of our minds, our power and ourselves. The mind is most open just as we go to sleep and as we wake up. At these times, we are less distracted and able to make stronger choices, which build our lives in a powerful way. Of course, we can do this anytime of the night or day. When we are struggling with our own or a loved ones illness, we can continuously make new choices for health. As there can be many layers of pain or illusion generating a certain illness, we may need to choose for the healing of our fear and for health every time we think of the situation. This is a great deal more effective than the fear, worry and depression we feel about the illness. Healing Exercise - Choice It's time to make a new choice about your illness. .. What is the new healing choice you want to make? .. Make this choice when you first wake up in the morning and as the last thing at night before you go to sleep. Include this choice at any other time that it comes into your mind. .. Every choice you make about wellness and the healing of your illness can help. It is especially helpful to choose to resolve any fear, anger, guilt and conflict you may be experiencing that can cause the illness.Janie Patrick and Chuck Spezzano ·.»§« ·´¯`·.,¸¸,.·´¯`·.»§« please include ss tag thank you·.»§« ·´¯`·.,¸¸,.·´¯`·.»§« © Spiritually_Speaking spiritually_speaking- : ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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