Guest guest Report post Posted December 26, 2005 namaste... i was higly disappointed in the insensetive way in which my humble query was handled. to be very frank i had atleast expected a bit of humaneness from the menbers of the group. i completely agree that things like career education and such should be assuming a lot of priority in this particular age, but then each person does fight his own battle in the SAMSARIC world out there. each one has his own problems, his own issues, own inner mental battles which the individual tries to triumph against. does the writer even think of before posting such a blunt reply about the kind of issues which i have to face, or does he have any idea about the mental trauma which i have to endure because of highlu sensetive issues arising out of my association with my female companion. its so very easy to sermonise to others about the ideal path. etc etc and easy to assume that the writer is just a youngster with overcharged hormones not having even a slightest idea about priorities in life.....but its only the person going through the pain and suffering who really knows what it feels like to endure such kind of emotional turmoil at such a tender age in life. its my misfortune that i trusted members to handle my sensetive issue in a much more supportive way.... when I opened and read your mail, I thought that you would be in your thirties as you have written that "After spending many years....etc" Your birth data shows you are hardly 21. Why not think of making a life more secure by studying and working in good field and make good living and then think of marriage? Just my 2 cents worth. --- Hrushikesh Raut <hvraut wrote: > i offer my humble pranaams to the learned > astrologers > at the forum and also pay my deep respects to this > all > powerful vedic science of astrology. > > i have a lot of faith in the abilities of > astrologers to accurately give common people like us > , > guidelines which help us in taking crucial decisions > in our day to day life. > > i also have been personally troubled by > a > very complex situation regarding my love life. it > seems that after having spent many wonderful years > together me and my female partner are heading > towards > seperation. with a lot of opposition from her > family. > i would like to know whether doing some upasana of > some planets can avoid such a situation. > > my birth details are > > date 5 february 1984 > time 9:44 pm > place bombay ( mumbai ) > > details of the female > > date 13 october 1983 > time 1:32 pm > place bombay ( mumbai ) > > > precious guidance is kindly requested > > humble pranaams .... > yours sincerely, > > hrushikesh v raut > ________ DSL – Something to write home about. Just $16.99/mo. or less. dsl. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted December 26, 2005 Dear Hrushikesh, You will definetely go for a love-marriage but not without the consent of your parents. But, the girl's horoscope shows some problems related to marriage like delay in marriage and conflicts after marriage. You will get married in 2008. Till then make best use of a favorable mercury dasha and try to get a good standing careerwise. Sometimes, the pain becomes a blessing in disguise. You have a very bright future, but not with this girl. Regards, Ashutosh - Hrushikesh Raut Monday, 26 December, 2005 21:10 Reply namaste... i was higly disappointed in the insensetive way in which my humble query was handled. to be very frank i had atleast expected a bit of humaneness from the menbers of the group. i completely agree that things like career education and such should be assuming a lot of priority in this particular age, but then each person does fight his own battle in the SAMSARIC world out there. each one has his own problems, his own issues, own inner mental battles which the individual tries to triumph against. does the writer even think of before posting such a blunt reply about the kind of issues which i have to face, or does he have any idea about the mental trauma which i have to endure because of highlu sensetive issues arising out of my association with my female companion. its so very easy to sermonise to others about the ideal path. etc etc and easy to assume that the writer is just a youngster with overcharged hormones not having even a slightest idea about priorities in life.....but its only the person going through the pain and suffering who really knows what it feels like to endure such kind of emotional turmoil at such a tender age in life. its my misfortune that i trusted members to handle my sensetive issue in a much more supportive way.... when I opened and read your mail, I thought that you would be in your thirties as you have written that "After spending many years....etc" Your birth data shows you are hardly 21. Why not think of making a life more secure by studying and working in good field and make good living and then think of marriage? Just my 2 cents worth. --- Hrushikesh Raut <hvraut wrote: > i offer my humble pranaams to the learned > astrologers > at the forum and also pay my deep respects to this > all > powerful vedic science of astrology. > > i have a lot of faith in the abilities of > astrologers to accurately give common people like us > , > guidelines which help us in taking crucial decisions > in our day to day life. > > i also have been personally troubled by > a > very complex situation regarding my love life. it > seems that after having spent many wonderful years > together me and my female partner are heading > towards > seperation. with a lot of opposition from her > family. > i would like to know whether doing some upasana of > some planets can avoid such a situation. > > my birth details are > > date 5 february 1984 > time 9:44 pm > place bombay ( mumbai ) > > details of the female > > date 13 october 1983 > time 1:32 pm > place bombay ( mumbai ) > > > precious guidance is kindly requested > > humble pranaams .... > yours sincerely, > > hrushikesh v raut > ________ DSL - Something to write home about. Just $16.99/mo. or less. dsl. SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH THE TASTE OF ABSOLUTE BLISS. Hindu astrology Vedic astrology Free vedic astrology a.. Visit your group "" on the web. b.. c.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted December 26, 2005 Dear Hrushikesh I understand your pain and admit that sometimes young people can be very serious about romance and it might turn a very serious concern in their lives for the sincerity and honesty they have in it. It is not always true that young people only have "teen affairs" but they can have very true and sincere feelings too. Their feelings cannot always be underestimated. I myself fell in love in a very young age (17 yrs) and have suffered a lot, being an astrologer and reading so many messages from many forums I have learned a lot of tough romantic problems BUT I can say that I am YET TO KNOW about a strange, more painful relationship problem than that I had. Anyway. While I say that young hearts' feelings often need better appreciation and careful evaluation, same time I also must admit that it does sound a bit uncommon to hear about serious romantic problems in your age. While I say that young heart can have true feelings (Like I believe I had), I must same time admit that more than 90% of the times young hearts have only what is called infatuation and crush. So while your feeling is sincere and true, people at first glance will not really be sure about the sincerity. That is why what Tatvam-Asi Ji did was a rather common approach of replying, from his side. Each of you stand correct in your point of views. Again he has given his standings of astrological justification behind his reply. So I think the matter resolves here. Do not be emotional. Love involves emotion I do know, but to win your love you must act by brain and not by emotion because in love you often need to win a battle against rest of the world where you must think carefully without emotion. Emotion will only weaken you. It is for someone you love, not for someone you fight with. In love I believe, people often need to fight against parents, society etc. I have written a lot non-astro write ups against such civilized tortures from parents and I have seen a lot of lives getting ruined for such parental decisions. I believe parents take the souls to this earth, and have the responsibilities to guide them in tender age, but in no way they "own" the offsprings to decide whom they will marry. (Esp when the child is adult already.) Even if the person makes a mistake marrying a wrong person s/he should be allowed to do, because it is his life and he has the right to do something and if wrong then he himself will get the punishment. So if he is ready to risk it, who are the parents to bug in? The person who will live the married life should decide, parents will not live their children's lives. Even parents' choices are often wrong. In those early days life was very commonly structured with all fixed sort of behaviour, so arranged marriages always worked out, but now life has so many variations that it is seriously needed that the people know each other well before marriage that is hardly possible in an arranged marriage. Anyway I think this is getting too much of out of topic lecture :-) At last, I wish you all the best possible future regarding this. You remind me about my past that's why I wrote this. You have my sympathy. Tanvir What cannot happen, can never happen. Which is mine, is forever mine. http://www.jyotish-remedies.com - Vedic Astrology (Jyotish) Predictive astrology with incredibly powerful problem solving remedies Where relief and solutions are found - Hrushikesh Raut Monday, December 26, 2005 9:40 PM Reply namaste... i was higly disappointed in the insensetive way in which my humble query was handled. to be very frank i had atleast expected a bit of humaneness from the menbers of the group. i completely agree that things like career education and such should be assuming a lot of priority in this particular age, but then each person does fight his own battle in the SAMSARIC world out there. each one has his own problems, his own issues, own inner mental battles which the individual tries to triumph against. does the writer even think of before posting such a blunt reply about the kind of issues which i have to face, or does he have any idea about the mental trauma which i have to endure because of highlu sensetive issues arising out of my association with my female companion. its so very easy to sermonise to others about the ideal path. etc etc and easy to assume that the writer is just a youngster with overcharged hormones not having even a slightest idea about priorities in life.....but its only the person going through the pain and suffering who really knows what it feels like to endure such kind of emotional turmoil at such a tender age in life. its my misfortune that i trusted members to handle my sensetive issue in a much more supportive way.... when I opened and read your mail, I thought that you would be in your thirties as you have written that "After spending many years....etc" Your birth data shows you are hardly 21. Why not think of making a life more secure by studying and working in good field and make good living and then think of marriage? Just my 2 cents worth. --- Hrushikesh Raut <hvraut wrote: > i offer my humble pranaams to the learned > astrologers > at the forum and also pay my deep respects to this > all > powerful vedic science of astrology. > > i have a lot of faith in the abilities of > astrologers to accurately give common people like us > , > guidelines which help us in taking crucial decisions > in our day to day life. > > i also have been personally troubled by > a > very complex situation regarding my love life. it > seems that after having spent many wonderful years > together me and my female partner are heading > towards > seperation. with a lot of opposition from her > family. > i would like to know whether doing some upasana of > some planets can avoid such a situation. > > my birth details are > > date 5 february 1984 > time 9:44 pm > place bombay ( mumbai ) > > details of the female > > date 13 october 1983 > time 1:32 pm > place bombay ( mumbai ) > > > precious guidance is kindly requested > > humble pranaams .... > yours sincerely, > > hrushikesh v raut > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted December 26, 2005 Dear Hrushikesh, Your case was not handled insensibly. THe advise given to you was after a very thorough analysis of your chart by an astrologer of authority. An honest advise which is bitter to wars is better than an pleasing but wrong advise. You have a good chart and you should make all efforts to reap the best which in stores for you. Best Regards, Akhil Jain --- Hrushikesh Raut <hvraut wrote: > namaste... > > i was higly disappointed in the insensetive way > in which my humble query was handled. to be very > frank > i had atleast expected a bit of humaneness from the > menbers of the group. i completely agree that things > like career education and such should be assuming a > lot of priority in this particular age, but then > each > person does fight his own battle in the SAMSARIC > world > out there. each one has his own problems, his own > issues, own inner mental battles which the > individual > tries to triumph against. does the writer even think > of before posting such a blunt reply about the kind > of > issues which i have to face, or does he have any > idea > about the mental trauma which i have to endure > because > of highlu sensetive issues arising out of my > association with my female companion. its so very > easy > to sermonise to others about the ideal path. etc etc > and easy to assume that the writer is just a > youngster with overcharged hormones not having even > a > slightest idea about priorities in life.....but its > only the person going through the pain and suffering > who really knows what it feels like to endure such > kind of emotional turmoil at such a tender age in > life. its my misfortune that i trusted members to > handle my sensetive issue in a much more supportive > way.... when I opened and read your mail, I thought that you > would be in your thirties as you have written that > "After spending many years....etc" > Your birth data shows you are hardly 21. > Why not think of making a life more secure by > studying > and working in good field and make good living and > then think of marriage? > Just my 2 cents worth. > > > > --- Hrushikesh Raut <hvraut wrote: > > > i offer my humble pranaams to the learned > > astrologers > > at the forum and also pay my deep respects to this > > all > > powerful vedic science of astrology. > > > > i have a lot of faith in the abilities of > > astrologers to accurately give common people like > us > > , > > guidelines which help us in taking crucial > decisions > > in our day to day life. > > > > i also have been personally troubled by > > a > > very complex situation regarding my love life. it > > seems that after having spent many wonderful years > > together me and my female partner are heading > > towards > > seperation. with a lot of opposition from her > > family. > > i would like to know whether doing some upasana of > > some planets can avoid such a situation. > > > > my birth details are > > > > date 5 february 1984 > > time 9:44 pm > > place bombay ( mumbai ) > > > > details of the female > > > > date 13 october 1983 > > time 1:32 pm > > place bombay ( mumbai ) > > > > > > precious guidance is kindly requested > > > > humble pranaams .... > > yours sincerely, > > > > hrushikesh v raut > > > > > > > ________ > DSL – Something to write home about. > Just $16.99/mo. or less. > dsl. > > for Good - Make a difference this year. http://brand./cybergivingweek2005/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
