Deanna (cooking meat for Grandpa)

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Yep, exactly, LOL. He's 75 years old and I figure he's old enough to make

his own choices, he doesn't need me playing food police, LOL. I do make sure he

eats right, but if he wants the meat, I can't tell him no. It's his home,

not mine, therefore I can eat how I want but I can't tell him how to eat or

what to do. He's made it this long and I respect him and and, as you said,

grant

him the dignity he deserves.

 

Sara

 

In a message dated 11/22/2006 4:28:10 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,

genny_y2k writes:

 

Sarah,

I am so sorry to hear that your grandmother has died. I know how much

you must miss her as I still miss mine and she has been gone for 30 yrs.

Do what you feel is right for your grandfather. My daugter says that

her grandmother(her grandmother(<WBR>my mother) who is 87 has the right no

do as she pleases. Mother is in excellent health and has a very good

diet,lives alone and takes care of her self and her home. But she

sometimes chooses to eat what some in the family consider to be " bad

for her food " ..She will at times bake a cake and eat it over a week's

time. After 87 years we honor her wishes and treat her with the dignity

and respect she deserves.

Sending peaceful thoughts, smiles and hugs your way

Deanna