Guest guest Report post Posted May 12, 2001 Date : 12/05/2001 Dear Guru Bhais & Bahans Jai Guru Dev ! In SADHNA Rules there is one Rule that during Sadhna period Sadhaks should maintain CELIBACY not only Physically but mentally also. Suppose a person who is just get married and take guru diksha and do "DAINIK SADHANA" daily in the morning and no other sadhna but this "DAINIK GURU SADHNA" he does daily. So now if he maintains CELIBACY then what about his MARRIED LIFE and if he does not maintain CELIBACY then what about his SADHNA. Please advice me on the same exactly whetre if a person who do only DAINIK GURU SADHANA not any specific sadhna then he need not to maintain CELIBACY. He has to maintain CELIBACY only if he do any SPECIFIC SADHNA other than DAINIK GURU SADHANA. Your valuable advice will help me and other sadhaks & disciples like me. Please advice soon. Jai Guru Dev ! Regards : Sanjay Auctions - buy the things you want at great prices http://auctions./ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted May 12, 2001 dear brother, relax!! you sound almost panicky, and I could not help smiling. if you are living in grahasth, you should thinking reasonably have the right to be not celibate all the time, and why hide behind the titile of newly married? otherwise what is the difference between you and a sanyasi? look, some sadhnas like say baglamukhi and other mahavidya sadhnas are very strict about this. please understand that sadhna in a part of tapasya to burn your previuos sins and to make way for everything good on the spiritual and materialistic planes to enter your life. celibacy, eating a restricted diet, not chatting on and on (Maun), not lazing around, are all various kinds of tapas. The more control you have on yourself, the more you do greater will be the benefits. SO let me ask you what is your aim? are you pretty satisfied with life at present, or are you facing some serious problems you desperately want to get rid off, or wish to rise high spiritually soon? If things are going fine, relax lead a normal life and perform Guru sadhna and things can only improve for better. If not, everything from taking more Dikhsas in GURUdev's guidance, performing more sadhnas and etc etc would help (if you choose the path of sadhna that is)for your betterment. The more desperate you are to end your troubles, the more effort you would/should be willing to put in. BUT, you alone are an honest judge of whether you cannot follow restrictions, or want to find an excuse not to! jai GURUDEV Anu ps: Happy birthday, Ashish. I am still going through a lot of "manthan and analysis and doubt" and do not wish to yet give out experiences to be posted on the web > > Please advice soon. > > Jai Guru Dev ! > > Regards : Sanjay > > > > Auctions - buy the things you want at great prices > http://auctions./ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
