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I mean to ask this of my teacher too, but i wanted to shoot out something

for advice :).

 

i dont know if its me, if im doing something wrong, or if its just a phase

of spiritual growth, but doing meditation & stuff can sometimes not be the

joyful experience it once was. Its like everything got all serious all of

a sudden.

 

Besides the fact im grasping at something that is not there, is there a

phase in one's development that passes through a kind of seriousness,

where everything is very 'close', and one's emotional reactions seem worse

than before one started spiritual practise?

 

harsha wrote me one time something like 'the buddhist says dont be

bothered!'. problem is, i am bothered, but everything i see people doing

that brings harm (starting w/me), or unhappiness. Its hard to stay

centered.

 

At times, i want to go off into a cave for a while to regroup! :)

 

thanks for listening :)

 

--janpa

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Debora A. Orf wrote:

> I mean to ask this of my teacher too, but i wanted to shoot out something

> for advice :).

>

> i dont know if its me, if im doing something wrong, or if its just a phase

> of spiritual growth, but doing meditation & stuff can sometimes not be the

> joyful experience it once was. Its like everything got all serious all of

> a sudden.

>

> Besides the fact im grasping at something that is not there, is there a

> phase in one's development that passes through a kind of seriousness,

> where everything is very 'close', and one's emotional reactions seem worse

> than before one started spiritual practise?

>

> harsha wrote me one time something like 'the buddhist says dont be

> bothered!'. problem is, i am bothered, but everything i see people doing

> that brings harm (starting w/me), or unhappiness. Its hard to stay

> centered.

>

> At times, i want to go off into a cave for a while to regroup! :)

>

> thanks for listening :)

>

> --janpa

 

Hi,

 

I would simply say that change indicates growth at the hand of Grace

(which you reached out to in meditation), and that judgment of change

impedes growth.

 

What is to be gained in judgment or in "being bothered?" A person can be

an activist and remain an outsider, doing their meditation.

 

Isn't formal meditation, the cave?

 

With love,

Jerry

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---"Debora A. Orf" <dorf01 wrote:

>

> "Debora A. Orf" <dorf01

>

> I mean to ask this of my teacher too, but i wanted to shoot out

something

> for advice :).

>

> i dont know if its me, if im doing something wrong, or if its just a

phase

> of spiritual growth, but doing meditation & stuff can sometimes not

be the

> joyful experience it once was. Its like everything got all serious

all of

> a sudden.

>

> Besides the fact im grasping at something that is not there, is

there a

> phase in one's development that passes through a kind of seriousness,

> where everything is very 'close', and one's emotional reactions seem

worse

> than before one started spiritual practise?

>

> harsha wrote me one time something like 'the buddhist says dont be

> bothered!'. problem is, i am bothered, but everything i see people

doing

> that brings harm (starting w/me), or unhappiness. Its hard to stay

> centered.

>

> At times, i want to go off into a cave for a while to regroup! :)

>

> thanks for listening :)

>

> --janpa

>

> Hi Debora,

 

There are definately peaks and valleys and everything else in-between.

I have often had this problem with my quest. There are no easy

answers, one must find them for oneself. I try not to be attached to

any outcome of what my practice may bring. By attaching any

preconcieved outcome of what my practice may produce my ego

involvement has a penchant for negating anything positive that I may

want to derive from my practice. Practice , practice , practice, let

come what may, everything is sacred.

 

 

Sat Nam

 

 

Larry

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Janpa,

I would be curious to know what type of meditation, how long, and how

often, if I may be so bold...the "bad things" that you view are in fact one

of the three primary energies of MayaShakti--the first of these primary

coverings, or veil of limitation--is called anavamala, and is the limiting

power that provides the universial experient--Siva--with the illusary veil

of limtation and the sphere of difference. There is also the second power,

called mayiyamala, and this brings the illusion of difference among

objects...the third, and very powerful(I believe this is what you are

experiencing)is called karmamala--omnipotence is reduced to limited

activity, the the experient performs and experiences good or bad acts. these

three powers are the limitors of:

1. icchasakti(divine will or the knower)

2. jnanasakti (knowldge or the knowing)

3. kriyasakti (action or the known)

All sentient beings possess the inferior power of kriyasakti--we are

all the known...through effort, we may attain the energy of jnanasakti--the

knowing(here knowing and consciousness/awareness are identical). It is only

by divine grace of the knower (Siva)that we can attain icchasakti. Once this

happens, the individual is said to have attained jivanmukti or

Moksha--liberated while still in the body.

It is this limited, objective view cause by the third maya--karmamala,

that has you at odds...consider this metaphor:

for the sake of argument, lets assume that your body is the omniscient

Siva...each cell could be considered Jiva(Shiva in contracted form) as each

cell has all of the information in its dna for the entire organism(which in

this case represents Shiva). Although you know that you are an entire,

single organism(Shiva), each cell(jiva) sees itself as seperate from all the

rest. This is Maya, for surely each cell possesses the material for the

entire you, and it is within you....Each cell(individual Jiva) has you in

it, and each cell is in you--there is no difference. Now, remember you are

Siva...you cut your finger, and in the process, loose some cells. The cells

beside the lost cells may say (oh why was our brother/sister/mother/father

cell taken from us? or you get a cold, and the white blood cells destroy the

bacteria, with some healthy cells along with it. Again the cells which lost

their kin due to seemingly mindless acts are grieved...or take the red blood

cells, which live for 90 days, then die, and are processed in the

body(mainly the liver) and recycled. This cycle of birth and death causes

the kin of these cells to grieve, why did they have to die. This is

objectivity, this is the veil of karmamala, one of the energies of maya. You

as the complete organism(Shiva) know that these processes are neither good

or bad, they are but processes. You are the absolute subject, not an

objective cell within the subject. you know that these are bodily functions,

not good or bad, only seemingly so to the objective cells that were

immediately affected. When this veil is lifted from the cells, they merge

with you in unity of one divine mind...this cell that does this has achieved

liberation while still a functional cell--Moksha. When the individual cell

realizes that it is synonomous with you, this is the attainment of

jnanasakti--knowing...but do to the cells limitations, this is as far as it

can go alone, which is knowing this...through grace alone you open the cell

up to the oneness of your totality, and viola! Unity. The cell is liberated

while still a functional cell.

I hope this is helpful to at least some degree. I would like to know some of

your meditative practices...there may be some measures that could help allay

some of your concerns.

In Truth

Marcus

 

 

 

 

Jerry M. Katz [umbada]

Thursday, February 04, 1999 2:03 PM

Re: joy & stuff...where'd it go?

 

 

"Jerry M. Katz" <umbada

 

Debora A. Orf wrote:

> I mean to ask this of my teacher too, but i wanted to shoot out something

> for advice :).

>

> i dont know if its me, if im doing something wrong, or if its just a phase

> of spiritual growth, but doing meditation & stuff can sometimes not be the

> joyful experience it once was. Its like everything got all serious all of

> a sudden.

>

> Besides the fact im grasping at something that is not there, is there a

> phase in one's development that passes through a kind of seriousness,

> where everything is very 'close', and one's emotional reactions seem worse

> than before one started spiritual practise?

>

> harsha wrote me one time something like 'the buddhist says dont be

> bothered!'. problem is, i am bothered, but everything i see people doing

> that brings harm (starting w/me), or unhappiness. Its hard to stay

> centered.

>

> At times, i want to go off into a cave for a while to regroup! :)

>

> thanks for listening :)

>

> --janpa

 

Hi,

 

I would simply say that change indicates growth at the hand of Grace

(which you reached out to in meditation), and that judgment of change

impedes growth.

 

What is to be gained in judgment or in "being bothered?" A person can be

an activist and remain an outsider, doing their meditation.

 

Isn't formal meditation, the cave?

 

With love,

Jerry

 

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Gemini asked what kind of meditation im doing.

 

Mostly Vajrayana Buddhist stuff. Which means lots of visualization,

mantras, some study. Intense stuff i do everyday (about 4 sessions of

different types of visualizations etc.)

 

Used to be i'd reach this stage of sensing a great saddness at the edge of

everything, then i could go past that into a serenity. To get there it

required letting go of identifying with the saddness. the serenity didnt

come from *me*, it was just there/here.

 

i guess i noticed this when i noticed that gurus often seem to be laughing

and happy, and here i am very easily upset about everything bad that

happens around me. Lama Lodu warned us of becoming more sensitive to

things, guess that's happening. could be worse! just like, how do u keep

from getting really bummed out about it all? thats the current stage this

person is at. if i identify with anything, its like an invitation back

into this state of 'seriously on the way to being angry at the state of

the world'. Feels kinda like walking a tightrope.

 

thanks for the replies :)!

 

with maitri,

 

--janpa tsomo

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Janpa,

I would like to suggest that you try a core meditation...meditations

can be be brought down to roughly two different types: visualization(good

for relaxation and focusing on energies) and core meditations(meditation

where the is focused attention, or complete mind stillnes, without

attention). These meditations are called core meditations because they

should be the "core" of one's daily meditative practices. Much Grace can be

bestowed during this period of meditating. Grace whispers to us, and to

listen, we must dull the roar of the ego...I am firm in my belief that this

addition to your practices would reap unimaginable benifits for you...the

great part is that this is extraordinarly simple to do...I cannot do

anything but urge you to try this for a week...just a week...if you are

interested I will show you a meditation that is one of the most simple, and

profound that I have seen...and I seen many. The focus of this meditation

has been the vehicle for unimaginable grace, both for myself, and countless

others. Let me know if you are interested...it takes five minutes to learn,

and the yields of the effort make by this by far worthwhile.

Light

Marcus

 

 

Debora A. Orf [dorf01]

Thursday, February 04, 1999 3:24 PM

Re: joy & stuff...where'd it go?

 

 

"Debora A. Orf" <dorf01

 

Gemini asked what kind of meditation im doing.

 

Mostly Vajrayana Buddhist stuff. Which means lots of visualization,

mantras, some study. Intense stuff i do everyday (about 4 sessions of

different types of visualizations etc.)

 

Used to be i'd reach this stage of sensing a great saddness at the edge of

everything, then i could go past that into a serenity. To get there it

required letting go of identifying with the saddness. the serenity didnt

come from *me*, it was just there/here.

 

i guess i noticed this when i noticed that gurus often seem to be laughing

and happy, and here i am very easily upset about everything bad that

happens around me. Lama Lodu warned us of becoming more sensitive to

things, guess that's happening. could be worse! just like, how do u keep

from getting really bummed out about it all? thats the current stage this

person is at. if i identify with anything, its like an invitation back

into this state of 'seriously on the way to being angry at the state of

the world'. Feels kinda like walking a tightrope.

 

thanks for the replies :)!

 

with maitri,

 

--janpa tsomo

 

 

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> "Debora A. Orf" <dorf01

>

> I mean to ask this of my teacher too, but i wanted to shoot out something

> for advice :).

>

> i dont know if its me, if im doing something wrong, or if its just a phase

> of spiritual growth, but doing meditation & stuff can sometimes not be the

> joyful experience it once was. Its like everything got all serious all of

> a sudden.

 

This would indicate that you arrived at a "layer of resistance" or minor

block. The analogy is the clear sky that gets clouded. The clouds will go by

themselves. Equanimity is the keyword; surrender means even the joy of

meditation isn't one's "own". As long as one has feelings, they will be

oscillating between "good" and "bad". For someone enlightened, the

oscillations are just like waves on the ocean but without enlightenment, one

only sees the waves :)

> Besides the fact im grasping at something that is not there, is there a

> phase in one's development that passes through a kind of seriousness,

> where everything is very 'close', and one's emotional reactions seem worse

> than before one started spiritual practise?

 

No doubt there will be more than one phase where things seem worse than

before one's spiritual endeavor. One reason is the increased awareness due

to the practice. Another reason is that the joy of meditation can create

expectation and dependence.

> harsha wrote me one time something like 'the buddhist says dont be

> bothered!'. problem is, i am bothered, but everything i see people doing

> that brings harm (starting w/me), or unhappiness. Its hard to stay

> centered.

 

The Buddha was one of the very few who knew that the bliss of one's real

nature has nothing to do with feelings of any kind. He attained nirvana

without substratum; it means discarding all feelings and they will burn out,

leaving only +who you are+. Compassion has to be practiced when one

experiences difficulties in meditation, it will lead to equanimity.

> At times, i want to go off into a cave for a while to regroup! :)

 

But according to some, you are in a cave already (the cave of the Heart) and

some cutting of knots has to be done.

> thanks for listening :)

>

> --janpa

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Janpa,

In these posts that are all very loving and wise, I must caution that

when we speak of ego "dying" it never does "vanish". It is a necessary

construct to interact in this world. "Iness" disappears, and you have a

person that would bark at themselves if they looked in a mirror...but

rather, we come to understand individual Iness for what it is, a construct

to interact in the day to day world. If my father passed away tommorrow,

their would be tears, but I understand that this sadness is not me--this

emotional state is not me, but rather I am the bacdrop of consciousness that

never changes, is never subject to perturbation...it is the wise person that

realizes that ego mever "dies", but rather is put in its perspective with

the knowledge of true Self--universal Iness.

I never recieved a post from you that stated interest in the inner

sound meditation or not...if you decide to try core meditations, let me

know...

In Truth

Marcus

 

 

jb [kvy9]

Thursday, February 04, 1999 7:19 PM

Re: joy & stuff...where'd it go?

 

 

"jb" <kvy9

> "Debora A. Orf" <dorf01

>

> I mean to ask this of my teacher too, but i wanted to shoot out something

> for advice :).

>

> i dont know if its me, if im doing something wrong, or if its just a phase

> of spiritual growth, but doing meditation & stuff can sometimes not be the

> joyful experience it once was. Its like everything got all serious all of

> a sudden.

 

This would indicate that you arrived at a "layer of resistance" or minor

block. The analogy is the clear sky that gets clouded. The clouds will go by

themselves. Equanimity is the keyword; surrender means even the joy of

meditation isn't one's "own". As long as one has feelings, they will be

oscillating between "good" and "bad". For someone enlightened, the

oscillations are just like waves on the ocean but without enlightenment, one

only sees the waves :)

> Besides the fact im grasping at something that is not there, is there a

> phase in one's development that passes through a kind of seriousness,

> where everything is very 'close', and one's emotional reactions seem worse

> than before one started spiritual practise?

 

No doubt there will be more than one phase where things seem worse than

before one's spiritual endeavor. One reason is the increased awareness due

to the practice. Another reason is that the joy of meditation can create

expectation and dependence.

> harsha wrote me one time something like 'the buddhist says dont be

> bothered!'. problem is, i am bothered, but everything i see people doing

> that brings harm (starting w/me), or unhappiness. Its hard to stay

> centered.

 

The Buddha was one of the very few who knew that the bliss of one's real

nature has nothing to do with feelings of any kind. He attained nirvana

without substratum; it means discarding all feelings and they will burn out,

leaving only +who you are+. Compassion has to be practiced when one

experiences difficulties in meditation, it will lead to equanimity.

> At times, i want to go off into a cave for a while to regroup! :)

 

But according to some, you are in a cave already (the cave of the Heart) and

some cutting of knots has to be done.

> thanks for listening :)

>

> --janpa

 

 

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