Guest guest Posted January 29, 2003 Report Share Posted January 29, 2003 I disagree in a mild way. People must grow together, or they'll surely grow apart. This means compromise and some consideration of differences. If meat-eating is a deal-breaker, no reason why you should settle, but holding out for Ms. Perfect is silly simply because no one ever is. It's not a Cinderella story; life requires some reasonable give-and-take. Just remember to be open to a person's spirit, and pay attention to your instincts, and if both folks in the relationship are independent, whole people, they can work things out. On Wednesday, January 29, 2003, at 10:08 AM, wrote: > And I don't think it's a bad thing to hold out until you find someone > perfect- after all what's the point of having someone who is not perfect > for you it will just cause pain & unhappiness in the long term. > " When I tell any truth it is not for the sake of convincing those who do not know it, but for the sake of defending those who do. " -- William Blake Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2003 Report Share Posted January 29, 2003 the stewarts: : instincts, and if both folks in the relationship are : independent, whole : people, they can work things out. : i think this is the most key thing, *in*dependent, no codependent. kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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