Guest guest Posted August 18, 2003 Report Share Posted August 18, 2003 In a message dated 8/18/03 6:34:02 AM, writes: > Oh, you MUST read The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker, no kidding. Ask PT, > she'll concur. > thanks for the suggestion. believe it or not, i'm a lot stronger than i sound; i just had really bad judgment going into these relationships. i've never been someone who needed a boyfriend, and went for long periods of time during which i did a whole lot of soul-searching before i got into a new relationship. i don't put up with much anymore, and i don't let anyone in my life who doesn't deserve to be there. i do tend to attract really weird people, though -- the people stalking me (aside from my ex) when i left chicago were not people i had ever dated, and one was someone i hardly knew. part of the problem is that i tend to trust just about everyone unless they give me a reason not to. everyone says i'm " too nice. " i tend to give a lot of myself to everyone, and i care too much about others. it shouldn't be a bad thing, but i guess it is. i'm with the greatest guy in the world now, and i'm very lucky to have him. well, maybe not as lucky as he is to have me, but close. melody http://www.melodysmusic.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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