Krishna's time line.
Birth
• Appearance at midnite of Sravana k8 (July 19/20), year 3228 BC to Devaki
• taken by Vasudeva from Mathura to Nanda and Yasoda in Gokula
Till 3
• lived in Gokula
• killed Putana, Sakatasura, Trinivarta demons
3 - 6
• moved to Vrindavana
• killed Bakasura, Aghasura, Dhenuka and Balarama killed Pralamba
• moved to Nandagrama
7-10
• Brahma steals and returns cowherd boys
• Govardhana puja
• played rasa-lila with the gopis
• invited to Mathura for wrestling match
• killed Canura and Balarama killed Mustika
• killed Kamsa and Balarama killed his brothers
10-28
• lived in Mathura
• Intiated with Balarama into chanting Gayatri by Gargamuni
• Instructed with Balarama in the sixty four arts by Sandipani Muni
• Protects Mathura from many demons
29 - 125
• establishes kingdom in Dvaraka
• marriage to Rukmini and 7 principal queens
• marriage to 16,100 princesses
• 161,080 sons born to Krishna
• speaks Bhagavad-Gita at Kuruksetra Battle(~90)(3138 BC)
• saves King Pariksit in the womb
• instructs Uddhava
125
• Disappearance on February 18th 3102 BC
So Krishna knew of the physical Radha only till Krishna was 10. He never returned to Nandvan after that time. Radha did not travel to Dwaraka. In South India there is no mention of Radha in the ancient texts. The idea of Radha & Krishna as JivAtma and ParamAtma is popular only after the Bhakti movement. The poets and romantics have given this spiritual relation a physical form, and distorted the picture for the average viewers.
In prayers Rukmani, Satyabhama sametha Sri Krishnamasra is what recited.
Then Mira worshiped Krishna as her lover.
Similarly Andhal in South India accepted Narayana as her husband.
Surdas worshiped Krishna as a child, Raskhan worshiped krishna as his lover. The relation between God and devotee's are varied and personal to them.
