Need some HELP!

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Jay Gurudev,

 

I came across this site this morning and thought about posting my query

on this ite to get some help. I am happily married with two kids nad is

a working mom. My older daughter is about 2.5 years who is very sweet

and dear to me. I recently had another baby. My daughter is very clever

but is very active..I can say hyperactive. We get exhausted by the end

of the day playing or taking care of her. She won't play alone.. she

always wants someone's company and always seeks attention. She is a good

observer and picks up anything new very fast but I think that she loses

interest or focus very fast. I need her to become little calm and

increase her focus.

 

You must be thinking that I should read books about how to raise a kid

or talk to her Doctoer. I have read few books and are also trying to

change our behaviour accordingly and discipline her but I would also

like to do something more...like may be fasting for her or chant some

mantras or praying a particular GOD....anything which will help her. It

is too tiring and very stressfull so I need some solution as soon as

possible. There is nothing wrong with her health wise.

 

Any kind os suggestions are welcome.

 

Regards,

 

RJ

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conditioning of children, yet they have never been punished for

the same, neither the law has any scope for it.

Children by nature are attention grabbers- attention

seekers because they get confused easily they want

someone to explain them and guide them.

The following lines are the words of Khalil Gibran

And a woman who held a baby against her bosom said, "Speak to us of

Children." And he said:

Your children are not your children.

They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.

They come through you but not from you,

And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts.

For they have their own thoughts.

You may house their bodies but not their souls,

For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not

even in your dreams.

You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.

For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.

The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with

His might that His arrows may go swift and far.

Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;

For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is

stable.

On 4/13/06, reshmasj1 <reshmasj1 > wrote:

Jay Gurudev,

I came across this site this morning and thought about posting my query

on this ite to get some help. I am happily married with two kids nad is

a working mom. My older daughter is about 2.5 years who is very sweet

and dear to me. I recently had another baby. My daughter is very clever

but is very active..I can say hyperactive. We get exhausted by the end

of the day playing or taking care of her. She won't play alone.. she

always wants someone's company and always seeks attention. She is a good

observer and picks up anything new very fast but I think that she loses

interest or focus very fast. I need her to become little calm and

increase her focus.

You must be thinking that I should read books about how to raise a kid

or talk to her Doctoer. I have read few books and are also trying to

change our behaviour accordingly and discipline her but I would also

like to do something more...like may be fasting for her or chant some

mantras or praying a particular GOD....anything which will help her. It

is too tiring and very stressfull so I need some solution as soon as

possible. There is nothing wrong with her health wise.

Any kind os suggestions are welcome.

Regards,

RJ

Jay Gurudev

 

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[Guest guest]

Jai Gurudev, sister.

Are you Dikshit. Have you taken Guru Diksha?

It will be really beneficial to get Chetna Diksha (to enhance

positive energy), Saraswati Diksha ( to enhance intelligence) for

your kids. Of course, Guru Diksha is a basic pre-requisite.

you may get more info on www.siddhashram.org, or by sending

mail/talking to Gurudham.

Lots of small Sadhanas for small children are also given in montly

mag Mantra Tantra Yantra Vigyan

Hope it helps!

Jai Gurudev

, "reshmasj1" <reshmasj1 wrote:

>

>

> Jay Gurudev,

>

> I came across this site this morning and thought about posting my

query

> on this ite to get some help. I am happily married with two kids

nad is

> a working mom. My older daughter is about 2.5 years who is very

sweet

> and dear to me. I recently had another baby. My daughter is very

clever

> but is very active..I can say hyperactive. We get exhausted by the

end

> of the day playing or taking care of her. She won't play alone..

she

> always wants someone's company and always seeks attention. She is

a good

> observer and picks up anything new very fast but I think that she

loses

> interest or focus very fast. I need her to become little calm and

> increase her focus.

>

> You must be thinking that I should read books about how to raise a

kid

> or talk to her Doctoer. I have read few books and are also trying

to

> change our behaviour accordingly and discipline her but I would

also

> like to do something more...like may be fasting for her or chant

some

> mantras or praying a particular GOD....anything which will help

her. It

> is too tiring and very stressfull so I need some solution as soon

as

> possible. There is nothing wrong with her health wise.

>

> Any kind os suggestions are welcome.

>

> Regards,

>

> RJ

>

[Guest guest]

Dear RJ,

 

May be its us who needs to be more active.

 

Open her to more creative sides like drawing or some creative play, some

easier "put together" puzzles. I think best would be send her too

kindergarden or pre-nursery. May be kids can't in to depth at this age.

Hence they will try to explore things to some extent and then move over

to new things, which is fine.

 

I also have a daughter of similar age (3.5 years now) and similar

behaviour. Things changed ever since she started going to school.

 

Jai Gurudev,

Anurag

 

 

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Behalf Of reshmasj1

Thursday, April 13, 2006 1:28 AM

 

Need some HELP!

 

 

Jay Gurudev,

 

I came across this site this morning and thought about posting my query

on this ite to get some help. I am happily married with two kids nad is

a working mom. My older daughter is about 2.5 years who is very sweet

and dear to me. I recently had another baby. My daughter is very clever

but is very active..I can say hyperactive. We get exhausted by the end

of the day playing or taking care of her. She won't play alone.. she

always wants someone's company and always seeks attention. She is a good

observer and picks up anything new very fast but I think that she loses

interest or focus very fast. I need her to become little calm and

increase her focus.

 

You must be thinking that I should read books about how to raise a kid

or talk to her Doctoer. I have read few books and are also trying to

change our behaviour accordingly and discipline her but I would also

like to do something more...like may be fasting for her or chant some

mantras or praying a particular GOD....anything which will help her. It

is too tiring and very stressfull so I need some solution as soon as

possible. There is nothing wrong with her health wise.

 

Any kind os suggestions are welcome.

 

Regards,

 

RJ

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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