How to stay married: Be rich, religious and marry older

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How to stay married: Be rich, religious and marry older

 

ASSOCIATED PRESS

 

July 24 — Hoping to avoid divorce? It helps if you’re wealthy, religious and older when you tie the knot. Couples who decline to live together before marriage have a better shot at staying together, as do those whose parents stayed married, according to a government survey of nearly 11,000 women.

Women whose parents were divorced are significantly more likely to divorce. Among women whose parents stayed together, 29 percent were divorced after 10 years. Among those who came from broken marriages, 43 percent were divorced.

 

ONE IN THREE marriages will end in divorce during their first 10 years, with certain couples more likely to split up than others, finds a survey of women ages 15-44 conducted in 1995 by the National Center for Health Statistics.

 

Overall, by age 30, three in four women have been married and about half have lived with a partner outside marriage.

 

Among the findings released Wednesday:

Women whose parents were divorced are significantly more likely to divorce. Among women whose parents stayed together, 29 percent were divorced after 10 years. Among those who came from broken marriages, 43 percent were divorced.

 

Couples who live together before getting married are more likely to divorce. After 10 years, 40 percent of cohabiting couples had broken up, versus 31 percent of those who did not live together first.

 

“If you have a couple thinking about getting together, they don’t believe it’s right to cohabit. These are also the kind of people not likely to divorce,” said Matthew Bramlett, the report’s lead author.

 

Black women are significantly less likely to marry than white women. By age 30, 81 percent of white women have been married, whereas only 52 percent of black women. Black women are also less likely to remarry after a divorce than white women.

Broken marriages don’t always lead to divorce, with many couples broken up but still legally married. This was particularly true for black women. Just 67 percent of women who were separated from their husbands were divorced three years after the separation. Among Hispanic women, it was 77 percent; among whites, 91 percent.

 

Just over half of divorced women — 54 percent — get married again within five years. For white women, it’s 58 percent, but just 44 percent for Hispanic women and 32 percent for black women. These rates have been falling since the 1950s, when divorced women had a 65 percent chance of remarrying.

A new round of interviews being done now includes both men and women.