Hello sir,
I have searched for suitable girl for approx 2.5 yrs, met almost 30 girls and finally on April 18, 2008 i got married to the suitable girl.
I also had a unsuccessfull serious relation last year that could continue only for 4-5 months and we broke up.
Things did not go smooth in my married life just after our engagement i went to meet her at her Mumbai office and when i came back i felt releaved and a sense of freedom, instead of love & affection and it turned into less communication and a small phone fight between us, we managed to tackle this and got married.
As we know our indian marriages never take place without hurting anyone I also got hurted and same negative feeling for my wife continues.
The disinterest feeling in her started in our honeymoon itself and we had a bitter experince of so called honeymoon.
Now my conditon is I have started pointing flaws in her like she is a very thin and lean shoulders, does not stand straight, does not have attractive figure which causes a lot of trauma for me, now a days i get attracted to any girl who posess good figure but when i imagine my wife i get sudden depression and all exitment goes down. whole day i feel stressed out, dont possess energy, no enthu, i do'nt talk much, no encouragement.
this disinterest in her torchers me every moment if i am awake.
Though she is good in nature, caring, sensible, understanding but has a short temper which destroys every good quality in her.
Please suggest me what is this happening to me?
how long this will be continue?
Is there a mis match between us? I am not confident whether i want to proceed with this marriage or not.
My dob: 18 sept 1978, Time: 10:50 PM, Place: Sehore
My Wife: 24 July 1981, Time: 10:30 AM, Place: Balaghar (MP)
Before marriage i have chanted Surya Mantra for 7000 times as told by purohit ji.
Please help me ASAP.
Mish18