RE: OT.Life/Cheryl-Shari

[Guest guest]

You don't know my personal experiences. You are the one actually judging,

NOT me!

 

Two wrongs don't make a right!

 

Regarding V.K.'s wife, clearly she didn't have a healthy lifestyle or else

she would not have died from breast cancer!

 

 

On Behalf Of SV

Friday, October 31, 2008 3:01 AM

Re: OT.Re: Life/Cheryl

 

 

Until you have gone through an entire summer watching a person suffer,

greatly, do not judge those who believe in this initiative. We just went

through a summer such as this with my mother in law. She had a muscle

degenerative disease and had lived with it for almost 30 years. We talked

for hours about diet and lifestyle change, to no avail. Many years ago we

(husband & I) were told in these exact words by my father in law " stop

talking about changing our food, it upsets your mother. Do not bring up the

subject ever again. " There you have it. She was an upbeat, positive woman

but ate from a can. She lived far beyond the expectations of the medical

community, but the end was gruesome and prolonged. She truly had no dignity

whatsoever left at the end. They had tubes in and out of her in so many

places they had started cutting her to add more. There were fluids backing

up out of those tubes at the end and it was horrific for us as well as her.

She begged to die, she begged us she begged God. And that was a good month

before she actually passed.

 

You cannot sit in judgement until you have sat at the bedside of a person

with blood, bile, and excrement backing out of the orifices of their body

unable to speak but crying and wanting out of this world. Just because she

chose a different lifestyle than mine she is banned from leaving this world

for the next plane? What about Viktoras Kulvinskas' wife? She passed from

breast cancer and you can't tell me she didn't choose an alternative

" healthy " lifestyle?!

 

This is a moronic discussion about something so personal you cannot put it

into words. If and when I want to die I know just how to do it and who to

talk to about helping me with our without your " permission " .

 

Shari