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for all those people who are into any form of daily/routine mantra jap or any

sadhana just avoid shaking thier hands with other people as much as

possible,such people should greet other people thru a namaskar.i have learnt

this secret from a very intelligent knowledgable guru.thought i share it with u.

after all knowledge is power....

 

Vikrant

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You know something, This is what I was taught by my Guru also. I dont know if

you are doing your sadhana in America or India or somewhere else, but When I was

engaged very rigorously in my practice (in America) I always avoided shaking

hands and other casual contact with people, and I was often responded to with

confusion and sometimes disdain. I felt that people's negative vibes toward me

for not being polite in the way in which they are accusomed to was maybe as

disruptive to my energy as if I were to just not make a big deal out of it and

shake their hand briefly, and reservedly. Also I believe the practice of

refraining from casual contact ie shaking hands, quick hugs to those who are

close to you and so on... would maybe serve to conserve a sadhaka's bhajanon a

metaphysical level, but I feel strongly that it only promotes a mentality of

seperateness in the physical world. Two worlds that are undeniably woven

together.

I am not saying one way is right and the other is wrong, I just wanted to share

some thoughts.

Regards, Rachel

 

 

free_for_blue: free_for_blue: Wed, 6 Feb 2008

14:32:53 -0800 avoiding shaking hands

 

 

 

for all those people who are into any form of daily/routine mantra jap or any

sadhana just avoid shaking thier hands with other people as much as

possible,such people should greet other people thru a namaskar.i have learnt

this secret from a very intelligent knowledgable guru.thought i share it with

u.after all knowledge is power....Vikrant

 

 

 

 

 

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Namaste Vikrant:

 

I have a job where I have to shake people's hands, and it just simply is not

customary here to do namaskar.

 

Vikrant, can you explain a bit more about why people who do jap should not shake

hands with others.

 

Shanti Om!

Shankari

 

Vikrant <free_for_blue wrote: for all

those people who are into any form of daily/routine mantra jap or any sadhana

just avoid shaking thier hands with other people as much as possible,such people

should greet other people thru a namaskar.i have learnt this secret from a very

intelligent knowledgable guru.thought i share it with u.

after all knowledge is power....

 

Vikrant

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Namaste Rachel:

 

I wonder if this has anything to do with the rising of the kundalini energy. I

do know with regular japa over a period of time that a person begins to have

symptoms of rising of the Kundalini (from personal experience). I also read

somewhere that regular japa will do that. (I read that after I began to

experience the kundalini).

 

I don't have a guru that I can see and talk to on a regular basis, but I

sometimes wonder about touching, shaking hands, hugging, or even speaking in

close proximity.

 

Just wondering,

Shankari

 

RACHEL GARCIA <omshantii wrote:

You know something, This is what I was taught by my Guru also. I dont know if

you are doing your sadhana in America or India or somewhere else, but When I was

engaged very rigorously in my practice (in America) I always avoided shaking

hands and other casual contact with people, and I was often responded to with

confusion and sometimes disdain. I felt that people's negative vibes toward me

for not being polite in the way in which they are accusomed to was maybe as

disruptive to my energy as if I were to just not make a big deal out of it and

shake their hand briefly, and reservedly. Also I believe the practice of

refraining from casual contact ie shaking hands, quick hugs to those who are

close to you and so on... would maybe serve to conserve a sadhaka's bhajanon a

metaphysical level, but I feel strongly that it only promotes a mentality of

seperateness in the physical world. Two worlds that are undeniably woven

together.

I am not saying one way is right and the other is wrong, I just wanted to share

some thoughts.

Regards, Rachel

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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EXCELLENT POINT.

 

~Janardana Dasa

 

RACHEL GARCIA <omshantii wrote:

 

You know something, This is what I was taught by my Guru also. I dont know if

you are doing your sadhana in America or India or somewhere else, but When I was

engaged very rigorously in my practice (in America) I always avoided shaking

hands and other casual contact with people, and I was often responded to with

confusion and sometimes disdain. I felt that people's negative vibes toward me

for not being polite in the way in which they are accusomed to was maybe as

disruptive to my energy as if I were to just not make a big deal out of it and

shake their hand briefly, and reservedly. Also I believe the practice of

refraining from casual contact ie shaking hands, quick hugs to those who are

close to you and so on... would maybe serve to conserve a sadhaka's bhajanon a

metaphysical level, but I feel strongly that it only promotes a mentality of

seperateness in the physical world. Two worlds that are undeniably woven

together.

I am not saying one way is right and the other is wrong, I just wanted to share

some thoughts.

Regards, Rachel

 

free_for_blue: free_for_blue: Wed, 6 Feb 2008

14:32:53 -0800 avoiding shaking hands

 

for all those people who are into any form of daily/routine mantra jap or any

sadhana just avoid shaking thier hands with other people as much as

possible,such people should greet other people thru a namaskar.i have learnt

this secret from a very intelligent knowledgable guru.thought i share it with

u.after all knowledge is power....Vikrant

 

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I really would not worry about " losing out " on any energy that

I've " gained " during sadhana by shaking other people's hands. First,

as DB says, why would you want to keep the fruits of your sadhana to

yourself? To be ego-centric aboout the gains of sadhana defeats the

very purpose of sadhana; is that not so?

 

Second, we would all agree that the energy we gain from our sadhana

is divine, and not mechanical. Any form of sincere sadhana opens us

up to divine grace, which then flows in us and through us

constantly. Divine Grace is not a tap that can run dry. So long one

is receptive, it flows through ceaselessly. Sadhaks are but divine

instruments. When you shake hands with a person, do not think of it

as expending " your " energy: it is not yours and it is not limited.

Sadhana does not end when you finish doing your jaap or meditation:

it is a continuous process. Be Her instrument and let Her flow

through you to all Her children.

 

, Shankari Kali

<shankari_kali wrote:

>

> Namaste Vikrant:

>

> I have a job where I have to shake people's hands, and it just

simply is not customary here to do namaskar.

>

> Vikrant, can you explain a bit more about why people who do jap

should not shake hands with others.

>

> Shanti Om!

> Shankari

>

> Vikrant <free_for_blue wrote:

for all those people who are into any form of daily/routine mantra

jap or any sadhana just avoid shaking thier hands with other people

as much as possible,such people should greet other people thru a

namaskar.i have learnt this secret from a very intelligent

knowledgable guru.thought i share it with u.

> after all knowledge is power....

>

> Vikrant

>

>

>

>

>

>

> Never miss a thing. Make your homepage.

>

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Noooooooooo it is very important. Thats why the eskimos greet by rubbing nose

 

 

durgangam <durgangam wrote:

I really would not worry about " losing out " on any energy that

I've " gained " during sadhana by shaking other people's hands. First,

as DB says, why would you want to keep the fruits of your sadhana to

yourself? To be ego-centric aboout the gains of sadhana defeats the

very purpose of sadhana; is that not so?

 

Second, we would all agree that the energy we gain from our sadhana

is divine, and not mechanical. Any form of sincere sadhana opens us

up to divine grace, which then flows in us and through us

constantly. Divine Grace is not a tap that can run dry. So long one

is receptive, it flows through ceaselessly. Sadhaks are but divine

instruments. When you shake hands with a person, do not think of it

as expending " your " energy: it is not yours and it is not limited.

Sadhana does not end when you finish doing your jaap or meditation:

it is a continuous process. Be Her instrument and let Her flow

through you to all Her children.

 

, Shankari Kali

<shankari_kali wrote:

>

> Namaste Vikrant:

>

> I have a job where I have to shake people's hands, and it just

simply is not customary here to do namaskar.

>

> Vikrant, can you explain a bit more about why people who do jap

should not shake hands with others.

>

> Shanti Om!

> Shankari

>

> Vikrant <free_for_blue wrote:

for all those people who are into any form of daily/routine mantra

jap or any sadhana just avoid shaking thier hands with other people

as much as possible,such people should greet other people thru a

namaskar.i have learnt this secret from a very intelligent

knowledgable guru.thought i share it with u.

> after all knowledge is power....

>

> Vikrant

>

>

>

>

>

>

> Never miss a thing. Make your homepage.

>

>

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Dwelling more on Divine Grace aspect stated by DB:

 

Generally, it is said that those in the company of shakthas are

protected. And shakthas or for that matter anyone gifted with divine

grace of ability to do sadhana are warned subconsciously to the bad

vibes existing in the environment.

 

Also, those who get into physical contact and/or close proximity of

those who perform sadhanas are not controlled by any random events

but they are there because they are supposed to be.

 

People who are to be avoided will be kept away, not by conscious

thought and action by the person doing the sadhana, but by that

divine grace itself.

 

For the rest who come into contact with the sadhaka/sadhvi, they are

there because they should be there. Duty of the sadhaka/sadhvi is to

be with them and share the grace as much as GRACE wants to be

transmitted. There is nothing that can be done by limiting personal

contacts etc. There is nothing of one's own to be given and shared -

meaning what has been given is not for you alone. Only thing that is

one's own is the responsibility to do sadhana.

 

kAyEna vAcA manasEndhriyairvA budhdhyathmanA vA prakruthe swabAvAth

karomiyadhyath sakalam parasmai nArayanayEthi samarpayAmi.

 

(Whatever I do with my body, speech, mind, karma, jnana, by nature,

all I submit to paramapurusha Sri Narayana) This is a typical

samarpaNam at the end of sandhyavandhanam which mainly consists of

GAyathri japa. This is also stated in Verse 27 of Soundarya Lahari,

where it says, " Whatever one does, it is an act of worshipping Devi. "

That is one step higher than the sloka quoted above, which in essence

deals with sadhaka and the Divine as two different entities.

 

So as a shaktha, why would one worry about self?

 

 

 

 

, sankara menon <kochu1tz

wrote:

>

> Noooooooooo it is very important. Thats why the eskimos greet by

rubbing nose

>

>

> durgangam <durgangam wrote:

> I really would not worry about " losing out " on any energy

that

> I've " gained " during sadhana by shaking other people's hands.

First,

> as DB says, why would you want to keep the fruits of your sadhana

to

> yourself? To be ego-centric aboout the gains of sadhana defeats the

> very purpose of sadhana; is that not so?

>

> Second, we would all agree that the energy we gain from our sadhana

> is divine, and not mechanical. Any form of sincere sadhana opens us

> up to divine grace, which then flows in us and through us

> constantly. Divine Grace is not a tap that can run dry. So long one

> is receptive, it flows through ceaselessly. Sadhaks are but divine

> instruments. When you shake hands with a person, do not think of it

> as expending " your " energy: it is not yours and it is not limited.

> Sadhana does not end when you finish doing your jaap or meditation:

> it is a continuous process. Be Her instrument and let Her flow

> through you to all Her children.

>

> , Shankari Kali

> <shankari_kali@> wrote:

> >

> > Namaste Vikrant:

> >

> > I have a job where I have to shake people's hands, and it just

> simply is not customary here to do namaskar.

> >

> > Vikrant, can you explain a bit more about why people who do jap

> should not shake hands with others.

> >

> > Shanti Om!

> > Shankari

> >

> > Vikrant <free_for_blue@> wrote:

> for all those people who are into any form of daily/routine mantra

> jap or any sadhana just avoid shaking thier hands with other people

> as much as possible,such people should greet other people thru a

> namaskar.i have learnt this secret from a very intelligent

> knowledgable guru.thought i share it with u.

> > after all knowledge is power....

> >

> > Vikrant

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Never miss a thing. Make your homepage.

> >

> >

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Namaste:

 

Thank you both for sharing these posts. It makes absolute sense, and I agree

with you 100%.

 

Shanti Om,

Shankari

 

ganpra <ganpra wrote: Dwelling

more on Divine Grace aspect stated by DB:

 

Generally, it is said that those in the company of shakthas are

protected. And shakthas or for that matter anyone gifted with divine

grace of ability to do sadhana are warned subconsciously to the bad

vibes existing in the environment.

 

Also, those who get into physical contact and/or close proximity of

those who perform sadhanas are not controlled by any random events

but they are there because they are supposed to be.

 

People who are to be avoided will be kept away, not by conscious

thought and action by the person doing the sadhana, but by that

divine grace itself.

 

[....]

So as a shaktha, why would one worry about self?

 

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yeah, I wonder why my Guru doesnt know this stuff...

 

 

ganpra wrote:

 

Dwelling more on Divine Grace aspect stated by DB: Generally, it is said that

those in the company of shakthas are protected. [....]

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because he has not been to North pole. I tried the nose rubbing stuff and my

conservative algerian colleague slapped me.

 

RACHEL GARCIA <omshantii wrote: yeah, I wonder why my Guru

doesnt know this stuff...

 

ganpra wrote:

 

Dwelling more on Divine Grace aspect stated by DB: Generally, it is said that

those in the company of shakthas are protected. [....]

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Maybe we should start with the famous hand greetings : nanu!

nanu!...

 

now which TV programme was this...

 

 

 

, sankara menon <kochu1tz

wrote:

>

> because he has not been to North pole. I tried the nose rubbing

stuff and my conservative algerian colleague slapped me.

>

> RACHEL GARCIA <omshantii wrote: yeah, I wonder why

my Guru doesnt know this stuff...

>

> ganpra wrote:

>

> Dwelling more on Divine Grace aspect stated by DB: Generally, it

is said that those in the company of shakthas are protected. [....]

>

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" Be Her instrument and let Her flow through you to all Her children. "

 

Wow, this about sums it up! Now LIVING it is of course the point. With Her

grace no doubt it is of course possible. And the rest, as a spiritual

teacher I know in a different tradition might put it, can be left to the

province of the " ritual experts. " There are alas many of those. ;)

 

Jai Ma!

 

 

 

-

" sankara menon " <kochu1tz

 

Thursday, February 07, 2008 10:16 AM

Re: Re: avoiding shaking hands

 

 

> Noooooooooo it is very important. Thats why the eskimos greet by rubbing

nose

>

>

> durgangam <durgangam wrote:

> I really would not worry about " losing out " on any energy that

> I've " gained " during sadhana by shaking other people's hands.

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That would be " Mork and Mindy " with Robin Williams and Pam Dawber.

 

Interestingly, the Nanu gesture is the same as the Vulcan hand salute (turned

sideways) accompanying the phrase " live long and prosper " from StarTrek, which

itself is derivative of a Hebrew hand gesture (mudra) indicating the letter

Shin, or the Fire of Spirit -very similar to the Kundalini- used as a sign of

blessing.

 

namaste

Cliff

 

 

-

NMadasamy

Thursday, February 07, 2008 10:32 PM

Re: avoiding shaking hands

 

 

Maybe we should start with the famous hand greetings : nanu!

nanu!...

 

now which TV programme was this...

 

, sankara menon <kochu1tz

wrote:

>

> because he has not been to North pole. I tried the nose rubbing

stuff and my conservative algerian colleague slapped me.

>

> RACHEL GARCIA <omshantii wrote: yeah, I wonder why

my Guru doesnt know this stuff...

>

> ganpra wrote:

>

> Dwelling more on Divine Grace aspect stated by DB: Generally, it

is said that those in the company of shakthas are protected. [....]

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

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While visiting places of worship and viewing the Deities or after

meeting a elderly or a respected person our hands are automatically

joined together in Namaskar. Namaskar is a Sattva predominant

impression on the Hindu mind, an action that maintains the rich

heritage of Hindu culture. Namaskar is a simple and beautiful act of

expression of divine qualities like devotion, love, respect and

humility that endows one with Divine energy.

 

Nowadays, perhaps due to ignorance about the Science of Spirituality

or the increasing influence of the western culture, many people shake

hands.

 

Why is it not appropriate to shake hands?

 

A Hand Shake tranfers undesirable raja-tama components!

 

In short, in a handshake, the raja-tama components in one person will

get transferred to the other person, thereby lowering his sattvikta

(Purity levels). While practicing Spirituality, our objective is to

perform acts which increase our sattvikta.

 

If at all they do Namaskar by joining their palms, it is done just as

a formality. As the act is not based on faith, the benefit derived

from it is minimal. Along with faith it is essential that every

religious act be correctly performed according to the Science of

Spirituality, so that it gives complete benefit.

 

When meeting someone of the same age-group, do Namaskar by joining

the fingers and placing tips of the thumbs on the Anahat chakra (at

the centre of the chest). This type of Namaskar increases the

spiritual emotion of humility in the embodied soul. Sattva

frequencies from the universe are attracted by the fingers (which act

as an antenna) and are then transmitted to the entire body through

the thumbs which have awakened the Anahat chakra. This activates the

soul energy of the embodied soul. In addition, by doing Namaskar in

this manner to each other, frequencies of blessings are also

transmitted.

 

(Reference: Sanatan's Publication - 'The Correct Methods of doing

Namaskar')

 

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Aha! now the whole thing make sense..... LOL

 

So that is..... this will be SS official greetings : Nanu! Nanu!

 

 

 

, " Cliff " <numinae wrote:

>

> That would be " Mork and Mindy " with Robin Williams and Pam Dawber.

>

> Interestingly, the Nanu gesture is the same as the Vulcan hand

salute (turned sideways) accompanying the phrase " live long and

prosper " from StarTrek, which itself is derivative of a Hebrew hand

gesture (mudra) indicating the letter Shin, or the Fire of Spirit -

very similar to the Kundalini- used as a sign of blessing.

>

> namaste

> Cliff

>

>

> -

> NMadasamy

>

> Thursday, February 07, 2008 10:32 PM

> Re: avoiding shaking hands

>

>

> Maybe we should start with the famous hand greetings : nanu!

> nanu!...

>

> now which TV programme was this...

>

> , sankara menon <kochu1tz@>

> wrote:

> >

> > because he has not been to North pole. I tried the nose

rubbing

> stuff and my conservative algerian colleague slapped me.

> >

> > RACHEL GARCIA <omshantii@> wrote: yeah, I wonder why

> my Guru doesnt know this stuff...

> >

> > ganpra@ wrote:

> >

> > Dwelling more on Divine Grace aspect stated by DB: Generally,

it

> is said that those in the company of shakthas are protected.

[....]

> >

>

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Okay people, I can clear this up completely. It is flu season. Stop shaking

hands because of

the germs, and wash hands frequently.

 

Please pass me the tissues, I should have taken my own advice!

 

Namaste (with hands together!)

 

pr

 

 

, " NMadasamy " <nmadasamy wrote:

>

> Aha! now the whole thing make sense..... LOL

>

> So that is..... this will be SS official greetings : Nanu! Nanu!

>

>

>

> , " Cliff " <numinae@> wrote:

> >

> > That would be " Mork and Mindy " with Robin Williams and Pam Dawber.

> >

> > Interestingly, the Nanu gesture is the same as the Vulcan hand

> salute (turned sideways) accompanying the phrase " live long and

> prosper " from StarTrek, which itself is derivative of a Hebrew hand

> gesture (mudra) indicating the letter Shin, or the Fire of Spirit -

> very similar to the Kundalini- used as a sign of blessing.

> >

> > namaste

> > Cliff

> >

> >

> > -

> > NMadasamy

> >

> > Thursday, February 07, 2008 10:32 PM

> > Re: avoiding shaking hands

> >

> >

> > Maybe we should start with the famous hand greetings : nanu!

> > nanu!...

> >

> > now which TV programme was this...

> >

> > , sankara menon <kochu1tz@>

> > wrote:

> > >

> > > because he has not been to North pole. I tried the nose

> rubbing

> > stuff and my conservative algerian colleague slapped me.

> > >

> > > RACHEL GARCIA <omshantii@> wrote: yeah, I wonder why

> > my Guru doesnt know this stuff...

> > >

> > > ganpra@ wrote:

> > >

> > > Dwelling more on Divine Grace aspect stated by DB: Generally,

> it

> > is said that those in the company of shakthas are protected.

> [....]

> > >

> >

>

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Some visual guidence on the greeting - on the right side, half way

down this page.

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mork_and_Mindy

 

, " NMadasamy " <nmadasamy

wrote:

>

> Aha! now the whole thing make sense..... LOL

>

> So that is..... this will be SS official greetings : Nanu! Nanu!

>

>

>

> , " Cliff " <numinae@> wrote:

> >

> > That would be " Mork and Mindy " with Robin Williams and Pam Dawber.

> >

> > Interestingly, the Nanu gesture is the same as the Vulcan hand

> salute (turned sideways) accompanying the phrase " live long and

> prosper " from StarTrek, which itself is derivative of a Hebrew hand

> gesture (mudra) indicating the letter Shin, or the Fire of Spirit -

> very similar to the Kundalini- used as a sign of blessing.

> >

> > namaste

> > Cliff

> >

> >

> > -

> > NMadasamy

> >

> > Thursday, February 07, 2008 10:32 PM

> > Re: avoiding shaking hands

> >

> >

> > Maybe we should start with the famous hand greetings : nanu!

> > nanu!...

> >

> > now which TV programme was this...

> >

> > , sankara menon

<kochu1tz@>

> > wrote:

> > >

> > > because he has not been to North pole. I tried the nose

> rubbing

> > stuff and my conservative algerian colleague slapped me.

> > >

> > > RACHEL GARCIA <omshantii@> wrote: yeah, I wonder why

> > my Guru doesnt know this stuff...

> > >

> > > ganpra@ wrote:

> > >

> > > Dwelling more on Divine Grace aspect stated by DB: Generally,

> it

> > is said that those in the company of shakthas are protected.

> [....]

> > >

> >

>

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, Vikrant <free_for_blue

wrote:

>

> for all those people who are into any form of daily/routine mantra

jap or any sadhana just avoid shaking thier hands with other people as

much as possible,such people should greet other people thru a

namaskar.i have learnt this secret from a very intelligent knowledgable

guru.thought i share it with u.

> after all knowledge is power....

>

> Vikrant

>

hello can anyone give me guru japa mantra please

thanks

regards

jaya

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