Hi friend,
I have gone through the posting which you have posted. My dear friend its true we all human beings are in the illusion of Maya.
I feel we human beings have lost the Oneness among ourself. We feel each human being is different, we differencitae among caste, we differencitae among friends, we differenciate in relatives why all these things are happeneing to our Lives? Why cant we feel for others?
As we human beings have lost the oneness, we started protecting from our dear friends, our family people our other dear ones.
i feel we can try to come out of these things by following some small steps in our life, Like avoid gossiping, Judegmenting, Expecting.
I feel you can be best friend to yourself if you really understands yourself.
Have a Great day Ahead