yakacha

Dear Yakacha,

 

At 13 (in the case of you), chemical reactions, fluctuation of male hormones and so on bring forth some changes in the body. At this time of life, sexual thoughts do enter. So self-pleasuring and experimenting are very normal. Masturbation medically has major significant effects, though it might leave pyschological problems to some(rare cases) or problems in marriage.

 

I cannot imagine how painful it might be to be tormented by people like that. Reading your experience being spat upon, was painful enough. Looks? What does looks bring to anyone? Any more money? Salvation? Good education? Being good looking is a ticket to attain salvation? Looks means nothing without without self-respect and a leading a respectful life. Be appreciatiave of how god made you.

 

In terms of health....I really would suggest you go to an ayurvedic practitioners, they know how to manage the loss of vital fluid (semen) as loss of it causes energy loss (ayurvedically). They will probably suggest herbs and foods that will build up your ojas.

 

Well .......pull yourself together, make your life worth a living. Be independant. Work hard. Do not worry, respect and all pleasures comes to you by the grace of god. Do not care about what people think about you. Strive for a decent living, cultivate good habits and positive thinking. I am sure you will be better than anyone in your neighbourhood.

 

Suicide???? Well there is no short-cuts in life, I am not sure from which faith you belong, but, the next life too will be full of miseries....and it's like a chain-reaction... So it is wise to work up your flaws and bad habits now in this very life. Why wait...you can be a new man even tomorrow. Have faith in god, I am sure all will be ok. Namaste.

Thanks kshama for increasing my willpower to live and struggle in the days coming ahead but i don't know how much will it last? and when will my will power collapse again? any way thank you

You are undergoing Sun's das and Moon's dasa is to follow,.But the saap of ganeshji or a Ganeshji puja has been stopped in your family which has resulted in a saap.Please check on that.I find Mars and saturn are associated in your 8th house giving you strong perversions in personal gratification which you need to control by engaging your self in good thoughts and deeds.

After Moon's dasa starts you will have good time(in sept 2011).

My best wishes and blessings to you.

Thanks suvarchas for analyising my kundali.You have said about "saap of ganesh ji" is it "shrap, curse". But my mother daily do puja of ganeshji in our house and i personally also pray to ganesh ji often. I had met a local astrologer some time ago to ask about my career he suggested to wear 8 ratti muga in gold is it beneficial form? Can you suggest my something about my career and wealth because of my problem i am unable to get a job and i don't know how will i survive with this much of humiliation and daridrata.

my date of birth is 21 july 1984 09:59 pm kathmandu, nepal

I am 25 years old . my problem started since i was 13 years old. i had bad habit of masturbation. eventhough modern science says it is not harmful at all but i gradually became very ugly like monkey . in the beginning i thought i am thin that's why my face has changed like monkey(my jaws are big and my eyes are deep) i tried working out and gain some weight but still the same problem. The worst part of my problem is now whereever i go even i am walking on street people look at me strangely and spit infront of me( this is all true, i don't have any ,mental problem) even my family members started spitting infront of me. i have already attempted 2 time for suicide but nor succeded. Now neither can i live nor i can die. because of this i don't have any job. my life is hell and i am again thinking of suicide for third time. please some body help me