Mr Anshev .... Marital hapiness

March 6, 2005

Dear Anshev,

Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes marital

unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the ages of 17 –

34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It becomes

all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th house.

If you were married during this time period then there will always be

a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years after

marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are likely to

increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and her

objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or developing

close relationship with any of her male relations , such an affinity

might cause pain and misery.

To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done during the

daylight hours.

[ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper lid.

Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } and throw

it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah }

[ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible } in

India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or a

sadhu .

Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them to a

temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the house ,

rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove it .

I hope these upaya help you.

Sincerely,

Priya

lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote:

>

> Dear Priya ji,

>

> Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking forever to

> arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your analysis.

>

> Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this chart from

> Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order to have

> happiness and stability in marriage.

>

> The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind while

> suggesting any remedies.

>

> DOB: 11 Nov 1969

> Time: 3:00 PM (Approx)

> Place of birth: Delhi, India

>

> Much appreciated,

> Anshev

>

> lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Anshev ji,

> >

> > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the e-book

> > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will soon

get

> > the hang of it.

> >

> > Affly,

> >

> > Priya

> >

March 7, 2005

Dear Priya ji,

Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You are very

helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with those who

would like to learn as well. May God bless you !

The native lives in America with his close relatives (parents and

sister) living in the same city. Native married an American girl

when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is there a

possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies you

suggested help overcome that possibility?

I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only once

(except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is there

something that can be done every once in a while for peace,

happiness and harmony?

Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7 rotis

remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis who

visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be donated to

them.

[1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does the lid

need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents or Sabut

Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river?

[3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given to the

native's parents who live in a separate section of the same house

(duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's house as

well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ? Native

also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be Ok ?

[4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can be

opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables (wires),

water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such?

I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd be great

if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies so

others and I can learn from it as well.

Regards,

Anshev B Bhardwejj

lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

<bhooshanpriya> wrote:

>

> Dear Anshev,

>

> Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes marital

> unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the ages of

17 –

> 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It becomes

> all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th

house.

> If you were married during this time period then there will always

be

> a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years after

> marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are likely to

> increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and her

> objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or

developing

> close relationship with any of her male relations , such an

affinity

> might cause pain and misery.

>

> To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done during

the

> daylight hours.

>

> [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper lid.

> Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } and

throw

> it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah }

>

> [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible } in

> India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or a

> sadhu .

>

> Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them to a

> temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the

house ,

> rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove it .

>

> I hope these upaya help you.

>

> Sincerely,

>

> Priya

>

lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Priya ji,

> >

> > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking forever

to

> > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your analysis.

> >

> > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this chart

from

> > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order to

have

> > happiness and stability in marriage.

> >

> > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind while

> > suggesting any remedies.

> >

> > DOB: 11 Nov 1969

> > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx)

> > Place of birth: Delhi, India

> >

> > Much appreciated,

> > Anshev

> >

> > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > >

> > > Dear Anshev ji,

> > >

> > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the e-

book

> > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will soon

> get

> > > the hang of it.

> > >

> > > Affly,

> > >

> > > Priya

> > >

March 8, 2005

Dear Anshev,

I have written the answers in brackets after your query.

Affly,

Priya

lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote:

>

> Dear Priya ji,

>

> Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You are very

> helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with those

who

> would like to learn as well. May God bless you !

>

> The native lives in America with his close relatives (parents and

> sister) living in the same city. Native married an American girl

> when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is there a

> possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies you

> suggested help overcome that possibility?

>

[ Since you seem to have already ordered the Lal Kitab book , you

could read the section dealing with those three planets, and

understand the implications. On my part, I have used some

understatements . However, I donot think that the matters could go

to that extreme. The remedy suggested should take care of all the

eventualities , so I believe ]

> I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only once

> (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is there

> something that can be done every once in a while for peace,

> happiness and harmony?

[ Yes. The upaya suggested is a one time upaya. If you think that

matters are going out of control , you could do this upaya. At night

after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should be

extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas burner should

not be used again till the next morning. ]

>

> Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7 rotis

> remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis who

> visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be donated to

> them.

[ Sure, you could do that ]

>

> [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does the lid

> need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents or

Sabut

> Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river?

[ Yes, it would be better ]

>

> [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given to the

> native's parents who live in a separate section of the same house

> (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's house as

> well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ? Native

> also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be Ok ?

>

[ There should be no idols in the area you live in, the parents can

have them. There is no bar on photographs. ]

> [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can be

> opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables

(wires),

> water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such?

[ There is a restriction on ropes ,niwar { used in cots} , but no

harm if we extend it to cables and pipes; but not the sewing thread ]

>

> I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd be

great

> if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies so

> others and I can learn from it as well.

>

[ I avoid getting into it , because each Lal Kitab scholar has his

own interpretation and rationale. In the past there has been a lot of

bad blood in the group for these reasons. I would like to avoid that]

> Regards,

> Anshev B Bhardwejj

>

> lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Anshev,

> >

> > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes marital

> > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the ages of

> 17 –

> > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It

becomes

> > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th

> house.

> > If you were married during this time period then there will

always

> be

> > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years after

> > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are likely

to

> > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and her

> > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or

> developing

> > close relationship with any of her male relations , such an

> affinity

> > might cause pain and misery.

> >

> > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done during

> the

> > daylight hours.

> >

> > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper

lid.

> > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } and

> throw

> > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah }

> >

> > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible } in

> > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or a

> > sadhu .

> >

> > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them to a

> > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the

> house ,

> > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove it .

> >

> > I hope these upaya help you.

> >

> > Sincerely,

> >

> > Priya

> >

> > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote:

> > >

> > > Dear Priya ji,

> > >

> > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking forever

> to

> > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your analysis.

> > >

> > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this chart

> from

> > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order to

> have

> > > happiness and stability in marriage.

> > >

> > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind while

> > > suggesting any remedies.

> > >

> > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969

> > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx)

> > > Place of birth: Delhi, India

> > >

> > > Much appreciated,

> > > Anshev

> > >

> > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Dear Anshev ji,

> > > >

> > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the e-

> book

> > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will

soon

> > get

> > > > the hang of it.

> > > >

> > > > Affly,

> > > >

> > > > Priya

> > > >

March 9, 2005

Namaskar Priya ji,

Thanks for clarifying the dobts and for suggesting an SOS remedy.

Re: the following remedy:

[ ... At night after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire

should be extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas

burner should not be used again till the next morning. ]

It's certainly doable but we'd have to improvise on this one as

there are no gas stoves but electrical stoves. After the knob has

been turned off, few drops of milk can be sprinkled on the burner

and left alone for the night. Hope that would suffice. Please

confirm.

Also, I understand that this remedy should only be done at night,

not during the day. right ?

Regards,

Anshev

lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

<bhooshanpriya> wrote:

>

> Dear Anshev,

>

> I have written the answers in brackets after your query.

>

> Affly,

>

> Priya

>

lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Priya ji,

> >

> > Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You are

very

> > helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with those

> who

> > would like to learn as well. May God bless you !

> >

> > The native lives in America with his close relatives (parents

and

> > sister) living in the same city. Native married an American girl

> > when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is

there a

> > possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies you

> > suggested help overcome that possibility?

> >

>

> [ Since you seem to have already ordered the Lal Kitab book ,

you

> could read the section dealing with those three planets, and

> understand the implications. On my part, I have used some

> understatements . However, I donot think that the matters could

go

> to that extreme. The remedy suggested should take care of all the

> eventualities , so I believe ]

> I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only

once

> > (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is there

> > something that can be done every once in a while for peace,

> > happiness and harmony?

>

> [ Yes. The upaya suggested is a one time upaya. If you think that

> matters are going out of control , you could do this upaya. At

night

> after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should be

> extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas burner

should

> not be used again till the next morning. ]

>

> >

> > Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7

rotis

> > remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis who

> > visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be donated

to

> > them.

>

> [ Sure, you could do that ]

>

> >

> > [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does the

lid

> > need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents or

> Sabut

> > Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river?

>

> [ Yes, it would be better ]

>

> >

> > [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given to

the

> > native's parents who live in a separate section of the same

house

> > (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's house

as

> > well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ? Native

> > also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be Ok ?

> >

>

> [ There should be no idols in the area you live in, the parents

can

> have them. There is no bar on photographs. ]

>

> > [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can be

> > opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables

> (wires),

> > water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such?

>

> [ There is a restriction on ropes ,niwar { used in cots} , but no

> harm if we extend it to cables and pipes; but not the sewing

thread ]

>

> >

> > I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd be

> great

> > if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies so

> > others and I can learn from it as well.

> >

>

> [ I avoid getting into it , because each Lal Kitab scholar has his

> own interpretation and rationale. In the past there has been a lot

of

> bad blood in the group for these reasons. I would like to avoid

that]

> Regards,

> > Anshev B Bhardwejj

> >

> > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > >

> > > Dear Anshev,

> > >

> > > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes marital

> > > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the ages

of

> > 17 –

> > > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It

> becomes

> > > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th

> > house.

> > > If you were married during this time period then there will

> always

> > be

> > > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years

after

> > > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are

likely

> to

> > > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and

her

> > > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or

> > developing

> > > close relationship with any of her male relations , such an

> > affinity

> > > might cause pain and misery.

> > >

> > > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done

during

> > the

> > > daylight hours.

> > >

> > > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper

> lid.

> > > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong } and

> > throw

> > > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah }

> > >

> > > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible }

in

> > > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or

a

> > > sadhu .

> > >

> > > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them to

a

> > > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the

> > house ,

> > > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove

it .

> > >

> > > I hope these upaya help you.

> > >

> > > Sincerely,

> > >

> > > Priya

> > >

> > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb>

wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Dear Priya ji,

> > > >

> > > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking

forever

> > to

> > > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your

analysis.

> > > >

> > > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this

chart

> > from

> > > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order to

> > have

> > > > happiness and stability in marriage.

> > > >

> > > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind while

> > > > suggesting any remedies.

> > > >

> > > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969

> > > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx)

> > > > Place of birth: Delhi, India

> > > >

> > > > Much appreciated,

> > > > Anshev

> > > >

> > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Dear Anshev ji,

> > > > >

> > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the e-

> > book

> > > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will

> soon

> > > get

> > > > > the hang of it.

> > > > >

> > > > > Affly,

> > > > >

> > > > > Priya

> > > > >

March 9, 2005

Dear Anshev,

Yes , you could sprinkle a few drops of milk on the hot plate. And

yes this is to be done at night. The remedy is an improvisation of '

dudh se chulha bujhana'.

affly,

priya

lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote:

>

> Namaskar Priya ji,

>

> Thanks for clarifying the dobts and for suggesting an SOS remedy.

> Re: the following remedy:

>

> [ ... At night after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire

> should be extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas

> burner should not be used again till the next morning. ]

>

> It's certainly doable but we'd have to improvise on this one as

> there are no gas stoves but electrical stoves. After the knob has

> been turned off, few drops of milk can be sprinkled on the burner

> and left alone for the night. Hope that would suffice. Please

> confirm.

>

> Also, I understand that this remedy should only be done at night,

> not during the day. right ?

>

> Regards,

> Anshev

>

> lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Anshev,

> >

> > I have written the answers in brackets after your query.

> >

> > Affly,

> >

> > Priya

> >

> > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote:

> > >

> > > Dear Priya ji,

> > >

> > > Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You are

> very

> > > helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with

those

> > who

> > > would like to learn as well. May God bless you !

> > >

> > > The native lives in America with his close relatives (parents

> and

> > > sister) living in the same city. Native married an American

girl

> > > when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is

> there a

> > > possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies

you

> > > suggested help overcome that possibility?

> > >

> >

> > [ Since you seem to have already ordered the Lal Kitab book ,

> you

> > could read the section dealing with those three planets, and

> > understand the implications. On my part, I have used some

> > understatements . However, I donot think that the matters could

> go

> > to that extreme. The remedy suggested should take care of all the

> > eventualities , so I believe ]

> >

> > > I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only

> once

> > > (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is there

> > > something that can be done every once in a while for peace,

> > > happiness and harmony?

> >

> > [ Yes. The upaya suggested is a one time upaya. If you think that

> > matters are going out of control , you could do this upaya. At

> night

> > after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should be

> > extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas burner

> should

> > not be used again till the next morning. ]

> >

> > >

> > > Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7

> rotis

> > > remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis who

> > > visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be donated

> to

> > > them.

> >

> > [ Sure, you could do that ]

> >

> > >

> > > [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does the

> lid

> > > need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents or

> > Sabut

> > > Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river?

> >

> > [ Yes, it would be better ]

> >

> > >

> > > [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given to

> the

> > > native's parents who live in a separate section of the same

> house

> > > (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's house

> as

> > > well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ?

Native

> > > also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be

Ok ?

> > >

> >

> > [ There should be no idols in the area you live in, the parents

> can

> > have them. There is no bar on photographs. ]

> >

> > > [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can be

> > > opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables

> > (wires),

> > > water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such?

> >

> > [ There is a restriction on ropes ,niwar { used in cots} , but no

> > harm if we extend it to cables and pipes; but not the sewing

> thread ]

> >

> > >

> > > I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd be

> > great

> > > if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies so

> > > others and I can learn from it as well.

> > >

> >

> > [ I avoid getting into it , because each Lal Kitab scholar has

his

> > own interpretation and rationale. In the past there has been a

lot

> of

> > bad blood in the group for these reasons. I would like to avoid

> that]

> >

> > > Regards,

> > > Anshev B Bhardwejj

> > >

> > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Dear Anshev,

> > > >

> > > > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes

marital

> > > > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the

ages

> of

> > > 17 –

> > > > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It

> > becomes

> > > > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the 8th

> > > house.

> > > > If you were married during this time period then there will

> > always

> > > be

> > > > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years

> after

> > > > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are

> likely

> > to

> > > > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language, and

> her

> > > > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or

> > > developing

> > > > close relationship with any of her male relations , such an

> > > affinity

> > > > might cause pain and misery.

> > > >

> > > > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done

> during

> > > the

> > > > daylight hours.

> > > >

> > > > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a copper

> > lid.

> > > > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong }

and

> > > throw

> > > > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah }

> > > >

> > > > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if possible }

> in

> > > > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir or

> a

> > > > sadhu .

> > > >

> > > > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove them

to

> a

> > > > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in the

> > > house ,

> > > > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove

> it .

> > > >

> > > > I hope these upaya help you.

> > > >

> > > > Sincerely,

> > > >

> > > > Priya

> > > >

> > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb>

> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Dear Priya ji,

> > > > >

> > > > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking

> forever

> > > to

> > > > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your

> analysis.

> > > > >

> > > > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this

> chart

> > > from

> > > > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in order

to

> > > have

> > > > > happiness and stability in marriage.

> > > > >

> > > > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind

while

> > > > > suggesting any remedies.

> > > > >

> > > > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969

> > > > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx)

> > > > > Place of birth: Delhi, India

> > > > >

> > > > > Much appreciated,

> > > > > Anshev

> > > > >

> > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Dear Anshev ji,

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only the

e-

> > > book

> > > > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You will

> > soon

> > > > get

> > > > > > the hang of it.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Affly,

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Priya

> > > > > >

March 12, 2005

Namaskar Priya ji,

Re: the copper Ghara upaya you suggested, we're having trouble

finding a copper ghara here, even in the Indian stores... It'd have

to be special ordered from India or elsewhere and may take a while.

Moreover, most of the rivers are frozen and canals have been stopped

due to winter.. It'd be difficult to do this upaya at least until

snow melts (until summer)...

There is a canal near the native's house (running water) but only

one small slot has been opened to let excess water out...so a small

thing can be thrown (like coins, food items etc.) but a big Ghada

cannot be thrown at the moment.

Is there another alternative to this upaya that can be done in

US/Canada ? Meanwhile, native's Chacha/Mausi can be asked to do

these two upayas on native's behalf in Delhi (would that suffice?)

1. Copper Ghara filled with Sabut moong to be thrown in running

water.

2. Giving 7 rotis to a sadhu/fakir.

Anshev

lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

<bhooshanpriya> wrote:

>

> Dear Anshev,

>

> Yes , you could sprinkle a few drops of milk on the hot plate. And

> yes this is to be done at night. The remedy is an improvisation

of '

> dudh se chulha bujhana'.

>

> affly,

>

> priya

lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote:

> >

> > Namaskar Priya ji,

> >

> > Thanks for clarifying the dobts and for suggesting an SOS

remedy.

> > Re: the following remedy:

> >

> > [ ... At night after the food has been cooked , the gas burner

fire

> > should be extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That

gas

> > burner should not be used again till the next morning. ]

> >

> > It's certainly doable but we'd have to improvise on this one as

> > there are no gas stoves but electrical stoves. After the knob

has

> > been turned off, few drops of milk can be sprinkled on the

burner

> > and left alone for the night. Hope that would suffice. Please

> > confirm.

> >

> > Also, I understand that this remedy should only be done at

night,

> > not during the day. right ?

> >

> > Regards,

> > Anshev

> >

> > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > >

> > > Dear Anshev,

> > >

> > > I have written the answers in brackets after your query.

> > >

> > > Affly,

> > >

> > > Priya

> > >

> > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb>

wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Dear Priya ji,

> > > >

> > > > Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You

are

> > very

> > > > helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with

> those

> > > who

> > > > would like to learn as well. May God bless you !

> > > >

> > > > The native lives in America with his close relatives

(parents

> > and

> > > > sister) living in the same city. Native married an American

> girl

> > > > when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is

> > there a

> > > > possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the remedies

> you

> > > > suggested help overcome that possibility?

> > > >

> > >

> > > [ Since you seem to have already ordered the Lal Kitab

book ,

> > you

> > > could read the section dealing with those three planets, and

> > > understand the implications. On my part, I have used some

> > > understatements . However, I donot think that the matters

could

> > go

> > > to that extreme. The remedy suggested should take care of all

the

> > > eventualities , so I believe ]

> > >

> > > > I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done only

> > once

> > > > (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is

there

> > > > something that can be done every once in a while for peace,

> > > > happiness and harmony?

> > >

> > > [ Yes. The upaya suggested is a one time upaya. If you think

that

> > > matters are going out of control , you could do this upaya. At

> > night

> > > after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should be

> > > extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas burner

> > should

> > > not be used again till the next morning. ]

> > >

> > > >

> > > > Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7

> > rotis

> > > > remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis

who

> > > > visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be

donated

> > to

> > > > them.

> > >

> > > [ Sure, you could do that ]

> > >

> > > >

> > > > [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does

the

> > lid

> > > > need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents

or

> > > Sabut

> > > > Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river?

> > >

> > > [ Yes, it would be better ]

> > >

> > > >

> > > > [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be given

to

> > the

> > > > native's parents who live in a separate section of the same

> > house

> > > > (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's

house

> > as

> > > > well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ?

> Native

> > > > also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they be

> Ok ?

> > > >

> > >

> > > [ There should be no idols in the area you live in, the

parents

> > can

> > > have them. There is no bar on photographs. ]

> > >

> > > > [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can

be

> > > > opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables

> > > (wires),

> > > > water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such?

> > >

> > > [ There is a restriction on ropes ,niwar { used in cots} , but

no

> > > harm if we extend it to cables and pipes; but not the sewing

> > thread ]

> > >

> > > >

> > > > I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd

be

> > > great

> > > > if you could explain your rationale of analysis and remedies

so

> > > > others and I can learn from it as well.

> > > >

> > >

> > > [ I avoid getting into it , because each Lal Kitab scholar has

> his

> > > own interpretation and rationale. In the past there has been a

> lot

> > of

> > > bad blood in the group for these reasons. I would like to

avoid

> > that]

> > >

> > > > Regards,

> > > > Anshev B Bhardwejj

> > > >

> > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Dear Anshev,

> > > > >

> > > > > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes

> marital

> > > > > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the

> ages

> > of

> > > > 17 –

> > > > > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury . It

> > > becomes

> > > > > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the

8th

> > > > house.

> > > > > If you were married during this time period then there

will

> > > always

> > > > be

> > > > > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three years

> > after

> > > > > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are

> > likely

> > > to

> > > > > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language,

and

> > her

> > > > > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or

> > > > developing

> > > > > close relationship with any of her male relations , such

an

> > > > affinity

> > > > > might cause pain and misery.

> > > > >

> > > > > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done

> > during

> > > > the

> > > > > daylight hours.

> > > > >

> > > > > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a

copper

> > > lid.

> > > > > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole moong }

> and

> > > > throw

> > > > > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah }

> > > > >

> > > > > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if

possible }

> > in

> > > > > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a faqir

or

> > a

> > > > > sadhu .

> > > > >

> > > > > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove

them

> to

> > a

> > > > > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in

the

> > > > house ,

> > > > > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove

> > it .

> > > > >

> > > > > I hope these upaya help you.

> > > > >

> > > > > Sincerely,

> > > > >

> > > > > Priya

> > > > >

> > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb>

> > wrote:

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Dear Priya ji,

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking

> > forever

> > > > to

> > > > > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your

> > analysis.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this

> > chart

> > > > from

> > > > > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in

order

> to

> > > > have

> > > > > > happiness and stability in marriage.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind

> while

> > > > > > suggesting any remedies.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969

> > > > > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx)

> > > > > > Place of birth: Delhi, India

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Much appreciated,

> > > > > > Anshev

> > > > > >

> > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > > > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Dear Anshev ji,

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only

the

> e-

> > > > book

> > > > > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You

will

> > > soon

> > > > > get

> > > > > > > the hang of it.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Affly,

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Priya

> > > > > > >

March 13, 2005

Dear Anshev,

I am afraid there is no alternative to these remedies. You could do

them as and when possible.

sincerely,

Priya

lalkitab , " Anshev B Bhardwejj " <anshevb>

wrote:

>

> Namaskar Priya ji,

>

> Re: the copper Ghara upaya you suggested, we're having trouble

> finding a copper ghara here, even in the Indian stores... It'd have

> to be special ordered from India or elsewhere and may take a while.

> Moreover, most of the rivers are frozen and canals have been

stopped

> due to winter.. It'd be difficult to do this upaya at least until

> snow melts (until summer)...

>

> There is a canal near the native's house (running water) but only

> one small slot has been opened to let excess water out...so a small

> thing can be thrown (like coins, food items etc.) but a big Ghada

> cannot be thrown at the moment.

>

> Is there another alternative to this upaya that can be done in

> US/Canada ? Meanwhile, native's Chacha/Mausi can be asked to do

> these two upayas on native's behalf in Delhi (would that suffice?)

>

> 1. Copper Ghara filled with Sabut moong to be thrown in running

> water.

> 2. Giving 7 rotis to a sadhu/fakir.

>

> Anshev

>

> lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Anshev,

> >

> > Yes , you could sprinkle a few drops of milk on the hot plate.

And

> > yes this is to be done at night. The remedy is an improvisation

> of '

> > dudh se chulha bujhana'.

> >

> > affly,

> >

> > priya

> >

> > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb> wrote:

> > >

> > > Namaskar Priya ji,

> > >

> > > Thanks for clarifying the dobts and for suggesting an SOS

> remedy.

> > > Re: the following remedy:

> > >

> > > [ ... At night after the food has been cooked , the gas burner

> fire

> > > should be extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That

> gas

> > > burner should not be used again till the next morning. ]

> > >

> > > It's certainly doable but we'd have to improvise on this one as

> > > there are no gas stoves but electrical stoves. After the knob

> has

> > > been turned off, few drops of milk can be sprinkled on the

> burner

> > > and left alone for the night. Hope that would suffice. Please

> > > confirm.

> > >

> > > Also, I understand that this remedy should only be done at

> night,

> > > not during the day. right ?

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Anshev

> > >

> > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Dear Anshev,

> > > >

> > > > I have written the answers in brackets after your query.

> > > >

> > > > Affly,

> > > >

> > > > Priya

> > > >

> > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb>

> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Dear Priya ji,

> > > > >

> > > > > Thanks for your analysis and for suggesting remedies. You

> are

> > > very

> > > > > helpful for the needy and share your knowledge freely with

> > those

> > > > who

> > > > > would like to learn as well. May God bless you !

> > > > >

> > > > > The native lives in America with his close relatives

> (parents

> > > and

> > > > > sister) living in the same city. Native married an American

> > girl

> > > > > when he was around 30 years old. According to Lal Kitab, is

> > > there a

> > > > > possibility of separation/divorce? If so, would the

remedies

> > you

> > > > > suggested help overcome that possibility?

> > > > >

> > > >

> > > > [ Since you seem to have already ordered the Lal Kitab

> book ,

> > > you

> > > > could read the section dealing with those three planets, and

> > > > understand the implications. On my part, I have used some

> > > > understatements . However, I donot think that the matters

> could

> > > go

> > > > to that extreme. The remedy suggested should take care of all

> the

> > > > eventualities , so I believe ]

> > > >

> > > > > I'm assuming the remedies you suggested need to be done

only

> > > once

> > > > > (except the cautions Re: idols and ropes and strings). Is

> there

> > > > > something that can be done every once in a while for peace,

> > > > > happiness and harmony?

> > > >

> > > > [ Yes. The upaya suggested is a one time upaya. If you think

> that

> > > > matters are going out of control , you could do this upaya.

At

> > > night

> > > > after the food has been cooked , the gas burner fire should

be

> > > > extinguished by spinkling a little milk on it. That gas

burner

> > > should

> > > > not be used again till the next morning. ]

> > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > Only uncles and aunts live in India. Can they perform the 7

> > > rotis

> > > > > remedy on native's behalf ? Native also knows some Sanyasis

> who

> > > > > visit America every now and then. The rotis can also be

> donated

> > > to

> > > > > them.

> > > >

> > > > [ Sure, you could do that ]

> > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > [1] The copper GhaDa (pitcher) remedy you suggested.. Does

> the

> > > lid

> > > > > need to snap on tightly or tied with a rope so the contents

> or

> > > > Sabut

> > > > > Mung daal cannot come out when immersed in the river?

> > > >

> > > > [ Yes, it would be better ]

> > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > [3] There is a shivling at native's house. That can be

given

> to

> > > the

> > > > > native's parents who live in a separate section of the same

> > > house

> > > > > (duplex). Would that be Okay or all idols in the native's

> house

> > > as

> > > > > well as parent's house have to be removed to the temple ?

> > Native

> > > > > also has some photographs of his guru at home. Would they

be

> > Ok ?

> > > > >

> > > >

> > > > [ There should be no idols in the area you live in, the

> parents

> > > can

> > > > have them. There is no bar on photographs. ]

> > > >

> > > > > [4] Ropes and strings that have been roller up and tied can

> be

> > > > > opened. Is there any such restriction for electrical cables

> > > > (wires),

> > > > > water hoses (pipes), sewing threads and such?

> > > >

> > > > [ There is a restriction on ropes ,niwar { used in cots} ,

but

> no

> > > > harm if we extend it to cables and pipes; but not the sewing

> > > thread ]

> > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > I know it's time consuming as well as takes energy but It'd

> be

> > > > great

> > > > > if you could explain your rationale of analysis and

remedies

> so

> > > > > others and I can learn from it as well.

> > > > >

> > > >

> > > > [ I avoid getting into it , because each Lal Kitab scholar

has

> > his

> > > > own interpretation and rationale. In the past there has been

a

> > lot

> > > of

> > > > bad blood in the group for these reasons. I would like to

> avoid

> > > that]

> > > >

> > > > > Regards,

> > > > > Anshev B Bhardwejj

> > > > >

> > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Dear Anshev,

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Sun , Mercury and Venus combination invariably causes

> > marital

> > > > > > unhappiness specially if the marriage is done between the

> > ages

> > > of

> > > > > 17 –

> > > > > > 34 and there is no help from benefic ketu to mercury .

It

> > > > becomes

> > > > > > all the more miserable if these planets are placed in the

> 8th

> > > > > house.

> > > > > > If you were married during this time period then there

> will

> > > > always

> > > > > be

> > > > > > a danger of accident to your wife for at least three

years

> > > after

> > > > > > marriage. If a daughter is born the marital miseries are

> > > likely

> > > > to

> > > > > > increase , mostly because of her bad temper and language,

> and

> > > her

> > > > > > objectionable behavior. You should avoid entertaining or

> > > > > developing

> > > > > > close relationship with any of her male relations , such

> an

> > > > > affinity

> > > > > > might cause pain and misery.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > To get over these possibilities two upaya are to be done

> > > during

> > > > > the

> > > > > > daylight hours.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > [ 1 ] Take a copper ghara , bigger the better , with a

> copper

> > > > lid.

> > > > > > Fill this copper pitcher with sabut moong { whole

moong }

> > and

> > > > > throw

> > > > > > it into a river or a canal { jal-pravah }

> > > > > >

> > > > > > [ 2 ] Ask any of your blood relations { parents if

> possible }

> > > in

> > > > > > India to gift seven roti { together at a time } to a

faqir

> or

> > > a

> > > > > > sadhu .

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Caution : If you have any pooja idols at home , remove

> them

> > to

> > > a

> > > > > > temple. If you have any ropes or strings lying around in

> the

> > > > > house ,

> > > > > > rolled up in a bundle, either unroll it and use or remove

> > > it .

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I hope these upaya help you.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Sincerely,

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Priya

> > > > > >

> > > > > > lalkitab , " anshevb " <anshevb>

> > > wrote:

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Dear Priya ji,

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Agreed.. I have ordered some books but they are taking

> > > forever

> > > > > to

> > > > > > > arrive...but thanks for giving some insights into your

> > > analysis.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Meanwhile, would you be able to discuss/comment on this

> > > chart

> > > > > from

> > > > > > > Lal Kitab point of view and suggest any remedies in

> order

> > to

> > > > > have

> > > > > > > happiness and stability in marriage.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > The native lives in Americas. Please keep that in mind

> > while

> > > > > > > suggesting any remedies.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > DOB: 11 Nov 1969

> > > > > > > Time: 3:00 PM (Approx)

> > > > > > > Place of birth: Delhi, India

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Much appreciated,

> > > > > > > Anshev

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > lalkitab , " bhooshanpriya "

> > > > > > > <bhooshanpriya> wrote:

> > > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > Dear Anshev ji,

> > > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > I think you should read the Lal Kitab { and not only

> the

> > e-

> > > > > book

> > > > > > > > version }and a few good commentries on the book. You

> will

> > > > soon

> > > > > > get

> > > > > > > > the hang of it.

> > > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > Affly,

> > > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > Priya

> > > > > > > >

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