Guest guest Posted March 23, 2001 Report Share Posted March 23, 2001 Dear Mallon,<br><br>For reasons I am not sure about, talking about cultural differences is very rarely welcome.<br><br>It maybe because we just like to take our own culture for granted.<br><br>So here goes:<br><br>We perceive by making distinctions.<br>A common distinction in your culture is between being sincere or being phoney.<br>The corresponding distinction in my culture is being amusing or being boring.<br>This cultural difference leads to constant misunderstanding.<br><br>So for you to call me honest is high praise in your culture but it calls forth a cynical response in my culture.<br><br>To call me witty is an act of generosity and understanding in your culture but to respond in a witty way is genuine praise in mine.<br><br>I think I understand now why it is difficult, almost rude to talk about cultural differences. It's because these distinctions actually say what is good or bad in private behaviour. And we don't like to say when we think the other person is being bad.<br><br>And of course they are not being bad, they are being good according to a different distinction.<br><br>So we perceive by making distinctions and we like to take our perceptions for granted. So when we meet people who make different distinctions, our very perceptions are called into question. This is very uncomfortable for everybody.<br><br>So just as those who take thinking seriously must accept that cognitive dissonance makes everyone uncomfortable, so those who communicate across cultures must accept that different cultural distinctions make everyone uncomfortable.<br><br>The advantage in doing this is we stop, covertly, blaming the other person. The second advantage is that we start examining our own distinctions which we take for granted. The third advantage is comparative advantage: you can do some things well that I struggle to do and vice versa.<br><br>This is important for the raw food movement because a lever that stretches from Taxas to Canberra, gives a lot of leverage.<br><br>Victor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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