To Elchanan - Peaceful Communication [Should]

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From your recommended site:

 

LEARNING NVC IS LEARNING TO:

 

Build relationships based on compassion and understanding

Accurately understand other people's feelings and needs

Be assertive and flexible at the same time

Break patterns of thinking that lead to anger and depression.

 

Many have commmented that they notice you disregard these above basic

principles in this group. You referencing NVC appears to be simply

another tool you use to try to debase another's differing rationale by

trying to decoratively attack their character or attempt to draw

attention to something else that isn't necessarily there, in a classic

red herring approach. The part about being " flexible " really stood out

to me. Why can't we all agree that there is more than one path to raw.

I don't expect everyone to see everything as I do. Nobody on this group

truly seems to expect that or insult others who they see as an obstacle

t their totalitarian opinions but yourself. Where does that stem from?

Erica