i think i used a poor example.
what i am wanting to know is what Krishna meant by "killing selflessly"
Doesn't Arjuna represent the ideal that I could be? SO in contemporary western scoiety what does Krishna consider "killing" And how do I practice this selflessly?
How does one "kill" selflessly?
If a person follows my movements to try and intimidate me, do I rebuke them (is this "killing"), or do I ignore them and cause them anger at my passivity?