eshwaar101

I agree cbrahma. In Australia there is a big initiative to bring discussion about depression out in the open.

 

Here is a very good website for you eshwaar

 

http://www.beyondblue.org.au

 

here is a depression self test checklist to see how you are going:

http://www.beyondblue.org.au/index.aspx?link_id=89.678

 

please bookmark and read it...I lived with very serious health condition for over a decade. And believe me if we grow through these health conditions, we can become very thoughtful caring human beings. And very happy human beings too mate.

 

y.s.

yeah...I thought you may have been in your mid twenties. For us guys that can be a real time of change and growth, a time of deeper self awareness. Just imagine the joys in life of growing old gracefully, what we will perceive in goodness during our lives as 30, 40, 50, 60 year olds, as spirit/consciousness entities.

 

A wise man will let the smoking, drinking etc fade into his exploration of youthfullness. There is no need to hold guilt or shame about youthfullness either. Such is life. However a foolish man will continue his youthful frolly well into manhood, and reap the rewards and possibly hellish mind states.

 

I have see many friends mature in their twenties, and make good choices and live well. I have seen other friends not mature and suffer later on. Some have even died.

 

Ganja is a big no no for racing minds, can even lead to psychosis in some. But the mind is a great healer, so we can cultivate the mind.

 

Bhagavad Gita says, 'the mind can be the greatest of friends, or the worst of enemies'.

 

I often teach people this way, 'if you had an old junk box of a car it would probably run on an oily rag...but if you had the latest model ferrari it needs extra special care to run at peak performance'.

 

Now....what is the mind? A junk box, or a high performance machine?

 

The body and mind is the temple of your God. Clean it, care for it, fill it full of spiritual wisdom, spiritual thoughts, and simple goodness...then it will serve you and your Lord well....unto full human maturity, actualization, and enlightenment.

 

We are spiritual beings who perform well on spiritual sustenance. That is the 'key' for wholness and well being for a human being. Patience and care and long endurance are the ornaments.

 

Oh and be happy, be joyous...and laugh and the journey we all take. Have you ever seen the shine in an old man's eyes, and subtle grin on his face:) That's wisdom and peace.

 

Human...Humility...Humor (good medicine)

its not that simple i feel like my minds on fire........i feel like im going crazy.....i cant control my thoughts the way i use to........by eshwaar

 

Hari Hari! I was wondering how old you are? Are you maybe just becoming more aware of your mind, psychology etc. As we grow in life we can often become more aware of parts of our spiritual-psycho-physical make up that we were unconscious of before. Just a thought.

 

If that is so then we are becoming more mature; hence a greater responsibility for our lives, thoughts, actions etc can develop.

 

Forgive me for asking, you dont use ganja, hash, or bang do you? That will get the thought processes racing from dopamine overload?

 

And as cbramha said, if things do get to out of control, or if the mind due to depression, loss of confidence, or whetever impacts and lowers your ability to function well, day to day...then don't hesitate to get some professional help and support before things get out of hand for you. Sometimes the earlier we pay attention to imbalance the sooner wellness is attained. Early intervention is well documented in medical practice.

 

A daily dedicated meditation practice can be very beneficial for a racing mind, but it really does take daily practice to see the eventual results.

 

y.s. in love

i look ok didnt really check out much in there.....but background need to change....i hate blackgackgrounds for some reason

Depression is a sign of deep dissatisfaction... whatever you are doing your mind seems to believe that u are doing somethign wrong... a bit of soul searching (looking within yourself) for your life goals and maybe a change of direction profesionally would help you resolve matters... first analuse what is wrong then make changes to correct that which is wrong... happiness comes of doing the right things... and best of luck

its not that simple i feel like my minds on fire........i feel like im going crazy.....i cant control my thoughts the way i use to........ive lost a part of myself.....do u know what itis to loose yourself, its the worst feeling in the world...i was never like this........i was a confident person...i have resonable goals in life....now evrything is just going in circles in my head the impossible is alway there waiting for me

does anyone know were i could get a good copy of tulisdas ramayam being sung.......kinda want to download a free copy or somthing

lately ive just been so deppresed i dont know what to do...i pray it make me fell better for a while.......but thats it....latelty ive been feeling worse worse ........im stuck with a job that i like but i cant make no money.......everything is also extra hard for me......when ever i try to take one step forward in life i end up being thrown 2 steps back and this has been going on my whole life.....i just dont care about anything anymore....cause i just dont see the point in caring sometime

ive had dreams about being in a sr narayana temple, and lingams and tulsi plants, ive had verious dreams of murtis.......latley they have been happening frequently....is this a good dream or bad....what could its meanig be......the ones with naryana and mother lakmi mean the most to me cause that is who i worship....anythoughts

when is the building being started........links dont work

I've also had to ask myself why? First why me God? That was before I had to throw self-pity completely away as the most useless of human emotions. Then it becomes why not me? Karma is the answer of course. For instance, my daughter has no speech and likely never will. I cannot perceive with accuracy the specific cause of her reaction, but have considered the possibility that's she's so impaired because she misused her speaking ability in a previous human birth, possibly the immediate past life. Regardless of her condition or it's cause, we love her dearly and could not hardly bare not being allowed to serve her as parents. Whatever God does is for my good.

Only at this point in time. Structure the future so that simplicity is your reward instead of material wealth. You must work for simplicity. x

'i just want to worship lakmi ma out of respect, amd love becsue i feel that she is the mother of the universe and should be respected as such' quote by eshwaar

 

Hi Eshwaar,

 

I am reading this book at the moment, click

 

It has beautiful descriptions of the spiritual worlds and the diverse devotees who reside there. Each devotee there is fully satisfied by the Lord's mercy and grace in their particular service mood.

 

The story unfolds the journey of one devotee who follows his heart in search of devotional fulfillment. There are some wonderful descriptions of Laksmi devi in this book.

 

Follow your heart where it finds its fulfillment in loving devotion, wherever our heart leads us there we must go. Each devotees devotion is unique and beautiful to the one who is loved, and deity reciprocates accordingly. This is the kindness of God.

 

By serving in deep devotion the Lord of your heart, Sri Krsna, all other forms of God will be fully satisfied. This book clarifies all these doubts very nicely. Follow your devotional heart, it will lead you home.

You can't please all the gods. There's too many of them.

 

Please your self. If you can learn to love yourself, no god will ever be displeased with you.

 

 

x

well thats easier said then done...life is so complicated

You should always respect Lakshmi devi who is the eternal consort of Lord Narayana. But there is no need to worship her separately from Narayana. Actually it is an offense to worship one without the other. Worship them both together, that is the best policy!

And most people who worship Lakshmi devi alone, they do it to get riches. But this is not true love for Mother Lakshmi, is it?

i waqs wondering if any astrologer on this site can give me a consultation via email....i need some help..and i dont feel comfortable givivg out my birth details in public like that.....if anyone is willing to help me out my email is eshwaar101 (at) hotmail.com

well to start off with i am a devotte of sri krishna, and i hold the gita in my heart with very high esteme, but i at the sametime i worship sri krishna in his various forms as sri ram, vishnu baghawam...but is was just wondering if worshiping the maha lakmi...and all the other devi would be wrong or even contradictory.....because in the gita it say that one should worship only the supreme...but sometimes i feel like im doing a great in justice by noyt respectiong maha lakmi.....because she is the lord enternal consort and i think should be worshiped just the same, i dont know im just confused about it , am i right or am i wrong

Dear eshwaar101,

 

Why do you ask? I'm the parent of a severely autistic/retarded 16 year old daughter who's 24/7 caregiving consumes our life. It has transformed our lives in a very severe but special way relying on the verse from the Bhagavat tat te nukumpam. That is, when difficulty comes my way I must learn to harmonize it as not only not a difficulty but a boon sent by the Divine Will as my real inner necessity in order to help me make inner progress in a genuine way. Following this line we have learned much about surrender and the utter futility of material existence. Our understanding was superficial before this experience. Mere intellectual philosophical theory breaks down as we are forced to exist at a much deeper level of functional awareness. For her expert lessons we are most grateful to our daughter, our teacher sent to us by God's Grace.

what does the law of karma say about people who are born mentally retarded.......what did they do in there previous lives to be born that way??????

incase u didnt know gandhi carried 3 books with him always the gita, the koran, and the bible....what ur discribing, i think ghandi would know about.

Pay no attention to numbers.

 

Such entities only come when it is their season to come.

 

But Shiva is limbering up for the dance ahead.

 

Watch, and try to stay out of the way.

 

 

 

x

how do u know this...how do u know that it is distructive dance , how could u say dont pay attention to numbers, i think u know this from numbers

well im sur that everyone here has heard of the mayan calender that end on 2012...some are saying that it moight be the end of the world, the end of days, or it might be the swtart of the golden age that lord krishna had prophesied in the mahabatrha....i have also heard that lord sive will be hear on earth....what is your opionon?????

im just curiuse as to what makes u belive in god god, did u have a spirtual revalation, a vision, a miricale happen to u, i just want to know what makes u so sure that god is even out there

Why don't you go ask him?

who is this sai baba guy really is.....my aunt and her family are just crazy about him, they say that he is an incarnation of lord krishna.....i just think hes a fake

It is like with waking life. Either way, some experiences can be very profound and most of them won't seem like they were worth remembering anyway. You have the option of living more fully if you want to increase the odds.

 

I don't know if they were really them or if it was "only" imagination. Either way it sounds like something to be happy about.

thank that sound great but there is nothing in my life to be happy about.......so maybe its just my imagination.....maybe god dosent really exist