Clarification On Few Doubts..

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Respected Swamin.

 

Namaskaram.

 

I would be thankful for clarifications on few of my doubts my close friend has?

 

a) His aged mother is very critical & living in Lord's mercy in pain & her own

pleasure, Can a proposed marriage of his son be conducted on scheduled date -

even if anything untoward happens just prior to the date of marriage - OR should

it be postponed? When is the earliest new date be reconsidered & be Appropriate?

The point is he is the only son to do the anthima samskaram through!

 

 

 

b)� If he has to be doing the necessary� Samskaram in the event of bad luck,

is it required that some one else take� the officiating responsibility for

conduction of his son's marriage?

 

 

c)� Since his son is coming on a short leave from US, touching Chennai on

December 01, 2009, can an Upanayanam be done between December 3 & December 11,

2009 - before the Marriage in the month of Thai OR can the Upanayanam & Marriage

be done simultaneously in the month of Thai.

 

 

 

Thanks.

 

SreeramanTS or

SreeramanTS

 

Sri:

 

a) *** From (including) the date of death; 12th day (if not Ekadasi)

Sapindikaranam and 13th day Subhasweekaram, after the completion of

Subhasweekaram the marriage can be fixed in the nearest next muhurtham.

 

b)*** No need to officiate some one; He himself can perform the Vradham for his

son, though he is the kartha.

 

c) *** Either of the option can be done according to the practical availability

of resources like place (mandap), vadhyar, cook, relatives cooperation etc.

 

nvs