Guest guest Report post Posted November 21, 2009 Dear Mandakini ~ this is so true, and I am my own worst enemy. Not only do I judge myself all the time, but anytime someone says something hurtful to me about myself, or even just gets mad at me, I just immediately assume they are right and I am bad. Not a good place to be stuck for so long. Your post gave me a new way to look at these judgmental situations. Thank you ~ Linda Jai Maa Jai Swamiji Mandakini wrote: One thing I have found useful in my path is if I am hurt by some one I think - is what they said about me true - if it is then how can I change it. If it is not then it is their stuff and none of my business. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites