vedicbeginner

Dear Respected members, I have a query regarding whether the relation/marriage between me and this girl could work/good for each other. Me June 8, 1976 Jakarta, Indonesia (106E48, 6S10) 5:37 (AM) her November 17, 1980 Jakarta, Indonesia 22:15 (PM) I saw Kuja Dosha in her chart that Mars is in 4th house from Venus, and Ketu in 7th house from lagna, and debilitated venus (but got neecha banga) aspect 2nd house from upapada. But it seems she is the destined one judging from my chart. Her lagna is in Cancer where my upapada is located. Her moon in Aquarius where its lord Saturn is in my upapada. My Venus is in Taurus which indicates a spouse who fond of music, which is true for her. My 7th lord is in 3rd house, which possibly could be interpreted as a spouse who likes to travel, which is also true. On the other hand I could not see me on her chart. My lagna is Taurus which is not trine from her upapada, nor 7th from it, nor in the rasi of the lords of those trines. Moon, however, is my chara atmakaraka, and it is in her upapada. Any inputs, hopefully constructive one are welcome. Regards, vedicbeginner.