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12-25-2003, 11:02 PM
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help required, urgent
hi dear members
i am from bangalore, and my profession acting in movies and teleserials,
i joined tis group recently, and realised that there is great lot of things, i
am ignoring in life, an there is a great lot of benifit i can extract from
this group,
so far, my ways of life are of a most cultured, non corrupt, non harming ,
and helping any one when i can,
even though i had a flying start in my career, later it turned out to be something else,
now a days, i dont understand something, wat ever i do, takes all my efforts
and inspite of my great planning, operation, and talent, things will not
succeed, and somwehow, manages to fail, but believe me there is a strange
coincidence in all of them, its very strange,
if there are 10 things, the only one that choose will fail always, other 9 will succeed,
even though i know , i am more talented, more capable, more educatied and
knowledgeble, and better than 95% of them all, i am not able to find even tiny
success or happiness,
believe me that its very unnatural,
now i am almost on the edge,
can anyone help me in any way, and give me some solution, that wont take a long
time
matru dhevo bhave
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01-09-2004, 12:54 AM
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Re: help required, urgent
-----hi all,
i am from bangalore, and my profession acting in movies and
teleserials,
i joined tis group recently, and realised that there is great lot of
things, i am ignoring in life, an there is a great lot of benifit i
can extract from this group,
so far, my ways of life are of a most cultured, non corrupt, non
harming , and helping any one when i can,
even though i had a flying start in my career, later it turned out
to be something else,
now a days, i dont understand something, wat ever i do, takes all my
efforts and inspite of my great planning, operation, and talent,
things will not succeed, and somwehow, manages to fail, but believe
me there is a strange coincidence in all of them, its very strange,
if there are 10 things, the only one that choose will fail always,
other 9 will succeed,
even though i know , i am more talented, more capable, more
educatied and knowledgeble, and better than 95% of them all, i am
not able to find even tiny success or happiness,
believe me that its very unnatural,
now i am almost on the edge,
can anyone help me in any way, and give me some solution, that wont
take a long time
matru dhevo bhave
hello,
A lot of bad luck results from acrruing negative energies as i wish
to call them without getting into definitions like tantra badha,
pitra dosha etc which are names which instil fear a we do not
understand them. A simple understanding that it is a result of our
own negative thoughts and actions in the past is sufficient. For
someone who is new to sadhanas almost anything will help. What has
helped me in this direction is mahakali sadhana as well as chanting
the amogh shiv kavach uploaded in the files section. Believe me if
you try it with devotion you will be grateful you found it for the
rest of your life. As is the custom here, we suggest taking guru
diksha although it if it is mandatory for a given sadhana it is
clearly mentioned - the rest are open to all.
also if possible please get over this -i am better than them -
feeling. Jealousy is natural in a world like the entertainment
industry where stakes are higher. Just have faith in yourself, do
your best. Forget about worrying whether you are better or worse.
Ego about anything intelligence, beauty, wisdom whatever is the best
way of loosing it. I know anyone can feel this way in bad times, but
the very root of your problems may lie here. whenever we think we
are too good, we automatically loose the desire to improve. why not
focus on your week points and trying to improve them??
jai gurudev
anu
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01-10-2004, 10:16 PM
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#4
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Re: Re: help required, urgent
hi,
thanx for ur reply,
i am happy that here is, atleast one who cared for my
problem, and sincerely tried to anlyse it,
point no1.
please tell me whats that shivakavacha mantra, how to
recite it, and every single details about this, so
that i can start practicing it immediatly, kindly be
very clear and give a simple explanation , so that
even a layman like me can understand it properly.
2point number ,
i am not disputing ur analysis abt me or the people
who think they r better than others, but plz just
bliv me, its like, wen i told u about "them winning
and me losing", a boy who doesent even know abcd..
scoring first,, over a student doing his degree, hope
u understand, but still, i take ur advise and try to
shed my egos, if i have any,
i hope to recieve early reply,
thanx and regards,
matru dhevo bhava
--- devi_bhagat wrote:
---------------------------------
-----hi all,
i am from bangalore, and my profession acting in
movies and
teleserials,
i joined tis group recently, and realised that there
is great lot of
things, i am ignoring in life, an there is a great lot
of benifit i
can extract from this group,
so far, my ways of life are of a most cultured, non
corrupt, non
harming , and helping any one when i can,
even though i had a flying start in my career, later
it turned out
to be something else,
now a days, i dont understand something, wat ever i
do, takes all my
efforts and inspite of my great planning, operation,
and talent,
things will not succeed, and somwehow, manages to
fail, but believe
me there is a strange coincidence in all of them, its
very strange,
if there are 10 things, the only one that choose will
fail always,
other 9 will succeed,
even though i know , i am more talented, more capable,
more
educatied and knowledgeble, and better than 95% of
them all, i am
not able to find even tiny success or happiness,
believe me that its very unnatural,
now i am almost on the edge,
can anyone help me in any way, and give me some
solution, that wont
take a long time
matru dhevo bhave
hello,
A lot of bad luck results from acrruing negative
energies as i wish
to call them without getting into definitions like
tantra badha,
pitra dosha etc which are names which instil fear a we
do not
understand them. A simple understanding that it is a
result of our
own negative thoughts and actions in the past is
sufficient. For
someone who is new to sadhanas almost anything will
help. What has
helped me in this direction is mahakali sadhana as
well as chanting
the amogh shiv kavach uploaded in the files section.
Believe me if
you try it with devotion you will be grateful you
found it for the
rest of your life. As is the custom here, we suggest
taking guru
diksha although it if it is mandatory for a given
sadhana it is
clearly mentioned - the rest are open to all.
also if possible please get over this -i am better
than them -
feeling. Jealousy is natural in a world like the
entertainment
industry where stakes are higher. Just have faith in
yourself, do
your best. Forget about worrying whether you are
better or worse.
Ego about anything intelligence, beauty, wisdom
whatever is the best
way of loosing it. I know anyone can feel this way in
bad times, but
the very root of your problems may lie here. whenever
we think we
are too good, we automatically loose the desire to
improve. why not
focus on your week points and trying to improve them??
jai gurudev
anu
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01-12-2004, 02:07 AM
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Re: help required, urgent
---thank you very much, srinath ji for your detailed reply. Your
mails are always a pleasure to read. It will be wonderful if you can
upload the mantra in your voice in the files section.
hi,
thanx for ur reply,
i am happy that here is, atleast one who cared for my
problem, and sincerely tried to anlyse it,
point no1.
please tell me whats that shivakavacha mantra, how to
recite it, and every single details about this, so
that i can start practicing it immediatly, kindly be
very clear and give a simple explanation , so that
even a layman like me can understand it properly.
i cannot provide you with a pronounciation like srinath, however i
assume your sanskrit is good enough. I purposely kept rules out. My
view is that with devotion, mistakes are forgiven. Have bath early
morning, wear clean clothes set aside for this purpose, and sit
facing east or north. Light a ghee lamp, agarbatti. I do not believe
in forcing others to accept my Guru as theirs. However, having a
guru helps. If you have devotion for lord shiva it will be suffient.
Ask him for help and chant this along with 5 mala of aum namah
shivaay the panchakshari mantra with a rudraksh rosary. Having a
shiv ling (any) in the pooja room (just one) and offering water to
it once a day will be useful. Do that for now, and if possible chant
the kavach 5 or 11 times.
2point number ,
i am not disputing ur analysis abt me or the people
who think they r better than others, but plz just
bliv me, its like, wen i told u about "them winning
and me losing", a boy who doesent even know abcd..
scoring first,, over a student doing his degree, hope
u understand, but still, i take ur advise and try to
shed my egos, if i have any,
ha!ha! you are surely humble. Of course, you I and everyone else has
an ego. These feelings are usually a coverup of deepset inadequacies
and fears -sometimes a fear of an honest self analysis. Why do you
not make a rule --- with every failure, think what you did wrong and
how you can do it better. Irrespective of his huge popularity
Amitabh bacchan was still doing as self analysis, looking at each
scene carefully and thinking how he could do it better. I find it
hard to believe that for some one who is just starting out, you are
already so perfect. if you refuse to introspect, i can only say i
feel sorry for you. Anyway, just a small hint: acting is a
profession in which even if done glamourously you have to replicate
life. It needs a minimum intelligence in order to understand people
i hope to recieve early reply,
thanx and regards,
and a deep capacity to feel. The lesser conscious you are of
yourself, the better for you. And having a magnetic personality will
help. Without that no one will want to see you. I did not call it
good looks mind you, there is much more to it.
Do you have all of them?
anyway, as i said i am busy.
thank you for reading and good luck with your ambitions.
jai gurudev
anu
matru dhevo bhava
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