Guest guest Posted October 19, 2003 Report Share Posted October 19, 2003 Humor is NOT automatically a sign of disrespect. In fact, I feel quite the opposite. Many of my acquaintances frequently harass me about my veg*ism in a joking manner, but, we get along extremely well. Why? Because I consider their humor a sign of respect. But, the best thing about such humor is that it opens up communication, and in contexts other than this list, it gives everybody an opportunity to discuss things they normally wouldn't feel comfortable talking about. Furthermore, humor often emphasizes a point stronger than any vulgarity or SHOUTING could do. Regarding my e-mail, I think it's pretty clear which statements are serious and which ones are not. Perhaps I'm wrong, but I feel that any reasonably intelligent person could tell which statements are which. So, why don't I try a serious, non-humorous approach? Simple - 1) it's not me, 2) it wasn't intended to offend anybody, 3) it got my point across, and 4) perhaps people need to lighten up! We are, after all, talking about cats here. It must be horrible to live in an uptight world where humor must be dictated or relegated to specific times, places, or topics. So, Marcy, thanks for your input. I respect your opinion (seriously, I do). However, it is unlikely that I'm going to change my style. I have a suggestion for you, and I mean this seriously as well. Somewhere in your mail program, or perhaps through your ISP there is a way to filter e-mail messages from particular addresses. You should put me on this " blocked sender " list so that you never have to read an e-mail message from me again. I'm guessing you'll feel better if you do. Take care, --Brian - Marcy Greenhut sfBAVeg Saturday, October 18, 2003 4:31 PM Re: [sfBAVeg] Vegan Cats I really do appreciate a sense of humor, but you are coming off as disrespectful, publicly joking at someone else's serious comments (in this message and your subsequent one). Is there a reason you don't want anyone to take these comments seriously? Why are you being so disrespectful toward someone else's views? There is a way to respectfully disagree. Why don't you try one of them? Marcy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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