Amrita84

Hello Astro102, Date, place, time of birth (16th May 1984, Hillingdon, 06:31am) Your gender, current location (Female, London, UK) profession (working/student/which field) (Employed by Customer services company) family details (married/unmarried/divorced, kids details (if any), details of how many siblings, details of parents) (Unmarried, no children, 3 sisters 2 brothers, parents married, father not working, mother works) Its not very original but I have been having a lot of bad luck recently. The guy I wanted to marry (and who claims he wants to marry me) is being made to marry someone else, also I don't seem to be having a lot of luck concerning work, I can't find a good job! So my questions are when will i get married, to who and what will married life be life for me? What type of profession is it best for me to get involved with? Is there anything I can do get out of this depression? I know you must have a lot of posts and pm's to reply to, but I would really appreciate a response soon. I'm finding it very difficult to be happy and as so much has happened to me recently, I would appreciate anything I should watch out for the future. Amrita

Hello all, I'm not sure if I am posting this in the right section, I'm new to this site, so I apologise now for any mistakes. I have been brought up as Hindu, though my family didn't practise strictly, its something I have recently started to take an interest in. From everything I have learnt so far, your parents are to be loved and respected just as much we love and respect God. I have no problem with this at all, its something I think children naturally do, but what when your parents are in the wrong? I'm not talking about when the stop a parent stops you from doing something, or grounds you as such, this is normal as parents have to dish out tough love to protect their children. But I mean when you know your parents behaviour/actions are wrong, and when we try to talk about it calmly at first but it ends up in a shouting match/argument? Should you just accept what your parents say/do or do something actively? I know it is easy to say that an argument can always be avoided, but this means both parties have to be willing to compromise, and this isn't the case unfortunately. What does hinduism have to say about this? Any response would be greatly appreciated Amrit