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It is just natural to have a sex drive. Try to avoid situations that may cause you to get too lusty. to say dont do it again is just some easy answer to a complex problem. If you have sex desire in your heart and mind isnt that the same as having real sex? Take darshan, chant, and get back up and try again. We are all fallen prabhu.

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yeah sex drive is really difficult to overcome... if you have a serious relationship it's not so bad... if you can get married of course it will be better. you can't be perfetc in such a short time. keep chanting, and avoid siutations that make you lusty. also a clean diet and waking up not so late can help.

Regulation is the key, at first you d it everyday, then every week, two week, and you're doing better? desire will not come that often after some years...

if you wanna talk about it, you can write me, i'm very open discussing this subject as i'm also young and married with a non-devotee girl.i know well the problem.

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Bhagavad-gita As It Is 3.33

Even a man of knowledge acts according to his own nature, for everyone follows the nature he has acquired from the three modes. What can repression accomplish?

 

When in doubt CHANT! CHANT! CHANT!

 

HARE KRSNA!!!

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Committing sinful activities on the strength of the holy name is a great offence to lord and spiritual guru.

Only they can forgive. It is understood that you are repenting for your action. Seeds when gets water sprouts. Similarly, desire transforms into action when gets opportunities. It is very easy to fall from a spiritual platform. Noone can perform such activities by name of God. If any one encourages such, they are real enemy of you and god.

So, only tell to Krishna your problem. He can deliver you.

 

Hare Krishna

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what they have to do? have they to kill themselves?

 

sex urge is very strong, stronger than any our effort... maybe after years of harekrishna chanting and following of sri guru one can transcend..

 

after you have made all this beautiful class, what's the use? if they have this urge they will make sex other 1000 times before marry and othe 10000 after married

 

the only possibile advice is to chant hare krishna, but absolutely avoid frustration and repression, maya is much more stronger than us, he will take control at a certain point and everything will come back all together and more perverted

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yes i agree, better is to understand that sex is not goodforus, and very gradually and carefully give it up, thanx to a spiritual practice.

No frustration and strong unintelligent preaching will help.

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What happens if 2 devotees break one of the four vows? In particular, they engaged in pre-marital sex/ ?

 

I don't know all the consequences. The right thing to do is getting married first and then have relations for having children after chanting 50 rounds each, 5 days after the menstration period and after receiving the permit from the couple's spiritual master. If sex happens otherwise then I suppose both man and woman will have to do many many rounds of japa and austerities in order to diminish the consequences of behaving improperly.

 

Sometimes we ignore the four regulative principles (rp)because we are under illusion. Sometimes we know the four rp and still cannot accomplish because of several reasons like lack of willpower, lack of motivation, feeling exhausted and so on.

 

However, once we started to walk on the paths of bhakti yoga we must return to practise it again sooner or later, if we really believe in Krishna Consciousness.

 

Hare Krishna.

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IF ONE BREAKS THE VOWS, AND ARE ASHAMED OF ONESELF, USE IT TO INCREASE YOUR DETERMINATION SO U WILL NOT MAKE SAME MISTAKE IN FUTURE...

 

IF U FALL AGAIN, JUST KEEP TRYING - KRISHNA HELPS HIS DEVOTEES EVEN IF THEY FALL FROM THEIR VOWS ONCE IN A WHILE...JUST DON'T USE IT AS AN EXCUSE TO BREAK VOWS...

 

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What happens if 2 devotees break one of the four vows? In particular, they engaged in pre-marital sex/ ?

--it happens that we are conditioned souls and we are naturally making mistakes... but it is a greater mistake if, repressing them, they are not peaceful in chanting hare krishna, they start to be angry with others especially vaishnavas and they, at a certain point explode stopping any spiritual practice and doing more and greater sins out of frustration... so we have to be careful applying principles person to person, not abstractly

 

The right thing to do is getting married first and then have relations for having children after chanting 50 rounds each, 5 days after the menstration period

--if they can do it without making the lack of sexual gratification an obsession...

 

and after receiving the permit from the couple's spiritual master

--speculation

 

If sex happens otherwise then I suppose both man and woman will have to do many many rounds of japa and austerities in order to diminish the consequences of behaving improperly.

--speculation... one has to chant constantly hare krsna, 16 rounds is a concession from guru and the fact os austerities is an heresy, dangerous heresy, there's no austerity superior to hare krishna chanting.. these boys are highly respectable vaishnavas even if they have sex, you have to make them your obeisances and help not instillate fear with your fantasies

 

However, once we started to walk on the paths of bhakti yoga we must return to practise it again sooner or later, if we really believe in Krishna Consciousness.

 

--different.... if we practice krsna consciousness, that is essentially chanting hare krishna, krsna will give us the mercy to wipe out our material attachements. Principles depend from chanting, not the opposite.. mind is controlled by krsna, not the opposite

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IF ONE BREAKS THE VOWS, AND ARE ASHAMED OF ONESELF, USE IT TO INCREASE YOUR DETERMINATION SO U WILL NOT MAKE SAME MISTAKE IN FUTURE

-- abhay charan means "not ashamed because he has taken shelter in krsna's lotus feet"... so the cure for fear is not some our mental arrangement, the cure for fear is to trust in the power of harinama

 

IF U FALL AGAIN, JUST KEEP TRYING - KRISHNA HELPS HIS DEVOTEES EVEN IF THEY FALL FROM THEIR VOWS ONCE IN A WHILE..

--wrong, krsna loves his devotees... do not fall to your vow to respect vaishnavas telling them lies, this is very much worse than havin sex

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wrong, krsna loves his devotees... do not fall to your vow to respect vaishnavas telling them lies, this is very much worse than havin sex

 

-- thats what i was saying, krishna loves his devotees, so if u break your vow, just don't lose heart, cos krishna will help you up again...

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